I would take a box and put inside of it everything I got from him or that is somehow related to him (gifts, pictures, memories... ). I would ask him for the first and last time if he's sure he wants to break up with me. I would give him back his stuff, delete every single picture I took with him, his messages, my call history and block his number. I won't cry or make it seem like my life is over. I'll take a few weeks/months just for myself and do the things I like the most. I'll make sure to live my life to the fullest.
If he treats you badly then just leave. It's his loss not yours. Meet a ton of good people, make new friends and go out with another man once you've healed from your break up. Right now, it probably seems like your whole world crashed but time heals even the deepest of wounds.
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To make it look like you DON’T want revenge
If it’s obvious that you want revenge like you’re asking about, then it’s obvious to him that you care.
Live your life the way you would if he didn’t exist. And it doesn’t hurt if you add a much hotter guy than he is in there too lol
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The best thing you can do is take a little time to grieve the loss of your relationship with him.. it is over, she gave him an ultimatum and he chose her. Get the grieving out of your system and move on. Leave him behind and be genuinely happy. Moving on is the best way to tell him.. 🖕
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