There was a girl I met that I had no feelings for at all, but I decided to get coffee with her because we knew each other in high school and it was something to do. After 3 hours of talking about everything, and listening to her keep up with some heady topics, I had a romantic interest in her. Intelligence is sexy.
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I vote yes. But now that I think about it. Probably not. I keeping going Socrates on them and make them question their own reality. They feel uncomfortable. We keep asking questions and eventually they contradict themselves or have no answer.
I'm going to stick to the "average" girls.
I love girls who are open-minded and have strong opinions. I'd love to discuss modern day issues with a girl like that.
Yes , not necessarily really intelligent but at least can hold a conversation and spontaneous
I couldn't date someone who couldn't hold their own in an intellectual conversation.
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If someone I have a romantic interest in is able to go head to head with me in an intelligent/in-depth subject, then I'm infinitely more likely to pursue a relationship with them. I love it when girls keep me on my toes on debate subjects, beliefs, interests, etc.
Hell yes. A woman that can hold a good conversation that doesn't involve references to soaps on TV, make up, exes and that doesn't involve inane giggling is such a turn on.
A woman with an intricate and detailed knowledge of socio-political matters, regardless of political viewpoint, is a hell of a turn onNo, i have got my colleagues and some good friends to discuss intellect, which are more of arguements over various hypothesis, i prefer my girl to strike me emotionally than intellectually, ofc there would be deep talks but i won't prefer them over romance.
If and only if it is a topic of mutual interest otherwise it is "yeah.. uh hu... uh hu... check please"
This is one of the most important things that attracts me... if not THE most important. If you can show me your mind and I'm impressed, I might as well be falling for you.
Yea, I like all people who can hold an intellectual conversation. Personally I've found it hard to find women who're able to hold intellectual conversations. Very few... Very few. Rarity level 1000.
I'd get bored. I don't like having conversations that make me have to think deeply. I'd rather just connect with a girl on an emotional level instead of trying to solve world hunger.
Yeah I'm not intetested in romance drama... a woman who can talk about intellectual things is very attractive to me.
Well i like only that type of girl,,,,, i believe most of the time guys get bored by talking about thr romance or something like that
With out a good, interesting conversation there will never be a first or second meeting/date
Yeah ofc, although too much of that and not enough romance/ un-adulterated fun is a bad thing
I like intellectual conversations about sexual degeneracy.
Hell yeah and it kinda turns me on like aaaauuuuuuuuuu
I love a girl who can hold a good conversation period. An intellectual one is a plus. Denseness bores me.
i like conversation when it is going always to about my likings :DDD
It should be balanced. But definitely the girl who can hold intellectual conversation is a turn on.
thats what i have with my girlfriend and i love it
Oh Yeah! I'm a sapiosexual
Yes. I like guys like that
No, I prefer if they can't hold an intellectual conversation
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