Do you enjoy intense intellectual conversations?

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Novacane · Accepted Answer

Yes more than small talk, i always disliked small talk because frankly I never cared. But I always enjoyed having deep intellectual talks with people, it’s even better when they have a different view than me because I can challenge them on their views, but I never disagree with them, i know everyone has a different view so challenging then gives me a better idea of their perspective. Even if I agree I will challenge them but I always let them know that I just want to see what their thought are. i would say I am a very unbiased person as I always try to understand both sides

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

Yescmy grandfather mentioned that even as a child he never met someone like me constantly asking questions and the having more questions after each one. My mind is never satisfied with one answer and needs to see all perspectives before making choices. I also want to know how things work and why they work that way.

sage2021 · Answer

I really need to have intellectual stimulation in my life, preferably every day. I had a boyfriend until recently, and we would have the best conversations about anything and everything. We laughed a lot too. We never argued about any of our conversations. I am really going to miss that part of my life after having conversations with him everyday for four years. And I know he will miss them as well. He used to tell me that was one of the things he loved best about me, and that no one else in the universe could talk with him like me. Now, well, now I won't have those type of conversations with anyone, just watch tv and let my brain go to waste. 💔👫💔

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Well, the definition of intense intellectual conversation might be difficult here.

I do enjoy conversations of various depths and intensity. Sometimes you have such a conversation where you just forget about time and space and I love that.
But intellectual is different for each person. And it would also depend on the topic.

There's also the fact that people have different levels of intellect, and it can vary depending on the topic. Not only because of "intellect," but also because of interest.

So maybe let's just say that I enjoy deep conversations on various topics instead.

jaybee281 · Answer

If I'm being honest - They're the only conversations I actually enjoy - Like okay I listen to people and hear them gossip about whatever but unless I can make jokes about it it isn't fun at all - Meanwhile intellectual/philosophical conversations - I just don't want to shut up for hours

Lliam · Answer

I do! As long as there is no dogmatism or defensiveness. I love exchanging thoughts with intelligent, informed, curious, open minded people.

StephBelsten · Answer

Very much! But only when the other person sees it as just a discussion, and not an argument. It can be fun to rethink your standpoints in a way that isn't antagonistic

Akumuviral · Answer

Yes, i love learning. Mental stimulation is a must for me.
I don't do small talk. I don't like talking about myself or my life. I don't like talking about other people. I'm not good at starting conversations. But I'm responsive.

I'm a listener more than a talker.

ohshee · Answer

If it's deep and meaningful I absolutely love it If . Its a challenge I love it. it's a turn-on when you're with the opposite sex And it makes you grow as s person

Kittycurious · Answer

Always. I'm not much for small talk. And I prefer intelligent men who challenge me

taylorallen · Answer

Of course. I'm very smart myself, also very open minded. I've been surrounded by people my whole life who think different than me. I'm in a small town, by the way. I'd like to have a conversation like these... because I don't get them much.

Anonymous · Answer

I used to.
But no more. I spent that time incorrectly. It did not improve any aspect of my life.
Nowadays I'm simply chasing money.
Fortunately becoming rich does not require being intelligent. There are people like Tekashi 6ix9ine, who are worth 8 million dollars at the young age of 25.

WhiteSteve · Answer

Sometimes. But I can quickly get burned out and want to drop the whole thing because I probably don’t ultimately care that much about what I’m debating lmao.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes, I do enjoy intense intellectual conversations. But I rarely come across any. Shout out to @nomoturtle.

DaveJord · Answer

Not intense, but Intellectual is fine. I mean when you say intense there comes a point that it can start generating some anxiety.

Seangreen · Answer

That's what I live for but a lot of people don't see things the way I do because I know reality sucks and I don't want to live in a fairy tale world sometimes you got to eat shit in this life

prakhindev92 · Answer

Yes , i just like to listen to the other person , and yes have a conversation , it helps me to figure out how good a person is or how full of shit they are

Nomoturtle · Answer

I live for them. I'm going to have to find a wife that can deal with that lol.

Deathraider · Answer

I mean that depends on what you mean by intellectual conversation. I like it when it’s actually is fruitful and not when somebody said they saw something on a documentary.

buttsniffer · Answer

whats an intellectual conversation? maybe im jus retarded, but all and every kind of conversion is stupid and pointless to me give examples

DavidHart · Answer

intellectual conversation? That is so rare to encounter.. i hope to find one that flows with me..

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Well that depends. I actually prefer to have a solid engaging conversation, that doesn't have to rely solely on intellect.

elizamichale1 · Answer

lol i am not the one who would be able to engage much in those conversations

exitseven · Answer

Yes, There are a few people that I really like to talk about technology, cars or history with.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Intense? Sounds like it would be a discussion. The topics I cpnverse about can't be discussed much.

AlexEfron · Answer

Unless it's intellectual sense of humour... No. 🤣 I'd rather watch/hear someone but not engage in a conversation that deep

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

No. Usually those lead to debates. I don't "debate."

SorrowAdvisor25 · Answer

Of course, I used to have them almost every day with a colleague from my previous workplace before I left.

dragoblack · Answer

Absolutely. Being able to have intellectual conversations is a rarity nowadays due to people not being able to handle even a little awkwardness.

ODC2112 · Answer

I enjoy only intense intellectual conversations, other are boring and almost useless.

Jay3344 · Answer

Yes, but more and more I want to have them without confrontation.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes as long as the person is respectful just in case we disagree on something.

dustybiker · Answer

No. I dumb my dial down to 5% these days.

TrueConfection · Answer

Intense? No. It also depends on the subject.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes, if it's a dialogue

AncientWisdom · Answer

Oh yes it can be hard to come by sometimes though.

Not_Average · Answer

Indeed. It's always refreshing.

loveslongnails · Answer

I do !! Followed by intense sex !!!

pleasestopthis · Answer

Sure, if it's about a subject I'm interested in

Gofloin · Answer

Yes, It can be very arousing

Shark_61695 · Answer

Yeah, as long as it doesn't become an argument.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Absolutely. I can't stand chit chat.

Quidthonian · Answer

Definite yes. I am a geek.

cookiecrusher · Answer

I don't think i'm smart enaugh for thaf

Waldoe · Answer

depends on the topic...

Guido · Answer

Yes it's very stimulating

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

yes i do got to be open for any conversations

EaterPeter · Answer

Absolutely ocassionally

legalboxers · Answer

Those are the only conversation should matter

Johnhunny88333 · Answer

@stephbelsten very much so about any subject 😍

Flower7 · Answer

Yes, I love them!

Abinav08 · Answer

Only if it makes any sense

TwinkleLily5 · Answer

Yes,

love98_ · Answer

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slatyb · Answer

I do.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Won't really get you laid,

sensible27 · Answer

I serve butter

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Yes!!!

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Sure, to an extent.

Gosselinfan · Answer

Yes I do

OddBeMe · Answer

thats why im here

Jamie05rhs · Answer

YES.

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