Yes more than small talk, i always disliked small talk because frankly I never cared. But I always enjoyed having deep intellectual talks with people, it’s even better when they have a different view than me because I can challenge them on their views, but I never disagree with them, i know everyone has a different view so challenging then gives me a better idea of their perspective. Even if I agree I will challenge them but I always let them know that I just want to see what their thought are. i would say I am a very unbiased person as I always try to understand both sides
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Yescmy grandfather mentioned that even as a child he never met someone like me constantly asking questions and the having more questions after each one. My mind is never satisfied with one answer and needs to see all perspectives before making choices. I also want to know how things work and why they work that way.
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I really need to have intellectual stimulation in my life, preferably every day. I had a boyfriend until recently, and we would have the best conversations about anything and everything. We laughed a lot too. We never argued about any of our conversations. I am really going to miss that part of my life after having conversations with him everyday for four years. And I know he will miss them as well. He used to tell me that was one of the things he loved best about me, and that no one else in the universe could talk with him like me. Now, well, now I won't have those type of conversations with anyone, just watch tv and let my brain go to waste. 💔👫💔
Well, the definition of intense intellectual conversation might be difficult here.
I do enjoy conversations of various depths and intensity. Sometimes you have such a conversation where you just forget about time and space and I love that.
But intellectual is different for each person. And it would also depend on the topic.
There's also the fact that people have different levels of intellect, and it can vary depending on the topic. Not only because of "intellect," but also because of interest.
So maybe let's just say that I enjoy deep conversations on various topics instead.If I'm being honest - They're the only conversations I actually enjoy - Like okay I listen to people and hear them gossip about whatever but unless I can make jokes about it it isn't fun at all - Meanwhile intellectual/philosophical conversations - I just don't want to shut up for hours
I do! As long as there is no dogmatism or defensiveness. I love exchanging thoughts with intelligent, informed, curious, open minded people.
Very much! But only when the other person sees it as just a discussion, and not an argument. It can be fun to rethink your standpoints in a way that isn't antagonistic
Yes, i love learning. Mental stimulation is a must for me.
I don't do small talk. I don't like talking about myself or my life. I don't like talking about other people. I'm not good at starting conversations. But I'm responsive.
I'm a listener more than a talker.If it's deep and meaningful I absolutely love it If
. Its a challenge I love it. it's a turn-on when you're with the opposite sex
And it makes you grow as s personAlways. I'm not much for small talk. And I prefer intelligent men who challenge me
Of course. I'm very smart myself, also very open minded. I've been surrounded by people my whole life who think different than me. I'm in a small town, by the way. I'd like to have a conversation like these... because I don't get them much.
I used to.
But no more. I spent that time incorrectly. It did not improve any aspect of my life.
Nowadays I'm simply chasing money.
Fortunately becoming rich does not require being intelligent. There are people like Tekashi 6ix9ine, who are worth 8 million dollars at the young age of 25.Sometimes. But I can quickly get burned out and want to drop the whole thing because I probably don’t ultimately care that much about what I’m debating lmao.
Yes, I do enjoy intense intellectual conversations. But I rarely come across any. Shout out to @Nomoturtle.
Not intense, but Intellectual is fine. I mean when you say intense there comes a point that it can start generating some anxiety.
That's what I live for but a lot of people don't see things the way I do because I know reality sucks and I don't want to live in a fairy tale world sometimes you got to eat shit in this life
Yes , i just like to listen to the other person , and yes have a conversation , it helps me to figure out how good a person is or how full of shit they are
I live for them. I'm going to have to find a wife that can deal with that lol.
I mean that depends on what you mean by intellectual conversation. I like it when it’s actually is fruitful and not when somebody said they saw something on a documentary.
whats an intellectual conversation? maybe im jus retarded, but all and every kind of conversion is stupid and pointless to me
give examplesintellectual conversation?
That is so rare to encounter..
i hope to find one that flows with me..Well that depends. I actually prefer to have a solid engaging conversation, that doesn't have to rely solely on intellect.
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