Why do guys never stick around?

[Anonymous]

im 24, and in highschool no guys dated me. I've had 1 boyfriend and hed never take me out on a date. he broke up with me saying he was embarrassed by me. its been 3 years since that and i haven't even been on a date. My friends set me up with Tinder because thats how they met their boyfriends of 2 years now. they thought itd help. I end up just getting so upset though. i match with a guy, we talk for a bit. everything seems to go good, and he's complimenting me he asks for my snap, and still things go good, and then there's mornings i wake up to snap him and i find out they blocked me off of snap and tinder. it hurts so bad... not even a goodbye. Or worse... theyll add me on snap and immediately block me. I kinda gave up for the most part bc it hurts a lot knowing someone you think you might have a fling with block you. On Sunday i matched with a guy. He was just like damn you're so good looking. and we talked and things were going so well. he kept saying how sweet i was, and he thought it was super cute i was like a foot shorter than him. After a bit of our conversation we talked about why we were on tinder. he told me he just got it. i told him i was about done with it and explained how guys just block me, and how im super shy and dont really wanna one night stand. he completely understood and explained guys that just block are assholes, and how could anyone ever do that to such a sweet girl like me. he was really charming. we took it to snap, and he couldnt wait to hang out with me. Again... i snap him this morning saying goodmorning only to find out he blocked me.. He still was matched with me. on Tinder so i asked him why he blocked me and he ended up just unmatching me... no explanation at all... why would he do this especially after knowing its happened so much to me. it hurts so bad... I've tried doing so much to find a date my friends have even tried setting me up... the guys usually try and hit on them. instead. why am i never good enough? why do guys always block me.

[Kyren]

A lot of men online aren't really looking to be committed in a relationship but would rather have a hook-up or a casual relationship with no knots tied. I'd say it's pretty cowardly on their part that they can simply hide behind a screen with no sense of dignity and common courtesy if they don't feel like they match up with someone. There are good men out there and you'll more likely find them outside the internet where they can show their true colors much more easily. You not finding anyone has nothing to do with you but the poor choices these men made in leading you on like that! Eventually you'll meet up with the genuine guy who'll adore you for who you are and not run away on the spot. Honestly I feel bad for all the women who are looking for a serious, committed relationship and end up finding flaky, spineless men who don't have the courtesy to explain why they don't talk to them anymore but instead ghost off like a lot of people do.

[chriscdi]

I think they just wanted to meet up, smash, and move on, seeing that you took it to snap makes it look like it might take time to get in those pants so they blocked you, just a bunch of horny man whores, its not you missy just keep looking, you'll find someone, ignore the idiotic crap 😊

[goddess87]

One guys your age will rarely stick around for anything. The next thing is you need to stop tossing off on tinder and the internet so that you can go out and meet a real person in real life. People use tinder for many reasons so being matched doesn't mean he's suddenly going to be committed to you.

[BigRob420]

Men speak 900 words a day, women speak 9000. Talking to someone three times a day 7 days a week feels like a job. Try silently watching a movie or just texting them responses only. It seems needy to talk that much.

[scruby]

Meet modern dating... I hate it aswell, can't be helped... Just keep tring you will find someone

[Myrdices]

Don't worry about it some dudes are douchebags just be lucky you didn't end up having to deal with these assholes

[zombiebacon21]

Hey ur story pretty much sound like my luck with the ladies, ik it sucks , are u okay

[rmgnow]

Just a big blocking mystery, huh?

[ammar114]

Yeah.. It seems there is some problem with your snapchat account... Not in you

[ammar114]

Oh sorry... i replied to your comment...

[nick7696]

Bad luck