Girls, would you spend the whole day with a guy you weren't interested in?

[Anonymous]

Girls, would you spend the whole day with a guy you weren't interested in, even if you were friends? Would you do this multiple times if you didn't romantically like a guy. And I'm talking one-on-one here, not a group thing.

To me, it just don't seem like a girl would do something like that(generally anyways).

[selfishstars]

Yeah.. if I'm friends with someone, I like to spend time with them/hang out with them, even all day sometimes. So whether I'm romantically interested in a guy, or if I'm just friends with him, I would still spend a whole day with him, multiple times.

[doublerainbow]

I would spend a whole day with a guy friend on multiple days...even if I wasn't interested in him as a boyfriend or lover. I would also do the same with a guy friend I was interested in.

[Asker]

I guess I'm just confused then. The girl I've been seeing always does whatever I ask of her. I don't abuse this, but I don't get it. She told me she "doesn't want a relationship to ruin our great friendship"

Does that mean she's into me, but is scared for our friendship? I mean, she didn't tell me she DIDN'T like me. I would think a girl would tell you that if she really didn't so she would not give you false hope...

[doublerainbow]

I know you care about this girl but I think you need to let go of the idea of being with her. Move on and find a girl who is interested in a relationship besides a friendship. If you can stay friends, great but if you are always wanting more, do yourself a favor and stay away from her (for a while anyway). I really don't think she wants anything more than a friendship and is being nice...if you want to know for sure...ask her. Good luck <3

[Theonegirl]

I would and have spend the day with a man I'm not interested in as anything more than a friend. There is nothing wrong with just being friends with someone of the opposite sex(: