He said he dreamed about me?

[Anonymous]

He said "Hey my beautiful little slut :) I have had a dream about you every night"
I said "Awe, I wish I was there to cuddle with you"
Him: I need you in my arms baby its killing me
Me: You will, really really soon! :) You're worth the wait. What kind of dreams you having about me? Would love to know ;)
Him: Just waking up to you curled in my arms and laying my head on your chest as you play with my hair
What does this mean?

[GetzRekt]

He has had a dream about you every night? Yeah, that's a lie. How many times have you had a dream about the same thing for even two nights in a row, let alone every night? He's laying on the romantic stuff because he thinks that's what you want to hear.

[Asker]

is he just trying to get sex from me or a relationship? he talks about meeting me and the earliest that is happening is in a year. He talks about plans with me in a year. Do guys really wait that long? especially when he knows I dont send nudes right now?

[GetzRekt]

A guy can be interested in both. I can't condemn him for saying what he is saying, he is telling some white lies to convey his feelings for you. I don't think that his motivation is sinister. There is nothing that says he is only into you for sex and from what you've just said it seems like he's not. Don't worry about it.

[Asker]

Okay :) and I mean I've wondered if things are moving too fast because it's been 2 months and he already seems sure that I'm right for him. He saids that he has high hopes that we will be a thing.

[GetzRekt]

You have plenty of time to slow things down if you need to, there is a year before you can meet in person. You have time to be sure that he's someone you want to meet.

[djmzes]

Slut!!!
Impressive...
Do you have dignity and shame inside you?

[Asker]

He doesn't call me that on a regular basis, its just a sexual thing he calls me, just as he likes it when I call him daddy or sir/ master and stuff. We dont get sexual all the time 70% of all our convos is him telling me about his day me telling him about my day, funny stuff, future plans, etc. He shows his respect for me, and doesn't treat me like a literal slut. I mean, I told him I dont send nudes and he never forces me to. He says that he loves for me to make my own choices and he'd never force me. He wants to call and talks to me and we talk about dating an living together. I don't know if its too fast but he seems invested in a future with me

[djmzes]

no matter what in the long run, it will be abusive.
Believe or not, one day you will see it.
I do not think you will want that someone called your sister or mom a slut while taking.
That does not mean that when you love someone, you do not have to be respected.
That what is actually getting treated like a sex object

[djmzes]

First is communication... then it becomes to actions

[Asker]

he doesn't call me that around others. He is a mature guy and he knows when it's appropriate. He calls me that like only when we kinda sext. He calls me his princess, love, babe, baby, babygirl, etc way more often than his little slut. He loves calling me all his as well.

[blubblubblub]

well the fact that he calls you his beautiful little slut says a lot. I dont think he's interested in anything more than sex. he's probably just trying to butter you up.

[Anonymous]

Normally I would say that he is extremely into you but... he calls you 'beautiful little slut'?
Damn, problems.

[Buckzor]

99% of the time guys say this, they didn't dream about you, they're just explaining a scenario they WANT to happen with you two.

He pretty much just hinted he wants you to cuddle with him and likely lead to sex. Pretty obvious is it not?

[Asker]

when guys want sex from a girl does that automatically mean that he only wants her for secx and not a relationship? I mean he talks about meeting me and the earliest that is happening is in a year. He talks about plans with me in a year. Do guys really wait that long? especially when he knows I dont send nudes right now?

[Buckzor]

That's hard for me to just straight up say yes or no to. Guys are different, and have their own intentions. I don't think I could ever have sex with someone and just ghost them straight after, or at least not want to still interact with her, but that's just me.

Why is it going to take a year to meet? Is it a LDR? Most guys won't wait anywhere near that long, no.

[Asker]

We met on here actually 2 months ago. He followed me after I posted a question of how I looked. He didn't DM me but he said I was cute and followed me. We started talking and now, here we are. We talk on snap and text message and we have each other's phone number. He hasn't used gag the week after meeting me, and from what I saw I was the only girl he really flirted with on GaG. He is always the one who initiates getting my number, future plans, dates, living together, etc. Fastest we can meet is in a year because that's when he moves to where I live for his job and stuff.

[Idontgetitatall]

"Beautiful little slut" huh? He wants to get laid. Another mystery solved.

P. S. I'm pretty sure he had no dream about you.

[Asker]

Yeah Was sure he had no dream either, I really like him but I haven't had dreams about him yet. I don't know he really talks about our future and living together and taking me on dates, etc. I know he really likes me sexually, but he doesn't push me at all. I said I'd never send nudes or anything super innappropriate and he gives me 102% of his respect. He says we can work around it and that I'm his girl and he wants for me to make my own choices

[Idontgetitatall]

I'm sorry, if I looked at your age in the first place, I wouldn't give an answer at all. Best of luck.

[Asker]

I'm almost 18 and he's just a little bit older.

[Kiels01]

This means he wants in your pants and probably nothing more

[Asker]

when guys want sex from a girl does that automatically mean that he only wants her for secx and not a relationship? I mean he talks about meeting me and the earliest that is happening is in a year. He talks about plans with me in a year. Do guys really wait that long? especially when he knows I dont send nudes right now?

[Kiels01]

He's just trying to sweet talk you into sending nudes, he prob has no interest in actually meeting you

[edgyfox]

He might want to be in a relationship with you.

[Asker]

sometimes he ignores my texts even when I ask him a question. He's told me before that sometimes he needs alone time but when he talks to me he is all sweet and tells me how much he likes me. I don't know if he just likes me sexually and stuff, like why would he ignore me :(

[Asker]

He also told me he wants to be a thing with me

[edgyfox]

Men often need their alone time that's normal. But to know for sure see how much time he wants to spend with you, See if and how much money he spends on you without you asking for anything. Than you'll know if he likes you. :)

[Asker]

Okay! thank you! :) and do you think this was clingy of me? he always opens it within an hour but he doesn't reply. I sent a text saying "It's okay if you dont feel like talking to me :) I just wanna make sure you're okay, and that everything is okay. I'll stop bugging you now, goodbye :) " and then he said "Idk I'm drunk rn"

[edgyfox]

Not at all it's good to show someone that you care.

[Asker]

Alrighty I'll talk your word for it!

[edgyfox]

No problem.

[RedRobin]

He called you a slut... That solves it all...

[Asker]

I learned that guys say it in 2 different ways. A slut means just a slut. His slut, his little slut implies that he has a sexual connection with her and is expressing in a way that he doesn't want to share her with other people

[Kiels01]

Nope, it just means he wants to fuck you - there isn't another option.

[RedRobin]

Yeah, what @Kiels01 said

[DoctorWize]

He is looking for a baby booty.

[markjohn9696]

maybe he wants a night only

[Asker]

when guys want sex from a girl does that automatically mean that he only wants her for secx and not a relationship? I mean he talks about meeting me and the earliest that is happening is in a year. He talks about plans with me in a year. Do guys really wait that long? especially when he knows I dont send nudes right now?

[markjohn9696]

if he fantasises here and loves her so much then he must stay with her in relationship too long

[mythreya18]

He wants to do sex with you

[PrettyRegular]

He's crushed. If you like him, go for it.

[didie7675]

He just want to fuck with you

[S9_Outcast]

Yeah a wet dream