I just saw him in my dream again , should I let him know about it?

[arha_crewa]

so here is the deal , we are friends for like months now , we talk about everything and i usually dont get comfortable with guys that easily , i felt with him. as i said we are friends. i had something for him i knew it after some time we talked and never gave myself that luxury to think he might like me too. cause after all expectations hurts like shit. so it was his birthday and i saw him in my dreams, he was giving me a tight hug for like 5 sec. and the next day he was the only one who was on my mind and i felt embarrassment all over my face. kind of wanted to tell him but thats when things got fucked and we stopped talking like we used to. after a while for what reasons i donno he didn't texted me for days and came back saying " time to socialize again '' that kind of hurt my feelings and i did replied but late. ya shouldn't have done that. after few more days or weeks i opened up to my friend about this and she made me realize how every little details i remembered that concerns him. and yes i like him. i knew i do. but didn't wanted to admit it. but i did. the following day , when i reached home i texted him , we talked and he confessed. he confessed about liking someone else. well that broke my heart into tiny little pieces. he still has no idea how i feel about him so not his fault tho. i was sad , depressed , and decided to move on cause that would be easy or not. but then today i saw him again. should i tell him about this? like text him. what were you doing in my dream. or that sounds lame and i should shut up? cause its been days since he texted me and i left him delivered. :) help

[SueShe]

No, you don't text him about your dreams because you only put yourself in a situation where he will have the upper hand on you.

Not only do you sound desperate but rather than to help you distance yourself from him, it makes you look like a fool because he obviously does not reciprocate the feelings you have to the same extend as yours.

You should have initiated this separation move a long time ago because the longer you try to hold onto something you know you cannot obtain, the more you are hurting yourself emotionally.

At 17, those romances come and go. Right now, you don't think straight and you are harming yourself more than anything else by believing that there could be something serious.

Concentrate on your education first. This should have top priority because by diverting your attention, you are only making it worse for you both on your education and your emotions.

[arha_crewa]

thanks very much. that helped :)

[SueShe]

Glad I could help.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I dream about my boyfriend almost every night.
I stopped telling him about those dreams.

He used to dream about me all the time too, but he rarely does, these days.

I wouldn’t say anything.

[Wise4myage]

No, save that for later because he's gonna automatically think your dream was sexual in nature.

[Maxnanet]

If you feel it , honesty is always nice ! Its always a good idea to see if it seems mutual;)

[arha_crewa]

i do feel that way too but he likes someone else and i dont know anymore

[Avicenna]

I wouldn’t tell him

[arha_crewa]

i won't either thanks

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

Why not