Why did he have a dream about me and him hooking up and then tell me his dream?

[Erika]

Okay, so I have this friend who told me he had a dream about me… and I asked him what it was about and he replied that we were at some party and then me and him wound up on a couch together and started making out and things got all “hot and wild” and then he woke up…

I said in your dreams ;) hehe!

But what does that all mean? I mean, huh? Dreams about me like that and then telling me? What do you guys think?

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+1 y

im seriously going to take your advice. did I mess it up by saying that?!?!?! what should I do?!?! or say?!?!

[Anonymous]

I think he was hoping you would like his dream. After a guy has a sex dream about a woman, part of us is really hoping that it will get her just as hot to hear about it as it made us to have it. He may not have thought about you in the way he dreamed before.and all of a sudden, he sees you in a more sexual.and very appealing light.

I've done this before. And I must say.even though it is unrealistic, I guess part of me was hoping she was going to say, "well let's just reinact that right now".

What will really mess with your head is .there might not of even been a dream. He might have just made one up to see what you would say. But that is what only a few twisted thinking guys might do. LOL.

By the way, did I tell you about the dream I had about you last night.RISQUE! Naughty naughty naughty. ROFL

[Opinion Owner]

And for the record...I just looked at all your pics...this boy definitely wants you. My word girl, you're a hottie. I am kind of surprized you needed us to tell you that this boy was fantasizing about actual sex with you.

[Erika]

Did I say the wrong thing??????? I was kinda interested..... what should I do?

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me...its not too late. If you are interested, just go up and whisper in his ear that you have been thinking about his dream all day. Ask him if he left out any of the details, because you would love to hear them. If he starts to share, just rub his leg or arm while he is telling it. Trust me, he should get the idea.

If you are really bold...you can climb up on his lap when he is done and just plant a deep kiss on him, then ask him if it was anything like that? That would drive him wild.

[paulthree]

He's being flirtatious.trying to see how you'll respond. Its clearly an invitation to make this dream come TRUE!

It's pretty aggressive strategy and it sort of puts you on the spot in terms on how to answer.how DID you answer?

[23momof3]

Well I'm not a guy but I think he's hot for you. He prob. Got up with wood that day and jacked off to it lol if you like him you should go for it I think its his was of saying he likes you but if you don't feel the same way he can just say it was in a dream and blow it off.

[Erika]

Hehe! thanks =)

[nessavanice]

Okay from a girls perspective he wants you! HELLO its obvious.Dreams are what has been on the conscience. Obviously he has had you on his mind in order to have a dream about you. What are you going to do now?

[Erika]

Hmmm, that's a good question.... what should I do?!?!

[nessavanice]

Make out with him...

[Erika]

Haha, okay, should I ask him to hang out with me?

[nessavanice]

The dream seemed steamy...you should surprise him and do something fun with him only if you want to take it to the next level. Don't give in to much though.

[Erika]

Word! thank you! =)

[23momof3]

Just say to him that you had a dream lol and in it you mad his dream come true. Then ask if he would be ok with that

[dave216]

I think he is shy. He was telling a story to get your reaction before he tried anything for real. Sounds like you crushed that dream. By the way, extremely doubtful that there was really a dream involved here. Most likely it was entirely made up.

[Erika]

Yeah, but I did the ;) lol. I was kind of interested! what should I do, did I f*** it up?!

[l-hedoniste]

Do you really not know what he's trying to do? Really?

It's a suggestion, silly! Granted, a weasely way of going about it, but you know that.

Your response was completely appropriate. If he wanted to hook up, he should have made a better play than that, don't you think?

[Erika]

HAHA! Very true.... but I was interested.... so I message him back today, telling him I had a dream, which I totally didn't, but do you think he will like it?

[l-hedoniste]

He'll like it. Go to it, girl.

[AJtogo]

It's a semi-safe way of telling you that he likes you and your reaction would then tell him whether you feel the same way or not.

It's highly doubtful that he even had this dream. You may have even given him the answer he wasn't looking for. What happened after you shot him down with your comment?

[Erika]

Ahhh I didn't think I was shooting him down! he never messaged me back! LOL. ahhhh! should I message him back and say I had a dream too?

[AJtogo]

He never messaged back because by saying "in your dreams" you told him that you didn't like him. In a covert kind of way of course. Yes you f**cked up:) It's salvage time.

Invite him out for a coffee an tell him you want to hear about his dream again. That may save it.

[Erika]

WELL.... I messaged him back saying "funny thing, I had a dream about you last night too. I made your dream come true. hehe"

even though I didn't... was that good?

[AJtogo]

OH oh, you're making fun of his approach now. you should find out shortly if it was good or not. Hopefully he won't take it as making fun of him after the shoot down. Good luck.

[Erika]

GREEEEEATE............. I TOTALY WASN'T THOUGH =(

[melissarose8585]

I agree with everyone else. He wants you, especially if this was out of the blue. I mean, if you guys flirt around constantly then it could be different, but I take it that is NOT the situation.

[Anonymous]

The exact same thing happened to me except I've dreamt about him too n I admitted it to him after he told me and he seemed a little full of himself but then tried to get in my head by making me play 4minutes which was intense!

[Anonymous]

dont forget to pick best answer

[Anonymous]

he is thinking about you.

[Anonymous]

he likes you.