Why do some guys feel like girls who may be less attractive, are much friendlier, and easier to talk to, than the most attractive girls?

[laurieluvsit]

I have had guys tell me this, so... IS IT REALLY TRUE?

(above and below) MORE BEAUTIFUL, BUT LESS ATTAINABLE? ...

(below) NOT AS ATTRACTIVE, BUT TRYING HARD...

[FMJ_Guy]

Not sure what idiot guys you have been talking to, but who decides who is 'more' or 'less' "ATTRACTIVE"? To whom?
But what is 'attractive'? Some phony, made-up woman in expensive labels? Driving, maybe a Range Rover?
Who is 'Less Attractive', and as a woman, how would she feel, if you said that, to her?
How would you feel, saying that, to her, and watching her reaction?
I like the ones that aren't afraid to just be who they are! They would HATE being 'Supermodels' but wouldn't hate those women who did that.
Don't let 'Society' force you to be something, someone, you are not!!

[Buckzor]

It seems those who know they're attractive have way higher standards, expectations (for general stuff, like conversation) than those who are still but are less attractive. They also seem friendlier as they come across as more open to talk to us, compared to those women who are attractive and a whole.
Just to me feels like the attractive women expect so much more out of every guy unless they're already friends or whatever.

[Elizzie]

Physically attractive girls get, understandably, a lot more attention, so they are forced to shut more out. Because of that, people are more likely to be turned away when approaching a physically attractive girl. Sometimes it's a mistake, but sometimes there's just too much competition out there. Also, less physically attractive have to make up for the lack of physical appeal with personality appeal.

[Elizzie]

Thanks for the MHG!

[laurieluvsit]

Your welcome Ms Elizzie, you're the best!

[wingattebaby16]

guys are hard to figure out most the time..

they are visually driven... more than anything else.

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, I agree. I think they all want the prettiest one but because there is so much competition, they settle for the less competitive girl instead and Mr @Theft had it right with the prettiest ones getting hit on so much all the time makes it hard for her to say yes to them all :)

[Theft]

Lol! Well thanks for bringing me in to the conversation! Haha! Yeah I can see that being reasonable for some guys... and I mean I know at times I have asked why persue this girl when I know eighteen others are as well and she is fending off all of us when there is this slightly less atractive girl who seems to be more comfertable talking to me as well as she has fourteen less guys buzzing around her all day... but that’s as always been a girl who I just didn’t click with as well...

[Dreamweaver671]

Every woman is beautiful but the woman that projects fertility are the ones that men become bumbling ass for. The way she looks or vibes. The way she dresses. This makes a man want to fuck. But they way a woman is inside that connects to a man is what makes his stay. The fake women are good for one night.

[Theft]

And that miss @laurieluvsit is the attitude that makes some of the pretty and sweet girls in to asses... these guys that want to f**k everyone and will only might stay if the vibes are right...

[Dreamweaver671]

What is beauty. Remove a pound of make up and you find a Butterface. Or the one with no makeup and you know it won't get worse. The true beauty of a woman is how she smiles and melts with a man.

Men will approach any woman that give an indication that she would like to be swept off her feet. But a woman that tries so hard to be perfect makes a man pause and wonder what she needs to hide. And eventually those hot guys learn the true identity of those hot girls and lose interest. Yet the Plain Jane can always look better and dress sexier and be more desirable. Fact is I get really turned on to see Plain Jane dazzle when I least expect. Hot girls can't dazzle like that.

[Theft]

I have found that a lot of the fears of guys regarding atractive girls are false! But in my experience the more atractive girls can have a bit of a hesitation to guys in general... I think that they may just get tired of being hit on ALL the time... so in that sense they can at times be less friendly... when in fact their total gems!!! Their just hesitant of guts who just want to ask them on a date...

[Brutal_Honesty]

if you are attractive you get a lot of attention and it gets really annoying so your only way to cope is by acting like a bitch, in the hope it all goes away. ugly people have the opposite problem, they are ignored by everyone, so they must act super kind otherwise nobody would even care they existed

[IndieGirlJess]

Maybe less attractive girls are more approachable because they are, for lack of a better word, desperate? They know they are in the outfield and don't get much play so they are willing to talk to mostly anyone. Pretty girls know they are so they know they can have almost anyone they want so they only talk to guys who provide her with the best offer.

[jdrrichmond]

I hate to admit this, but I've always thought exceptionally attractive women (like exceptionally attractive men) could have whoever they wanted. I'm not in the top 10, so I wouldn't think I had a chance. However, I have been friends with both men and women in that category.
I also think that "top 10" people are treated differently and, in some cases, believe they are superior because they grew up being treated that way.

[alice55]

They're insecure about their look and think that attractive girls would laugh at them if they come talk to her.

Too a crazy things I've noticed is that attractive girls generally have lower standard for guys for less attractive girls have a tons of standard for guys and are much more picky. So in the end the more attractive girls would be more friendly.

[studDMuffF1n]

This isn't going to be popular but fuck it. A women's value is her looks 😨. The prettier the girl the more value she has. The better mate, life etc is at her fingertips.
She has more reasons to be pickier because she has more value then the other women. Uglier/fatter/ normal looking women are so easier to talk too because because the fear or confrontation of being denied is not overwhelming it's a lot less because they have less value.

[Dchrls78104]

Because those who are considered the most attractive (such as celebrities like the Kardashians) are often the most arrogant, stuck-up, rude, and difficult to deal with, and in the end the least approachable.

[Glen68]

Because the "less attractive girls" are forced to develop a great personality to compete with the "attractive girls"

[laurieluvsit]

That is one of the best answers Mr Glen! You get an "A" for that one... lol

[Glen68]

Awwww thank you 😊

[AydenHazor]

Personally, how visually attractive they are doesn't play into it at all for me, what matters to me is their personality. I know stunningly beautiful women who are some of the friendliest people I know, and some that are standoffish and make themselves unapproachable. The same goes for women that you would consider less attractive. Visual attraction for me is far less important than personality and compassion.

[ericclayton]

Actually, attractive women get approached much less than their unattractive counterparts. Attractive women are often times less cocky and abrasive, and actually more approachable and friendly because of this.

[JosyJosy]

Some attractive people have an ego and attitude, thinking they can do whatever because of how they look

[Razal]

Yes its true.
the less attractive ones don't get many chances of chit chat with guys as not so many guys approach them, so when someone does approach them they behave more politely.

The attractive ones are being constantly bugged by guys, making them angry and arrogant.

[Papi_Trey]

It's true. If the girl is less attractive then you have nothing to lose.

[Hannajenky]

The two girls on top are not attractive i dont like the caked on makeup look

[xTom98]

I mean Your face could definetly look hot if you worked on your makeup abit, yours is a bit weird if that makes any sense 😅
No offense just trying to find the right words here 😂

[shades777]

You let your guard down around people you don't want to bang.

You end of being yourself rather than the guarded weirdo who cross examines every little thing.

[Nik1hil]

That is so true.. It's way easier for us to communicate if the woman is not intimidating

[WhereAmI]

Absolutely. It's all about being appealing in personality to make up for so-so looks. Why is this not obvuous?

[WhereAmI]

Women are also more receptive if they aren't being badgered by guys asking them out constantly.

[hindril]

Maybe because most girls who seem attractive are conceited and want to talk all about themselves? I really dint know. I dont judge anyone unless I talk to them for a while to know who they really are inside.