Why do some guys feel like girls who may be less attractive, are much friendlier, and easier to talk to, than the most attractive girls?

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(below) NOT AS ATTRACTIVE, BUT TRYING HARD...

FMJ_Guy · Accepted Answer

Not sure what idiot guys you have been talking to, but who decides who is 'more' or 'less' "ATTRACTIVE"? To whom?
But what is 'attractive'? Some phony, made-up woman in expensive labels? Driving, maybe a Range Rover?
Who is 'Less Attractive', and as a woman, how would she feel, if you said that, to her?
How would you feel, saying that, to her, and watching her reaction?
I like the ones that aren't afraid to just be who they are! They would HATE being 'Supermodels' but wouldn't hate those women who did that.
Don't let 'Society' force you to be something, someone, you are not!!

Buckzor · Accepted Answer

It seems those who know they're attractive have way higher standards, expectations (for general stuff, like conversation) than those who are still but are less attractive. They also seem friendlier as they come across as more open to talk to us, compared to those women who are attractive and a whole.
Just to me feels like the attractive women expect so much more out of every guy unless they're already friends or whatever.

Elizzie · Accepted Answer

Physically attractive girls get, understandably, a lot more attention, so they are forced to shut more out. Because of that, people are more likely to be turned away when approaching a physically attractive girl. Sometimes it's a mistake, but sometimes there's just too much competition out there. Also, less physically attractive have to make up for the lack of physical appeal with personality appeal.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

guys are hard to figure out most the time.. they are visually driven... more than anything else.

Dreamweaver671 · Answer

What is beauty. Remove a pound of make up and you find a Butterface. Or the one with no makeup and you know it won't get worse. The true beauty of a woman is how she smiles and melts with a man.

Men will approach any woman that give an indication that she would like to be swept off her feet. But a woman that tries so hard to be perfect makes a man pause and wonder what she needs to hide. And eventually those hot guys learn the true identity of those hot girls and lose interest. Yet the Plain Jane can always look better and dress sexier and be more desirable. Fact is I get really turned on to see Plain Jane dazzle when I least expect. Hot girls can't dazzle like that.

Theft · Answer

I have found that a lot of the fears of guys regarding atractive girls are false! But in my experience the more atractive girls can have a bit of a hesitation to guys in general... I think that they may just get tired of being hit on ALL the time... so in that sense they can at times be less friendly... when in fact their total gems!!! Their just hesitant of guts who just want to ask them on a date...

Brutal_Honesty · Answer

if you are attractive you get a lot of attention and it gets really annoying so your only way to cope is by acting like a bitch, in the hope it all goes away. ugly people have the opposite problem, they are ignored by everyone, so they must act super kind otherwise nobody would even care they existed

IndieGirlJess · Answer

Maybe less attractive girls are more approachable because they are, for lack of a better word, desperate? They know they are in the outfield and don't get much play so they are willing to talk to mostly anyone. Pretty girls know they are so they know they can have almost anyone they want so they only talk to guys who provide her with the best offer.

jdrrichmond · Answer

I hate to admit this, but I've always thought exceptionally attractive women (like exceptionally attractive men) could have whoever they wanted. I'm not in the top 10, so I wouldn't think I had a chance. However, I have been friends with both men and women in that category.
I also think that "top 10" people are treated differently and, in some cases, believe they are superior because they grew up being treated that way.

alice55 · Answer

They're insecure about their look and think that attractive girls would laugh at them if they come talk to her.

Too a crazy things I've noticed is that attractive girls generally have lower standard for guys for less attractive girls have a tons of standard for guys and are much more picky. So in the end the more attractive girls would be more friendly.

studDMuffF1n · Answer

This isn't going to be popular but fuck it. A women's value is her looks 😨. The prettier the girl the more value she has. The better mate, life etc is at her fingertips.
She has more reasons to be pickier because she has more value then the other women. Uglier/fatter/ normal looking women are so easier to talk too because because the fear or confrontation of being denied is not overwhelming it's a lot less because they have less value.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Because those who are considered the most attractive (such as celebrities like the Kardashians) are often the most arrogant, stuck-up, rude, and difficult to deal with, and in the end the least approachable.

Glen68 · Answer

Because the "less attractive girls" are forced to develop a great personality to compete with the "attractive girls"

AydenHazor · Answer

Personally, how visually attractive they are doesn't play into it at all for me, what matters to me is their personality. I know stunningly beautiful women who are some of the friendliest people I know, and some that are standoffish and make themselves unapproachable. The same goes for women that you would consider less attractive. Visual attraction for me is far less important than personality and compassion.

ericclayton · Answer

Actually, attractive women get approached much less than their unattractive counterparts. Attractive women are often times less cocky and abrasive, and actually more approachable and friendly because of this.

JosyJosy · Answer

Some attractive people have an ego and attitude, thinking they can do whatever because of how they look

Razal · Answer

Yes its true.
the less attractive ones don't get many chances of chit chat with guys as not so many guys approach them, so when someone does approach them they behave more politely.

The attractive ones are being constantly bugged by guys, making them angry and arrogant.

Papi_Trey · Answer

It's true. If the girl is less attractive then you have nothing to lose.

Hannajenky · Answer

The two girls on top are not attractive i dont like the caked on makeup look

WhereAmI · Answer

Absolutely. It's all about being appealing in personality to make up for so-so looks. Why is this not obvuous?

xTom98 · Answer

I mean Your face could definetly look hot if you worked on your makeup abit, yours is a bit weird if that makes any sense 😅 No offense just trying to find the right words here 😂

shades777 · Answer

You let your guard down around people you don't want to bang. You end of being yourself rather than the guarded weirdo who cross examines every little thing.

Nik1hil · Answer

That is so true.. It's way easier for us to communicate if the woman is not intimidating

hindril · Answer

Maybe because most girls who seem attractive are conceited and want to talk all about themselves? I really dint know. I dont judge anyone unless I talk to them for a while to know who they really are inside.

Anonymous · Answer

Becouse the ones that are really attractive wake up in you feelings of wanting to breed. Of course later you realize that is a person too and she has a lot of interests and a life of her own but it is hard to accomodate.

Anonymous · Answer

Because us good looking girls are just bitches!! lol

insomnium95 · Answer

I think the girl in the bottom picture looks better without all the makeup. Less attractive girls are usually friendlier in my experience.

jessica14454 · Answer

i'm geuss there less afraid of a less attractive girls then more attractive girls

Knowbetternow1 · Answer

Because they may feel more secure or maybe the less attractive girl may be more transparent or vain

Hotscorpio3 · Answer

How a woman looks doesn't give range if they're easy to talk to or not.

AlainP · Answer

i don't think there is any relation between attractive and friendly being friend is more about education and culture as attractive is only about mother nature

loveslongnails · Answer

Why do guys "feel" that way? Because for the most part, it's true !!

Anonymous · Answer

Has nothing to do with your looks, from your political views, i would not talk to you

DakotaNorth · Answer

The girl on the left, what's her number ♡

malealpha00 · Answer

that's BS, attractive chicks are better

TurtleRoshi · Answer

I think you look GORGEOUS😍

Jerre · Answer

Actually I find all 3 attractive

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Intimidation possibly?

Slim57 · Answer

Because they usually are

niomi04 · Answer

Because they are more approachable

geminiboner · Answer

Well because it's society rule 😆

weaverman · Answer

I think personality is more important than looks

Anonymous · Answer

Because it’s usually true

Nerdvana · Answer

To Be honest, I feel that way

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Lack of confidence.

Kelly6 · Answer

Not true at all

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