I STILL miss my ex-boyfriend after a year...

[iaskquestions]

In January of 2010, my boyfriend and I broke up. I haven't seen him since January and I haven't spoken to him since February. He started dating another girl late in February/early March. I constantly think about him and everything reminds me of our relationship. I never tried to get in contact with him since I knew he "moved on" with another girl. They're still dating. It'll soon be a year since we broke up, but I'm still not over him. We dated for a little over a year and a half. We were each others' first loves.

I don't think we'll ever get back together, but I still think about him all the time. What should I do?

[ikarus]

im still not entirely over my first love...and its been like 8 years? I mean...im not obsessing over her but I definitely have not forgotten her and how great things were. so, the best advice I can tell you is just keeping living and hope you meet someone that makes you feel greater than this guy ever did?

[Robertinho]

May I ask why did you both brake up?

[iaskquestions]

We just grew apart, kinda. No cheating or anything (that I know of). He is the one that initiated the break-up, but we both knew something wasn't right. The night we broke up, I asked him if he liked another girl. He swore he didn't. Now they're dating...and have been for a while.

[Robertinho]

How weird is life the samething happened to me with the girl of my dreams over a year from tomorrow to be exact. Exept in my case she pretty much killed me, threw me away and left me for another cool guy. At first she denied it saying they were only friends, but as soon as she threw me away she hooked up with him almost immediately. A year later, the enormous amount of sadness is still there. All I can tell you is that the man upstairs works in mysterious ways no matter what.

[Robertinho]

Never say never because this thing called life works in mysterious ways ms. You just take care of yourself...and let the man upstairs take care of him. Who knows maybe oneday you will both reunite...to necessarily to get back together but to reunite as friends from the past. This thing called life...its really weird, but interesting take care ms. ^_^

[realize]

Sounds like the same thing with me and my ex, and I just can't stop thinking about her. She was my best friend first , then we went out for about a year and a half too (on and off). Then we finally called it quits about a year ago and I haven't heard from her since.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you guys need to spend some time apart and mature a little before you guys, or he realizes, that you're good together.