Guys, can bigger women look good if they put effort into their appearance?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Of course you can improve your appearance, but the bottom line is that the bulk of men aren't attracted to women this large, and nothing is going to change that. I don't think that's any secret. I'm a fat guy and I'm not under any illusion that I'm going to be attractive to most women either.

Now, having said that, there ARE men who either don't care, or who are specifically attracted to large women. Obviously those guys are going to prefer a large woman who takes some care into her appearance and style vs. one who doesn't, so it's still worth the effort. But if your goal is mainstream attractiveness, you'd have to lose a significant amount of the weight - there's no way around that.

[CheckPlease]

Yeah it is called the gym and working on your looks only a few fat people do it. The rest want the lazy hashtag fat is lovely. To be loved for dying early without any effort put into thier looks or personality.

[DubiousPhoenix]

I doubt it for this type of big. Like this is just obese. Or ssbbw. Same thing. Very few people will find this attractive in America. But there are circles for it. There's always a niche.

[Gavyn]

Definitely depends on who you ask. Personally, while I could do bigger women if they were thin (ner, at least) when we started, but I’d have a pretty difficult time being initially attracted to a bigger women.

[Aenetoo]

I like that second photo. She's really cute in that outfit. I'm a sucker for a cute girl in a summer dress.

[Hugemoth]

No, never. Lose weight if you're obese.

[Asker]

So, do you think bigger women shouldn’t put effort into their appearance until they’re skinny?

[Hugemoth]

That's not what I said. Do whatever you want but please lose weight if you're fat.

[outside_Toronto]

Yes of course they can

[NoPoliticsPlease]

Not any of those

[AdmiralBailey]

lmao ewww

[hammeronfire]

yes.

[Slim57]

To some guys, not me