Why am I always the back-up plan?

[StoryOfMyLIfe]

Il always find myself liking a guy and getting close with them, but I'll always be the backup plan or they'll ask someone else out instead of me. They'll tell me they have feelings for me but choose someone else. I'll start out as a possible relationship but turn into a "good friend"

So this is the question. What am I doing wrong? Why am I always in this position and how do I get tagged as just friend? How do I get out?

[devoshe]

Just 7 questions for you...

1. Does your friend think you are joyful?

2. Does your friend invite you over most of the time?

3. How many friends do you currently have?

4. Are you competitive candidate?

5. Are you desperate getting into a relationship?

6. Do you think you have potential as a good girlfriend? Possibly a bride?

7. Do you trust people easily?

When you answer these questions carefully, this will draw out your relationship potential. From there, you can build it into a masterpiece. Good Luck!

[StoryOfMyLIfe]

1.I'm honestly happy all of the time. I have a perky personality, if that doesn't sound weird or anything.

2. I mainly go to their houses, no one ever comes to my house.

3. I have friends everywhere, all in different groups. But I'm only close with 3-4

4. I have a very laid back personality. I don't force anyone into anything and I'm quiet about how I feel about things.

5.I haven't had a relationship in a little while, so I guess I can say I might rush into things.

6.yes. I do.

7.no, not really

[devoshe]

Bringing all together: You are a happy well rounded person who has good connection with friends. You have a cheerful and calm personality with soothing relationship with your friends. However, you are afraid of people lying to you and lack of relationship keeps you from being happy. Still, you have high self esteem and quite good sense of joy.

[devoshe]

It appears like there's nothing that will make you less of a candidate of good relationship. You just haven't found a perfect match. Try finding a relationship from different group of people that what you used to find your potential boyfriend. Right people at the right place makes life a success. Just try to feel from your heart and not from your gut. Gut tells you what your body wants (chemistry), heart tells you what your life needs. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

oh I have no idea why because I'm in the same exact position you are. I'm never the bride, always the bride's main.