Why do guys watch a girl from across the room & stare at her when she's talking to other people?

[KezHarris]

What are your opinions/experiences? :)

Guys, why would you watch a girl from across the room and look at her when she's talking to other people?

Is it shyness?

He fancies her! & finds her interesting / wants to get to know her, but he's shy.

He's trying to figure out the girl's personality / wants to be friends with her.

He's just doing it cos he's bored.

Other option

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+1 y

Do you do this to figure out the girl's personality? Cos you don't know her that well?

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+1 y

I thought this guy wanted to get back with his ex girlfriend, so i assumed he has no interest in me (he seems to still like her). Does he fancy both of us? 😂😂

[btbc92]

Nobody really knows. Some people stare because you look interesting, attractive or maybe you remind them of somebody. For people like me, we sense things about you that caught our attention and we're trying to figure you out. I say it depends on body language. If he is smiling, he may like you as a person. If he's smirking, it's lusting. If he's smirking and winks, it's teasing. If he is staring at you with a blink face, he is seeing through you or sensing something inside of you. If his eyes are piercing, he is trying to play 'alpha' and get into your head to make you want him.

Being shy is just being shy, it doesn't always mean anything. What matters is intentions. That is what you have to watch out for.

[KezHarris]

He stares at me with a blank facial experssion most if the time. But sometimes, when he sees me having fun with a friend, he looks hurt or a bit jealous.

[KezHarris]

*expression

[btbc92]

He may be jealous because he doesn't have anybody and he sees you content with life while he's not. That's his problem, not yours.

[KezHarris]

So he can "see through me" or senses something about my personality?

[KezHarris]

@btbc92 he actually has more friends than me. I only have a few friends and loads of aquaintances.

[btbc92]

He may have a lot of friends, but that doesn't mean he is happy with them. There are friends, and there are friends that are like family. Not everybody is your friend and not every person that is your friend can be like family. He probably wants the kind of personality you have, but the problem, is he has to learn to accept and love himself, and he probably doesn't love himself enough.

[KezHarris]

Aww! I feel like going up to him and cheering him up.
And yeah, people tell me that im funny and I've got a unique personality (because i just say whatever im thinking, but nothing offensive)

[btbc92]

I have the same trait. It allures people, but also make people jealous and you never did anything to warrant such a terrible response. Though I suggest that you don't hug him though, he may think you're being too weird, or make him feel uncomfortable. And you might give him the wrong impression. Guys are self-conscious concerning physical touch because it often applies the girl likes him for more than that, and then come to find out that's not it.

[KezHarris]

Do you think he fancies me?

[btbc92]

That's to be subjective. You want to know? Got to go ask him.

[KezHarris]

Ok. Thank you

[Aphrodite8789]

Guys who have done that to me have always approached/liked me

[Sevenpointfive]

i was watching this girl the other day and took this. what do you think of her ass?

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[EDWINDUNDEE999]

OMG lol fantastic ass love it magic

[KezHarris]

😂😂😂 that's my ass

[EDWINDUNDEE999]

Kez l was thinking that in my head honest truth l was looking at your face and l said to myself is that Kez or not OMG you will kill me were you a bit younger in that video O well l was just been honest god guys must be blind if they dont date you honest you are fantastic looking and l am not a pervert guy l am very normal So sorry lol 💐

[Sevenpointfive]

@KezHarris wut? we go to the same gym lol

[normalguy93]

Well i do that too but its just because she's beautifull and i like her but i know im not gonna have a second chance

[KezHarris]

Aww!

[Jjpayne]

I do this because I would find her attractive and I am admiring her beauty but also wishing I could be that boy talking to her :(

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah , when we look at girl from across the room
we are checking her out and see her facial expressions
see if she will look back at us. We could be showing
interest in the girl it all depends , some of us guys are
too shy like myself.

[The_Dean]

He's showing interest and checking her out. When I check a girl out from afar, I usually want her to look back at me and give me a little smile. That's my queue to approach.

[The_Dean]

Cue*

[IlyaTheImpaler]

waiting for his turn to talk to her 🤔 you know you can't just jump into other people's conversation

[KezHarris]

So he wants to talk to me? Thats weird cos he rarely ever says hi

[IlyaTheImpaler]

with that new information... he could be shy, or you are always surrounded by guys and that discourages him

[KezHarris]

Ohh yeah, at the gym a lot of guys are around me talkinf to me. Would that make him think i don't like him?

[KezHarris]

*talking

[IlyaTheImpaler]

Well not exactly but something similar. It is discouraging when I see the girl I like flirting with so many guys (presumably attractive), and she doesn't seem to make an effort to shoot them down and get somewhere more private so that I could approach her 😂, it means she likes the attention, and she likes the guys, more than she likes me.

[Chord11]

He's at least interested in you, maybe attracted. Is there any eye contact?

[KezHarris]

Yep. He also stares at my face a lot! (But also my hair and my body lol)

[Chord11]

Yeah then he's at least interested 😄

[KezHarris]

Its weird tho, cos i thought he still likes his ex girlfriend

[DailyPoll]

Usually A, but it could also be that you are odd-looking. Imagine you had green skin. Everyone would stare at you.

[William_93]

Sometimes a pretty girl catches my eye even though I have no interest in dating her.
I don't know if it's the same guy looking at you maybe he's interested

[EDWINDUNDEE999]

Well they / he might like the girl or is very jealous as the girl is talking with an other guy/guys /girl etc he/they could be shy and low self esteem or even worse they could be talking about the girl

[GreenGold1992]

I'm always shy, that's why I stare for a while, I'm admiring her beauty while I'm working up enough nerve to approach her.

[DeviloftheValleys]

He fancies her. He isn't neccessarily shy, though.

[MrMansonsPocketPssy]

Could be any of those above
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[JadeFluorite]

Why?