I regret giving my boyfriend and BJ?

[Anonymous]

In the moment I wanted to please him and I surprised myself when I actually did it, however I regret it looking back. Immediately he told me he wants it to happen again and it has been the only thing on his mind. Now, whenever we kiss he implies for me to give him a BJ and suggests going into disgusting places in order to do so. I gave him a BJ and that all he will think about and want now, what do I do?

[DJB72]

In this situation it's become about power instead of love. He's trying to take a gift and make it an expectation.

If it's an absolute "no" for a repeat performance then tell him that honestly. If he can't accept it then you're better off without him anyway.

If it's something you might consider again eventually then tell him that too. But stress *eventually* and that you don't want him to pressure you.

But you're young. The headline says "under 18". You have a lifetime ahead of you. Don't make a dumb choice now that will give you two lives ahead of you.

[N192K001]

Tell him you're not interested and stand your ground.

From the info given, either that was his objective or it has hijacked the relationship, which is not surprising given the hormonal state of your male peers at this stage of life.

Test him. Tell him you're no longer providing the service. If he chooses you as you are (with your wishes, sentiments, etc.) and stays with you, good. If he chooses his image of you performing these acts… over the actual you, your actual incompatibility should now be obvious.

[ILoveAnime]

Talk to him. You don't have to listen to that. He's not intetled to shit. If he still acts like he's on a high horse, dump him. He doesn't deserve you.

[Monkeysnuggle]

I'd tell him your ground rules for if he wants it: you need to be in the mood, you inititate, no weird placeshe goes down on you for every time you do him, whatever you're comfortable with. There's a lot of negotiation in sex, think about what you want and talk about it, probably not in the bedroom

[winterfox10]

Just explain that you are happy that he enjoyed the BJ, but that you aren't going to do something like that unless it's on your terms. Don't be afraid to put your foot down about things like that. Respect is important in relationships.

[Jhon24]

Well you are under 18 thats why that all what he think about , and if you don't like it just talk to him

[MarioXx]

I second this guy.

[Giggletr0n]

State that you simply are not interested in giving him a blowjob when he demands it, or even at all anymore. Plenty, if not most, women don't enjoy giving oral so it's not something to be worried about.

[Metallsturm]

>> what do I do?

Did you like it yourself though?
If yes, then give him another blowjob, what's the problem? A win-win scenario.

[sunofdavis]

Don't do it if you don't like it, easy. Another easy way is to make him go down on you... If he doesn't like going down on you you have another way out

[arun934]

Just let him know that you're not interested. And prove him love is best drug more than sex

[jacquesvol]

(Under 18) Says all.

[eagle1951]

yeah that's guy for ya