When your called things like- yummy, luscious, sexy, hot as fuck, ect... does that mean your not being taken seriously but more as a sexual object?

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Okay daily the wording changes, but good morning sexy, good morning luscious, good morning hot stuff, and during the day your hot as fuck, I’d follow that ass anywhere, you know you got it going on, you know your fucking yummy/ delicious etc... there is other normal convo but majority is him saying all these things. Does that mean he sees me in a sexual way only? Or should I just be grateful he finds me this attractive and be happy that he lets me know this? Sometimes I’d really love to hear you know your a beautiful person, you have a good heart,
I love your personality etc... but maybe he doesn’t love those things about me? I take it for what he says he feels, ok I know he thinks I’m sexy or what ever but how do I ask (with out seeming ungrateful for all the compliments on my body ) but know if he likes me as a whole being? I even get the feeling he might be holding back a little from saying he’s into me more than sexual because he says things like “ I know you get picked up on a lot “ I say no I don’t knock it off lol and he says ya ok! When we started dating he asked me what number he was in the long line to get to take me out? I’m not sure if that was a cheesy pick up line or? He’s not insecure and is really a good looking man so I’m confused?
When your called things like- yummy, luscious, sexy, hot as fuck, ect... does that mean your not being taken seriously but more as a sexual object?
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