Why would a guy delete his comment from your insta picture?

[haileylopez]

[LtJackass]

Because it was cringe.
Or because his girlfriend saw it and set his computer on fire.

[haileylopez]

he's single lol

[LtJackass]

Ex's too.

[JoyISok3]

I delete mine when I don’t want the attention.

[haileylopez]

if he didn't want the attention why do you think he commented in the first place?

[JoyISok3]

Because he probably just wanted to comment. That’s what I do. I’ll comment but then I realize his friends might be like who is this, etc. And I really don’t want the attention.

[haileylopez]

ok that makes sense. do you think he actually meant what he said if he deleted it? he kept his like on my pic still

[JoyISok3]

I’m pretty sure. I’ve left hearts under my guys picture once and I felt very uncomfortable cause he has all his friends and I deleted it, but I still meant it. Had he responded I would’ve felt better and left it, but he didn’t so I deleted it

[haileylopez]

so annoying when it's a guy i like! do you think if he comments again i should reply?

[JoyISok3]

Yes. Like it super quick and respond even quicker

[JoyISok3]

Or even comment on his

[haileylopez]

will do! even if he's not posted recently?

[JoyISok3]

Do it to a recent post, does he post often?

[haileylopez]

i'll try to, he's not posted much this year but do you think a fast response to his comments in the future will make him feel better lol?

[JoyISok3]

Yes! Just think about how you would feel. You’d be happy if you commented and he responded. There are many people commenting on our photos but who we decide to notice is important even though it doesn’t seem like it. So whenever he comments, show him your excitement. Like it and respond. And whenever he posts a pic, comment on it.

[haileylopez]

I suppose that's true, thanks for the perspective! i was also wondering if he's maybe doing it to play games tho?

[JoyISok3]

Don’t play back. Be upfront and don’t even leave room for games

[haileylopez]

you're totally right! guess i didn't realise it until now but he always dms me about my stories too so i feel kinda bad now lol, will be sure to reply to his comment if he leaves one in the future! it's weird bc he's only ever dmed me about my posts until now, guess i was just surprised that he publicly commented!

[JoyISok3]

Yeah that’s what I tend to do. I just privately dm him that he looks nice because I don’t feel comfy, but if I did feel comfy I would be commenting. He’s probably like me

[haileylopez]

That makes sense! just wish i knew what he was thinking because he's still not texted me back, starting to make me think he is just playing games!

[JoyISok3]

What/when did you text him?

[haileylopez]

a day ago! he's watched my stories from today and stuff which makes no sense

[JoyISok3]

Did you say hey or something that kind of demanded a response or something stupid that doesn’t really call for a response?

[haileylopez]

well i basically said 'good comment haha' but he hasn't even opened the message? i wanna talk to him but don't want to send another text in case he doesn't want to talk and thinks i'm clingy? he's done this a lot and it's driving me crazy whether he's bored/i'm bad at talking or he's playing games!

[arun934]

Ask him for genuine answer LoL

[Anonymous]

What was the comment?

[haileylopez]

basically commented that 'this is why i follow you', the pic was a selfie

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, could be that his girlfriend got mad
Or a bunch of other guys liked your pic too
Or that , you responded to the other guys comments, but not his?

[haileylopez]

he's single and i only liked the other comments on my pic, same as his so i didn't do anything different? as a guy is this a sign that you like someone?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, if you liked the other guys, and not his.

[haileylopez]

I liked all of the comments including his tho, just feeling a bit confused! :/

[Opinion Owner]

Did you comment on any guys post?
I’m thinking he saw too many guys there and gave up?

[haileylopez]

I didn't comment on any of the comments! there were comments from a couple of other guys but they weren't as good as his tbh! it's pretty annoying because the other guys are only friends and i really like this guy - like i messaged him joking about deleting it and he hasn't replied :/

[Opinion Owner]

He’s prob embarrass now lol
See what he does in the next pic you post

[haileylopez]

aww do you think? i keep thinking he's maybe doing it to play games but I'm not sure!

[abhivashisht98]

Because he can