Do you guys actually want to be fathers or just accept children as a consequence of having sex? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

I want kids, just picking up bill for it all or dealing with all noise and dirty stuff.

Main thing wife's 95% of attention shifts from me to baby... And most of those 5% is me involving baby stuff, all bedroom stuff becomes very back seat...

[MannMitAntworten]

Some do and some do. Meaning, the answer lays in both as I know men who want kids and who just accept kids as a consequence of sex.

[esotericstory]

Yes I want to be a father. Its the one thing that I want to be the most. A lot of other things that I do in my life I do to lead up to fatherhood. I also made a lot of sacrifices for it.

[GreenGold1992]

I do want to be a father someday, but I'm not ready for that yet. I'm hoping I'll be ready by age 30 or after, maybe by then I'll be more financially secure, stable, and responsible.

[Browneye57]

Some do, some don't, so what. Find someone that wants what YOU want and plan it together.

[Unit1]

I am childfree, so I'm planning to become sterile :)

[DDpsy]

Kids are a consequence of having sex with the intent of making kids unless you are a moron.

[The_Outlaw]

I wanted to get married and have children, because it's something that I had wanted for half my life, I just really don't anymore.

[Nikki1096]

Some of guys I know like the idea of being the father.

[ChiTown33]

Lol, there's literally a million answers to this question. It's not just either A. or B.

[sasukeuchiha7]

I never ever ever want kids. It'll only slow down my progress in life.

[the_imperfectionist]

You don't want leave a proper mark on earth and ensure your legacy lives on? :D

[sasukeuchiha7]

There are better ways to leave a legacy. Isaac Newton was a celibate but the world knows his name and contribution.
Nobody knows about Shakespeare's kids but they know his books.
I want to be known for my work.

[the_imperfectionist]

That's a good point.

[sasukeuchiha7]

And I'm horrible with kids.

[AynonOMouse]

Yes, I want kids very much. After working with them for years, it made me want them even more.

[JamesBoradil03]

i want about 3 kids, maybe less maybe more. ion know i ust want my own. imma family man

[Jacksoscar]

I'm in my 40s now but yes when I was in my 20s early 30s I want to children. But my ex-wife and I were unable to have them.

[adika63]

I chose to be a father and it’s the best thing in the world

[Piteka5]

My life goal is not to be a father, is to get to be a grandfather

[Daniela1982]

How are you going to be a grandfather if you have no kids?

[ForbesMagazine]

Yes, I want my own kids. Coupled with my career, being a husband and father is one of my main goals.

[Liam_Hayden]

There was no option for "other." I would not mind kids, but I congenitally sterile.

[Guanfei]

I want kids since I'm 17. So yeah, that's pretty serious.

[AdmiralBailey]

Yes! My heart is so full of love. I love kids. I want a Jr.
~Mr Bails Extraordinaire