Girls, do you like guys who are straightforward from the beginning?

[g_stuart]

So... I'm wondering if you girls like guys who get to know you and lets say there's a vibe going' on between each other and start knowing each other... and let say you've been talking for like 1 or 2 months now , and suddenly he start talking to you straight forward like he's really interested in you & don't wanna keep wasting' time because you won't make a move either. Do you girls really like that ...or hate that like is needy or something' , Cause I don't get it... if you don't make a move and hurry up she's gonna move on or simply won't do anything' afraid of rejection but if you come straight forward it can come as needy or it can be intimidating to a point that it can be a turn off. What do you think? How would you take it, girls?

[twinkletoes100]

Its all about balance. Most girls that I know like the guy to make the first move, show her that he's interested in her and no one else, but they don't like a guy whos needy either. Its all about making the first move while still playing a little hard to get.

For me personaly I like a guy who tells me I'm pretty, makes me laugh, talks to me a lot (showing he's interested) but not forcing the topic of relationships. Be straight forward about what you want, but read her signs. Is she flirting back? Is she laughing and smiling? Or do her eyes look away? Does she take a step back? Do you always have to be the one to begin the conversation?

If she seems like she into you and you guys are getting a strong vibe going, make the first move. Take her out, tell her how you feel, whatever you need to do to show her that you are for real and not just a player looking for some tail. You play your cards right and you will find yourself in a relationship. If not, the worse she can say is no right?

Hope that helps :)

[lafeeverte]

i would rather have a guy be straightforward - because as a girl, even though I may like a guy, if I'm not completely sure he feels the same way, I won't let him know that. and this may be old-fashioned, but I feel like the guy should make the first move, so when a guy DOESN'T, I automatically assume he's not into me.

i've actually been in a situation where I was torn between 2 guys, and I really liked one of them, but couldn't figure out what he wanted from me, if anything, and I got sick of waiting around for him, so I went with the other guy. afterward, it turned out the first guy was very upset because he really liked me, and I was just like "why didn't you tell me earlier?!?!?" so yeah that could've prevented some heartbreak and led to a great relationship, but now it's too late...

so make a move! lol if she's been talking to you for 1-2 months then I'm sure she's expecting it!

[Janninblopez]

Well yeah ha ha if you two have been talking to each other for two months then yes I do think you should tell her that your interested in her because as a girl, trust me its so frustrating because you don't even know if the guy likes you or not and when you get rejected you look stupid . I think all men should do that and maybe many girls can stop having delusions. So next time you talk to her tell her what's on your mind and just see what see responds back... I wish you good luck my friend.. you seem like an awesome guy :) hope my advice helps you out a little

[Kamilah]

It totally depends on each girl's personality but I wouldn't mind a guy being straight forward @ all, specially after knowing him for 2 months, I mean if Ik someone for 2 months that pretty much say that there's @ least some type of trust & familiarity that would enable the guy 2 be honest with plus I love honesty so 2 get back 2 your question, no I personally wouldn't consider a guy who's straight up forward with me desperate @ all. I've actually had guys be completely frank with me the 3 time they've met me & I it never crosses my mine that they were desperate lol. Some guys are more determined than others & wanna knock things down on the 1 round lol.

[flipside]

Well I'm a blunt person, and I really loathe games or tiptoeing around any issue so I'd appreciate it. Honestly I'm with a guy now that initially I wasn't really sure how I felt about, however when he just asked I was a) relieved things weren't one sided and b) decided to give him a shot. I'm glad I did, I also think the whole wait two days to call thing is bs, if I call or text you it's because I want to hear from you not because I enjoy radio silence.

[anglgurlrock]

As long as the feeling is mutual I don't see why you can't be up front really