My boyfriend called me a "dumb ass bitch" and a "stupid slut" just because I followed this guy back on social media who followed me?

[Anonymous]

This local musician in my city followed me on social media so I followed him back.. no big deal? He went through all of my followers for some reason. He flipped and called me all these names.. He follows bikini models, and it makes me insecure. Him following them bothers me low key but then I feel dumb about it later so I never bring it up. Am I in the wrong?

[Fuentes]

If theirs not more to this story as in y'all was weren't DM'ing back and fourth & you don't have a history in messaging other guys that way or cheating in the past at that (which he should have dumped you for that, if so) or he cheated and he's constantly paranoid you'll do it back (which then you should've dumped him) Then that is completely uncalled for and emotional abuse and is controlling on all levels and is just plain disrespectful so either he gets over his pig headed jealousy if he has no reason to worry or you should leave him especially for not being able to control his mouth as an adult like that

[Asker]

I NEVER ever messaged anyone. Was always loyal

[Fuentes]

Then he's a controlling dick and he might be the one cheating and he's paranoid because of the guilt or he's a controlling basterd whise extremely disrespectful and his abusive side is coming out

[Lliam]

First: Why does your boyfriend have access to your social media? What you do on social media is your own business, even i that means masturbating to fantasies of musicians or movie stars.
If I were you, I'd change my passwords and let your boyfriend put that in his pipe and smoke it..

Second: He sounds like an immature, insecure, controlling twat with zero communication skills. If he calls you names like that he has no respect for you.
You should cut him off from sex and tell him to go fuck his swim suit models.

[Anonymous]

Therapy and end the relationship. I'm not being mean about therapy because I do it myself.

[Phanta]

If exactly what you're saying is true, and you're not failing to mention other things that you did, then your boyfriend is a complete jerk. That's highly uncalled for. Perhaps get someone else to confront him on what's going on.

[ecfresh]

Yes you are wrong, if something is bothering you then you should communicate and work it out with him. Keeping it to yourself because you feel dumb is wrong.

[Asker]

I did but he doesn't care

[ecfresh]

Doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship if he doesn’t care about you and insults you.

[Anonymous]

I'd not be in a relationship with someone who says degrading things like that to me. My advice to you... break up with him!

[MikeKachowski]

Just tell him "well there's no reason to go around dating sluts" and break up with him because that's ridiculous

[markscott]

You need a new boyfriend.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sounds like a REALLY nice guy to hang with!!

[GreenGold1992]

no you're not wrong, that guy is an asshole

[Anonymous]

Lol how old is he? 12?