Why do most guys prefer innies so strongly when most women are outies or in-between?

[Anonymous]

I have looked a bit at questions on this topic on this website, I even decided to ask my own question. I just find it weird that guys think the majority of vaginas are ugly. I mean, shouldn't they be all fine unless they look completely abnormal or gross?

Is it because of what it is portrayed in the media?

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

Well mine is an Innie, and I still don't like the way it looks to be honest 😂. I like the look of outies more than Innies. I would still be content with an In-between. But the fact is a vagina is a vagina. There is no such thing as a "Perfect vagina" physically. Infact all of us girls and women already have the perfect vagina, the perfect vagina functions normally which is what most if our vaginas already do. As long as you can still menstruate, give birth and have normal vaginal discharge then you already have the "Perfect vagina".

Wether guys find the way an average woman's vagina looks as "Ugly" doesn't matter. Those guys are Immature. They should Instead be happy that her vagina is functioning normally wether it's pretty to look at or not. And yes what you're stating is Infact true, Unless the vagina has any warts or abnormal, gross looking spots on it there's nothing wrong with it. All this is being caused by what guys are viewing on the Internet and media. The girls on those sites purposely have their vaginas bleached and most of those girls Insist on having surgery done in that area.

Basically their vaginas are Infact fake. Before having any of those cosmetic and surgical procedures done on them, their vaginas used to look like what our vaginas look like currently as guys like to call them - "Ugly". And so guys are expecting our vaginas to look like those girls vaginas that they see on the media, but in reality no one's vagina is that "Pretty" and "Cute" looking without having procedures done.

[24brownish]

Didn't reach through half your answer and just had to reply... isn't innie and outie referred to for belly buttons? That too i learned here lol..

[amanda_smith]

Most just watch too much porn, assume that's the ideal vulva, and anything different is odd to them. I can't count how many guys seem surprised by what a "normal" woman looks like outside of porn.

[0112358]

Most guys think most vaginas look fine, and are excited to see the normal looking vaginas (yes, I know, vulvas) of normal looking women.

Is it true most guys prefer innies? It wouldn't surprise me if a majority voted they thought they looked nicest, but I don't believe it's remotely true that most guys feel that way strongly.

I'll note though that what people think is best is rarely what's 'average'. The level of muscle, fat, etc. women and men on average like best is nowhere close to the average body.

[Asker]

I even saw memes on that, so yeah, i guess it is a strong preference

[0112358]

Yeah, I think the memes are full of shit.

I'll also note that literally nobody mentioned labia size when I was growing up, it's something that became a big deal in the last few decades as shaving took off. But i'm pretty sure the people saying the most are either a few douchebags, and a bunch of virgins.

not sure if you're aware but magazines like playboy were at some point airbrushing out protruding labia … not because they looked BAD but because that was more explicit than their traditional look.

[Asker]

I don't know, I didn't knew people cared about it until I saw the memes. I didn't even notice there was such a difference amond women, but I don'twatch porn or look at this kind of stuff often.

[0112358]

People joke about it mainly I think to feel superior. When it comes down to it, it's really low on people's priority list. Guys care about her weight, face, lips, boobs, ass, thighs often feet, nipples, pubic hair style all above shit like this. It's probably just above whether they care if she has sport or shorter nails done at the salon.

[TadCurious]

I think it's porn that has given a lot of guys this inaccurate idea of what a "normal" vulva is supposed to look like. But the reliable surveys show that at least half or even more than half of women have outies. And the negative body image so many girls have today about their normal labia is a shame.

[theharlequin]

Most of those questions are ‘either/or’ type questions that indicate one is good and one is bad.

I think most guys would agree that they are all good, and while they may vote on a ‘preference,’ it certainly doesn’t mean the other type is bad in any way

[Asker]

the "i don't care option existed on my question", I just didn't know there was an in-between. Anyway, lots of guys said innie, close to the "I don't care".
I usually don't think about stuff like that, but I recently saw memes online about it. I didn't even knew people cared about this.

[theharlequin]

Yes, I saw and voted in your poll. But what I’m saying is even though there may be a slight preference one way or the other, it’s usually just that - slight.

I’ve been around a long time, and I’ve never yet seen or heard of a guy rejecting a girl who drops her panties just because she does or doesn’t have a certain type of pussy lips.

It’s just not a big deal, a non-issue

[loveslongnails]

I REALLY don't think you can use the terminology "most guys prefer innies" , etc, here. Seriously, how many guys do you have experience with on this question, vs how many guys there are in the world? It's strictly based on your limited experiences, isn't it?

[Anonymous]

Where are you getting this info from? I personally (and any guys I've heard opinions from), like them all! We aren't picky lol. I've never seen an "ugly" vagina, unless I wasn't attracted to her to begin with, and even then their vagina isn't a turn off lol. I like them all!

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

Not every guy is like you though lol and I still think my vagina looks ugly...😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Shafaq_Mahnoor96 True, but I think most guys would agree with me? It's like breasts, while we might have our preference, we generally like them all regardless. We aren't like women that way lol.

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

Of course guys would like every vagina in general. All guys are like that. They're all wired that way. Guys aren't as picky as girls.

[TallAnon]

I don't care about the media or anything like that. A nicely shaven innie just looks more aesthetically pleasing and hygenic. It's streamlined and neat. That said, that's my preference when it comes to porn. In bed, I don't care what it looks like, because I'm there for the person, not for the pussy.

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

Well mine is already an Innie from the start, and I dislike it. I do shave it though. I prefer outies as I think they look more prettier like the petals of a flower...

[TallAnon]

To each their own

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

Each their own?

[TallAnon]

It's a proverb

[IlyaTheImpaler]

the media differentiates between innie and outie vaginas?

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

Mines an Innie and I hate it lol

[IlyaTheImpaler]

@Shafaq_Mahnoor96 really? why?

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

It looks kind of too big for my liking. I prefer outies...

[beebella]

I had no idea that this was such a big deal to them. 😂

[theharlequin]

It isn’t haha

[Quidthonian]

I think it is all down to porn. Porn "sells" the ideal penis / vagina. I know I have been influenced!

[pizzalovershouse]

some like some dont
wouldn't know why just every 1 has diffrent likes

[COMMODOREII]

I love the way vaginas look and taste. Nothing wrong with me. 😜😎

[Mikey81]

I guess many are early influenced by over realistic porn-esthetics

[bklynbadboy1]

Not me I think there beautiful lol except the ones that are all stretched out and beat up looking

[reptocarl]

I couldn’t care less