Why are teenage guys such heart breakers & players?

[someonexxx]

Omgee... I am SO tired of teenage boys playing games, their horrible mind & what their actual aim is. They pretend they like you, they play games etc... This time I'm not sure that this guy deserves to know Iike him or ANYTHING. Because of my past experiences :( I don't know if this is good or bad?:S but all I know is I think I'm done with guys FOREVER. Why are they such heart breakers? & I am not saying this because of any break up, tbh I wish he even respected me enough to even go out with me properly. I don't know why?:S

[Anonymous]

No offense but did your parents ever talk to you about guys? especially your dad? teenage guys want sex. all these games are to get sex. and breaking your heart is the end result. they don't want a relationship, they want to hook up with as many girls as they can and don't really care about your feelings. so do not trust teenage guys and stay away from sex until you get older

also just because a guy is "quiet" doesn't mean he is a good guy. a lot of guys are only quiet because they can't attract girls. but if they could get a girl they'd dog her out just like the players do

seriously just stay in school, join extra curriculars, get a job and be really busy. use this time to develop your skills and talents so by the time you meet a good man you will be ready for him.

[daren0326]

I'm still in high school and I actually seek a relationship more than sex and I don't play around... I'm actually a virgin as a matter of fact. :|

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Because their goal is to have sex with as many girls as possible. they can't do that unless they play around, break hearts and manipulate. now that you know this, you should keep your guard up

[daren0326]

I'm not like that at all.

[DonMichelle]

Because they're immature and think with thier penis's. The most blunt and accurate answer your going to get!

I'm in my early 20's and unfortunately still have this way of thinking. I'm not saying I play girls necassarily/no intention of hurting them but sometimes it's as if a relationship can be a scary commitment! I'm a young lad who enjoys going out with the boys, not spending most of my free time with a girl. I'm all for snuggles on the couch with a dvd ;)... but not nearly every night!

Think this could apply to a lot of 'young studs' :)

[xperience]

not all guys are like hat. just unfortunate for you to find nothing but that >.<

maybe your looking in the wrong direction... could be one...

maybe not date for awhile and focus on yourself and let one come to you while you reaching success?

even better.. :D

[snackeyg]

This. None of my friends were heart breakers or players.

[someonexxx]

I've course not all of you are like that; there are lots of girls who play too. Thanks:)

[zachg]

here's an idea. open your damn eyes! look at a guy. what are his past relationships like. ohh he dumps girls after they have sex. he might not be a good choice for a relationship.

also. you know those quiet guys. the ones who you ignore almost all the time. ask him out. he'd appreciate you more because he doesn't go out with many girls. chances have it he's a nice guy.

seriously. don't generalize all guys because of the actions of a few. that's like saying all Germans are evil just because Hitler was so bad.

[someonexxx]

Thanks!

[Asailum]

What are you actually asking here? Sounds like you are ranting over bad experiences and just wanna dog on young guys in general. Girls play guys just as much if not more in the bigger scheme of things. Look at all that money that gets moved around from girls marrying guys and playing them. It goes BOTH ways. At least if you get played you don't lose hard earned money that you worked years and years to obtain!

[someonexxx]

I'd rather loose all the money in the world than end up having a broken heart EVERY TIME. :/

[Asailum]

very very unlikely. Why don't you get to the root of what your actually asking? How did you get your heart broken?

[someonexxx]

Falling for the wrong guy; therefore I am too afraid for ANY relationship

[Asailum]

Well, I don't know exactly what you mean but I have a few things to say. One, you need to brush yourself off and stand up so to speak. What I mean is you need to get your mind off of bad things and start having fun again. Whenever your feeling bad after a breakup, no matter what anyone says to you, it won't help that much unless your feeling good about yourself so that you actually listen to it.

Second, after you do that you should realize a few things about guys: one, they will say anything to

[Asailum]

get into your pants. Now, this is not ALL guys, but definitly a lot of them, and there's also nothing wrong with it. Its just a guys nature to see a chick, and already imagine having sex with her. Now, the "players" or dishonest guys will pretend they want to be your friend and seem oh so pleasant!, but reality is they want what all the other guys want: sex. Now, there is a second category of men who are more honest and direct, but they are rare. They will let you know very quickly what they are

[Asailum]

interested in. They might offend you sometimes, but at least they will always tell you what's on their mind. Ok, the other thing I wanted to say which goes hand in hand with realizing how men can be, is that you gotta always always always watch out for yourself FIRST. This means protecting yourself from being hurt by placing your feelings on highest priority when dealing with ANY guy, period. This means prioritize protecting yourself over what the guy is telling you, because they are all capable

[Asailum]

of hurting you. This doesn't mean they WILL but you should still always never put yourself in a place where you can get hurt. That means that lets say you are with some guy and you like him a lot, you should still keep other options with other guys open, because who knows if he's legit right? Take your time, don't feel pressured to do anything and be selfish about protecting your feelings!

[someonexxx]

Thank you so much!

[citrush2o]

Sorry to hear you've been hurt. Part of me agrees with you that it's a sad state of affairs when boys refuse to grow up and instead play around in relationships till they're old and grey. On the other hand, once women get into the end of their teens/early twenties, they can be very malicious as well. The best advice to is avoid those kind of "boys" in the first place and don't even put yourself in that situation. Also, keep an eye to make sure you don't become the same thing in bitterness.

[AlbinoBunny]

Why are you done with forever because of *teenage* boys? They are immature, so a lot of them lie and cheat for their own pleasure, ignoring the consequences of their actions. Although some guys don't grow out of that a lot do. Don't lose faith in all men because of what they're like when they're younger.

(This is saying that men can be upfront with what they want, not that they'll all want relationships)

[someonexxx]

Thanks.

[AlbinoBunny]

Downie. lol

[Lamnad]

I have to apologize for the ass phase we men go through, unfortunately many do not out grow it. as to why we do, think about the mean things you have seen girls in the same group do, y'all can be just a cold hearted.

[someonexxx]

I guess you're right. I mean, every girl wants ALL the hot guys to herself, & every boy wants all the 'chicks' to himself too. But then there should be JUST someone at least that you really do feel for, & why waste your time playing games when you know they love you so much:( I guess because they're heartless...:/

[Lamnad]

know that I'm not excusing or condoning their actions, just that guys are not the only people to rip a heart out of another chest just to laugh at its beating.

[someonexxx]

I know... But in my case it is because I'm a girl. Although some girlfriends have done the same to me friendshipwise.

[malekoniky]

Because everybody learns to love. Nobody know how to love fully from child. Need to love we have, but we mistake it for many other things. We grow, we learn.

[dudeman]

why are girls so easy teenage boys are on a super human dose of sex hormone you wouldn't understand until you in your mid thirties but you will have more perspective then and more self control

[someonexxx]

Because I'm foolish, that's why I'm easy :( & I really do hope they do get over all that crap(Y).

[dudeman]

you know if you sleep with to many men a good guy won't want you I suggest staying celibate for a few years and just working on yourself you know being happy doesn't mean being in a relationship

[someonexxx]

Thanks.

[Ned22winfrey]

I think with my heart as much as my penis but I don't heartbreak because I am a loser (never been in a r/ship)

[DanHendo]

I am a teenager. I am Not a player. and I do not play Games. so there ya go. and oh yes, I do Not break hearts.

[Dom163]

Why are teenage girls such heartbreakers? Going after the wrong people

[someonexxx]

Ikr! Why?why?why? The answer? I DONT KNOW:(. I guess it's just that the 'good' guys aren't really noticed & as for the bad boys.. I mean, they MAKE you notice them & they FORCE you to like them in their behavior towards you. & every time they play, you think more about them, therefore you love them more & then just end up broken into pieces eating chocolate & listening to sad music:(

[Dom163]

No one forces you to like them

[someonexxx]

I guess he just... I don't know how to explain; just.. When you like someone, & they give you all the attention & the looks... Then all of a sudden BAM. ''I'm sorry I was just playing around with your heart for my amusement''.

[Stacyzee]

Believe me...its not just teen guys.

[someonexxx]

It's so horrible, you just don't know who to trust :(

[dx021]

it doesn't end til like age 30 + lol

[daren0326]

False the majority of the time.

[Anonymous]

Men suck DONKEY DlCK

[someonexxx]

LOOOL. Innit..

[Toxic]

Because we can be.