Why are most guys such players and jerks in high school?

[veronica12]

They just wanna get with you, and dump you without even being bf/gf. They just want a hookup. And yes theyre immature, but this is just stupid. I've never had a boyfriend because I know the intentions of the stupid guys that ask me out.

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+1 y

so basically I'm better off NOT having a relationship in high school? because I know that when I've gotten too attached I end up hurt..

[martyfellow]

Yes, you are right, and I reached the same conclusion at your age, and have never regretted it.

Just have casual friends, go out in groups only. You can practice flirting still, but there is safety in numbers.

[Moloch]

Not most guys. Most guys that you're ATTRACTED to.

[veronica12]

Most guys in my high school are like this. The ones I'm not attracted to would still act the same way to impres the ones I am attracted to haaha

[posted]

this

[Moloch]

Nope. I've been in high school before, I know what it's like.

[posted]

Odd question, but after you graduated did you notice everyone else kind of drift apart from their friends?

[Moloch]

Yeah we went our separate ways.

[Yeahhbro]

Because I would say most men in high school just want to be popular and want to sleep as many women as possible...relationships seem just like like a hussle for them, they just want to be free and have fun!

[Yeahhbro]

yes probably...unless you like quiet, unpopular, not so good looking guys

[veronica12]

amen. all the guys I'm attracted to are good looking or a little above average (call me superfifical guilty haha!) and all of them act the same jerkish way. douchebaggery is in their clique

[Anonymous]

it is immaturity and hormones they are not ready to settle down mentally or financially

[Anonymous]

They're like that because high school is the land of immaturity.