Why are high school boys so shallow?

[Anonymous]

They go for the prettiest girl at school and only care about looks and a girl’s body

[Man-O-Metal]

Because of this thing called hormones. Boys at that age can't control hormones. So, they tend to become a slave to them. It's actually a hard time for a young boy that feels disgusted by his own behavior (like I did). It was a very depressing time for me because I didn't want to be known as the perverted boy with disturbing urges. I kept all my struggling a secret. I'm obviously better now and not in a dark place anymore. But it was a time that made me feel like there was no light at the end of the tunnel and I wouldn't be able to change. So please oh please oh please put up with these boys FOR NOW. It will get better and some of them will grow up and mature. I understand your current frustration, but it's tough on everybody.

[DaveJord]

So kids in general and specifically teenagers are all very self centered and shallow. But they grow up eventually, some faster than others.

I mean its all par for the courses, every body living has ask or wonder about this question.

As a teenager I'd see really great girls with guys I know were biggest losers, creeps and out right jerks. And ask myself what heck is she doing with him.

Its just way it is, by the time you get into your early 20s things even out.

[WhitneySnow]

Not all high school boys are. Go out with a nerd. Or a theater geek.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nope; nerds are shallow, too.

[Asker]

@Jamie05rhs yeah I’m talking about pretty much all boys even if they don’t say it

[Jamie05rhs]

Yeah

[WhitneySnow]

@asker I disagree but ok. But yeah I agree most of them are.

[kao118]

Relatable af girl. Just believe they’ll change with time.

[DoctorSex]

Probably the same reason why high school girls are.
It's the age darling. I wish I can say people grow out of it. But it's all due to ones spiritual development. You're too young to concern yourself with such things.
Study well, eat wel, exercise well and take care of your hair.

Kind regards,

[Sparkie460]

Yes high school boys do go after the prettier girls. They are usually the easiest to get in bed with. The boys jump from girl to girl just for sex. You should be happy they are not using you for sex then dumping you for the next one. They will eventually change and start looking for a relationship.

[Jamie05rhs]

Sorry, that's just how they are. I think it's biological. I wish I had more encouraging news to share. ... Well, I do, actually; and it's this: most of them grow out of it as they get older. (But don't expect them to change much while still in high school.)

[BungusHighFivePizza]

they dont know what its like to hold a girlfriend for a long time
they dont even know what its like to have a girl in their bedroom
they dont know the smells, tastes, sensations
they only know the visual from far away

[daddydrpsnap]

They're likely not mature enough with short attention spans and they're only after something quick before moving on. If you feel that way about them, I wouldn't have anything to do with them in my opinion.

[Guy13]

because they are young and have just begun Training School...

[Asker]

When did it change for you?

[Guy13]

I was not so much that way. I was in a relationship from 9-12th. Many thought we would marry..."perfect couple".

[Wubs3000]

Are we lmao? I don't think all of us are but many def are. You have to find the boys who aren't shallow.

[LiamSawyer]

Most likely because they're immature and don't yet value other more important characteristics of a good woman

[JackVE]

They're high school boys. That's what they do. They need to get that out of their systems or they'll be like that forever

[BarryLiverstone]

Because like girls, guys want someone who looks good and they are attracted to. Who do the high school girls go after?

[kao118]

Personally the smart ones but I can see where you’re coming from

[BarryLiverstone]

Yep and you can look attractive and still be smart. Like I don’t find dumb girls attractive myself, they become boring quickly yk?

[kao118]

Very true. Personally I like it when there’s both brains in their head and some good looks (I’m impartial to body to some extent whoop-) but then again I don’t want them to be a rude and immature brat ikywim

[BarryLiverstone]

Of course, being rude is a turn off in general. And like you I don’t need a models body. In fact often if they have a good personality that can make me think they look better over time. If they are rude and cruel then they appear ugly. If they are not curious about life and just want to take all the time and not give it gets old

[Anonymous]

For the same reason high school girls are so shallow. They're young and have a very limited concept of "love".

[VikingWarLord]

Not the nerdy geeky boys.

Why don't you give Poindexter a chance?

[In_Trance]

because they're children and have no idea what they actually like.
This is one of the reasons women are attracted to older guys

[driven159]

because boys are immature and grow up slower than girls

[Creampiekarl420]

Puberty duh, we get hit with a tidal wave of hormones that make us lust after girls grody butts

[WhiteBoyChill]

High school girls are pretty shallow too. Just saying.

Its because people aren’t mature

[Anonymous]

Because they are immature and are still in high school.

[_deeznuts]

Because they're literally children but horny

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why high school girls are so shallow.

[qusai_jo]

all young people like that