Personal preference; because the other person (s)/Women/Men, may be 'out-spoken', or smart, therefore the person may be jealous. Or it could be to do with attention seeking, struggle to get life while others 'seem' to have it all; put 'seem' in little marks for a reason!
The biggest problem is calling men men. 10 15 years ago no self respecting men would ever dream of doing shit these guys try to pull nowadays. So yes to me they are be disrespectful to themselves and more so to you women.
Nah, you wouldn't be able to understand because women think differently but men can differentiate. For example. Say you read on the news that a random person died in a car crash, would you cry like you would if you found out a friend or family member died in one? No, obviously not you don't know that person. Same sentiment here. I don't know you, I can see your body, but I have yet to develop a relationship with you so why exactly would I care. It's different when you know the person
Ok , im no expert, but i do have a fair amount of experience, no, i do think there are a lot of men who hide their true selves by being members of the bdsm society, I had a girlfriend not so long ago who was a submissiveand a masochist. Spanking was her sex it was amazing to watch as she climaxed, i wasn't interested in "forcing" her to do anything in fact i never restrained her. So if that means i secretly hate women then i dont know what to say
Well while some of the things you've mention can certainly be degrading, regarding someone else's figure isn't inherently so. So I can't definitively tell you these guys don't have any respect for women without actual examples (and preferably context, too). But assuming they are being degrading, and assuming it's not for the purpose of a fetish, I'd say it's likely they don't have respect for a majority, if not all women.
No i think they are insecure about their own inadequacies and try to make others feel bad about theirselves in hopes that they can feel better about theirselves.
To this I say there are women who say horrible things about men... I’ve had women with boyfriends and husbands tell me horrible things about men and their significant others... does this mean they hate all men? Do they also hate their fathers, brothers and sons?
Men who have never been together with respect worthy partners will never respect women. They will never have confident and smart women, because they fail badly on the first fool test. This is paradoxical quadrature of the circle.
You mean when guys are talking with other guys? I'm guessing you have a lot to learn about men and how they act. But the answer is NO. You completely misunderstand what's going on when guys are hanging out with other dudes.
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I mean when men say this stuff openly to women. I’m not shocked a guy would talk about so-and-so’s cup size, but to say it to me like I’m their buddy? No, that’s gross.
That goes way beyond just women, those men have a criminal mindset probably they've got some history with the law or will have. They're just dumb thugs that's all they have. Can you imagine thinking like that if you had a healthy mind at all?
People in general do this without being vocal about it. The people doing it vocally aren't even worth worrying about. So I'd suggest ignoring them all together.
Everyone's a little bit sexist. Girls degrade guys too, frequently. It doesn't mean they can't still care for members of the opposite sex. It simply means that we identify most with people of our own sex, most of the time.
Yeah it's something men talk about all the time. We're expressing our emotions. You know, we are all human and we all have desires. It's not wrong to have feelings and thoughts. You women talk and think the same things. Get over it.
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Personal preference; because the other person (s)/Women/Men, may be 'out-spoken', or smart, therefore the person may be jealous.
Or it could be to do with attention seeking, struggle to get life while others 'seem' to have it all; put 'seem' in little marks for a reason!
The biggest problem is calling men men. 10 15 years ago no self respecting men would ever dream of doing shit these guys try to pull nowadays. So yes to me they are be disrespectful to themselves and more so to you women.
Nah, you wouldn't be able to understand because women think differently but men can differentiate. For example. Say you read on the news that a random person died in a car crash, would you cry like you would if you found out a friend or family member died in one? No, obviously not you don't know that person. Same sentiment here. I don't know you, I can see your body, but I have yet to develop a relationship with you so why exactly would I care. It's different when you know the person
Ok , im no expert, but i do have a fair amount of experience, no, i do think there are a lot of men who hide their true selves by being members of the bdsm society,
I had a girlfriend not so long ago who was a submissiveand a masochist. Spanking was her sex it was amazing to watch as she climaxed, i wasn't interested in "forcing" her to do anything in fact i never restrained her. So if that means i secretly hate women then i dont know what to say
Well while some of the things you've mention can certainly be degrading, regarding someone else's figure isn't inherently so. So I can't definitively tell you these guys don't have any respect for women without actual examples (and preferably context, too). But assuming they are being degrading, and assuming it's not for the purpose of a fetish, I'd say it's likely they don't have respect for a majority, if not all women.
No i think they are insecure about their own inadequacies and try to make others feel bad about theirselves in hopes that they can feel better about theirselves.
To this I say there are women who say horrible things about men... I’ve had women with boyfriends and husbands tell me horrible things about men and their significant others... does this mean they hate all men? Do they also hate their fathers, brothers and sons?
Men who have never been together with respect worthy partners will never respect women. They will never have confident and smart women, because they fail badly on the first fool test. This is paradoxical quadrature of the circle.
You use big words to hide that you are one of those guys.
Did I hit some nerve? Oh.. really sorry
No, you're just being a dick, most of the women I've been with have been smarter than me, sometimes better educated, it's a turn on.
Ironically, describing others with specific names without knowing the person is exactly what the asker meant.
Yes if he thinks like that of any one girl most probably he must be thinking same for the others
I dont think there's anything secret about their disrespect.
I think that behavior reflects how they really feel about women.
You mean when guys are talking with other guys? I'm guessing you have a lot to learn about men and how they act. But the answer is NO. You completely misunderstand what's going on when guys are hanging out with other dudes.
I mean when men say this stuff openly to women. I’m not shocked a guy would talk about so-and-so’s cup size, but to say it to me like I’m their buddy? No, that’s gross.
On a very large scale, I do! These are also men who have poor relationships with their mothers.
That goes way beyond just women, those men have a criminal mindset probably they've got some history with the law or will have. They're just dumb thugs that's all they have. Can you imagine thinking like that if you had a healthy mind at all?
People in general do this without being vocal about it. The people doing it vocally aren't even worth worrying about. So I'd suggest ignoring them all together.
I agree that they disrespect women in general. I don’t think it is possible to love one and mistreat the other.
Everyone's a little bit sexist. Girls degrade guys too, frequently. It doesn't mean they can't still care for members of the opposite sex. It simply means that we identify most with people of our own sex, most of the time.
I think they just hate themselves, not the opposite sex.
Well I think that tendentially it is very gross to degenerate the opposite sex. And would advice to flee from these persons.
Yeah it's something men talk about all the time. We're expressing our emotions. You know, we are all human and we all have desires. It's not wrong to have feelings and thoughts. You women talk and think the same things. Get over it.
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