I would be very upset if I found out somone I love was only with me for money. I can only assume it is the same for men. Same if you want somone, but can't have them because you don't have enough money.
Hating them isn't the same as not want g to give them money. Maybe it's more important for the gold digger to prove she's incapable of earni g anything. Pretty sexist that she would need to resort stealing from the guy who's probably the sucker. FYI domestic violence should be null and void and the unconstitutional rulings overturned. But I guess no one's ever equating domestic violence with what it truly is, insurrection against the govt. Equality is so equal its basically unfair and one sided. Just because she gives you children, it doesn't mean she's owed everything. "no hymen, no diamond,"
Reality shows that many men don't mind. For me personally: I dislike an attitude of some sort of parasite. I don't mind sharing everything I have with my partner, but that's because of the emotional bond we have - not the material gain 'she' pursues. If my girl only wants me because of my 'payments' - she's not much better than a prostitute.
I dislike gold diggers but part of that lies in the term it's self much prefer the term 'to keep a mistress' for the same thing If I had a lot of money and wanted an extra-maritial fling surely it is better to hire an escort who at least accepts what they do for money rather than hiding or trying to deny the fact like gold diggers tend to do
Well i can guarantee you it's not the latter. Because at that point you know her interest in you is dependent on your resources. It's got nothing to do with you as a person. Actually i feel sorry for them. It's one thing if they're just trying to cash in on their good looks while their young to secure their security. Actually there is a small part of me that can respect that lol.
I don’t think hate that they can’t afford a gold digger. They are relieved that they dodged that bullet. Men don’t mind paying for a good woman who can be high maintenance but if she’s just a gold digger meaning only into you for your money then go dig someone else because I work hard for my money and would rather keep it than give it to someone who has no real interest in me.
Why would anyone want to be with someone who is only with them because they pay for their time and potentially luxuries (if rich)? Even if I was rich, it would make me feel terrible that my only worth to them is entirely material.
The hardest part sometimes is distinguishing who is a gold digger, especially for those with a generous personality. They just want to give their partner a good time, but still don't want them to be a gold digger.
Put it this way, I don't hate any one, I dislike shitty people,
Where i rich, idgf who they are or what they look like if I sense a discrepancy im your character its over, most of these types are high maintenance and that isn't what I want. Iv standards few of them would fit.
Well as someone who could afford them I can safely tell you they sure as hell can't afford me and i'm pretty sure that they're not worth the price they're asking. Gold diggers care about money and when its run dry they'll chase the next rich man like that rich men like loyalty a normal relationship not all this fancy gold digging rubbish.
Well no one likes a user that's for sure. Besides relying on men for money, those golddiggers have no other skills on their own... something they can do earning their own money.
I would love to absolutely spoil my wife, buy her anything and everything she could ever want and give her 100000$ per year for spending.
But i wouldn't want that to be the reason she's with me. I want to be loved for me. Not for my cash. So of i ever become a millionaire, you bet your ass i'm hiding it when i date. She gets to know i'm loaded once we're married.
I'm very wealthy. When i go to the bar i buy vip tables or just order rounds of drinks for my whole crew. But when some pretty girl comes over if she tries to butt in on my generosity i specifically exclude her. I tell her to buy me a drink first. If she won't i tell her to fuck off. I hate being used. I could be a sugar daddy to a few hot girls if i wanted but i find that disgusting. I hate gold diggers and i hate sluts and whores etc.
Just not my type, I don't hate them though but the mindset gold diggers can inspire is not what I'm looking for. I want a dominant woman, the type who's like : If I want it I get it by myself cause I know I can
They are mad they don’t have the money in my opinion. Probably a little salty that they aren’t good enough for the girl to like them for themselves too
Men hate women who are dishonest about their motives for wanting a relationship/marriage. Don't tell me you love ME if what you really love is the lifestyle I can provide.
Had a few. I'm absolutely horrified women still do that. my last girlfriend was in it for what she could get out of it.. She's very religious too. I was shocked when I realised what she was doing... Afterwards I found out she has a reputation for using people to get ahead. Especially where she works. Pure Hypocrisy. Just because someone prays multiple times a day does not make them a good person.
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I would be very upset if I found out somone I love was only with me for money. I can only assume it is the same for men.
Same if you want somone, but can't have them because you don't have enough money.
Basically shallow people suck, so I'd assume.
From their cognitive reaction I would say they really hate them
I think it depends, but I feel like most hate them because they aren't genuine and use them. Wouldn't anyone hate that fact?
These same men use women and aren't genuine
@BrownBratzDoll No not all of them
Riiiiight
Hating them isn't the same as not want g to give them money. Maybe it's more important for the gold digger to prove she's incapable of earni g anything. Pretty sexist that she would need to resort stealing from the guy who's probably the sucker. FYI domestic violence should be null and void and the unconstitutional rulings overturned. But I guess no one's ever equating domestic violence with what it truly is, insurrection against the govt. Equality is so equal its basically unfair and one sided. Just because she gives you children, it doesn't mean she's owed everything. "no hymen, no diamond,"
Ones gender does not entitle them to someone else's hard earned money..
They want equal rights but want someone else to carry their financial burdens!
Yes that is a gold digger lol
Reality shows that many men don't mind.
For me personally: I dislike an attitude of some sort of parasite.
I don't mind sharing everything I have with my partner, but that's because of the emotional bond we have - not the material gain 'she' pursues.
If my girl only wants me because of my 'payments' - she's not much better than a prostitute.
I dislike gold diggers but part of that lies in the term it's self much prefer the term 'to keep a mistress' for the same thing
If I had a lot of money and wanted an extra-maritial fling surely it is better to hire an escort who at least accepts what they do for money rather than hiding or trying to deny the fact like gold diggers tend to do
Well i can guarantee you it's not the latter. Because at that point you know her interest in you is dependent on your resources. It's got nothing to do with you as a person. Actually i feel sorry for them. It's one thing if they're just trying to cash in on their good looks while their young to secure their security. Actually there is a small part of me that can respect that lol.
I don’t think hate that they can’t afford a gold digger. They are relieved that they dodged that bullet. Men don’t mind paying for a good woman who can be high maintenance but if she’s just a gold digger meaning only into you for your money then go dig someone else because I work hard for my money and would rather keep it than give it to someone who has no real interest in me.
Why would anyone want to be with someone who is only with them because they pay for their time and potentially luxuries (if rich)? Even if I was rich, it would make me feel terrible that my only worth to them is entirely material.
The hardest part sometimes is distinguishing who is a gold digger, especially for those with a generous personality. They just want to give their partner a good time, but still don't want them to be a gold digger.
Put it this way, I don't hate any one, I dislike shitty people,
Where i rich, idgf who they are or what they look like if I sense a discrepancy im your character its over, most of these types are high maintenance and that isn't what I want. Iv standards few of them would fit.
Well as someone who could afford them I can safely tell you they sure as hell can't afford me and i'm pretty sure that they're not worth the price they're asking. Gold diggers care about money and when its run dry they'll chase the next rich man like that rich men like loyalty a normal relationship not all this fancy gold digging rubbish.
Well no one likes a user that's for sure. Besides relying on men for money, those golddiggers have no other skills on their own... something they can do earning their own money.
I would love to absolutely spoil my wife, buy her anything and everything she could ever want and give her 100000$ per year for spending.
But i wouldn't want that to be the reason she's with me. I want to be loved for me. Not for my cash. So of i ever become a millionaire, you bet your ass i'm hiding it when i date. She gets to know i'm loaded once we're married.
I'm very wealthy. When i go to the bar i buy vip tables or just order rounds of drinks for my whole crew. But when some pretty girl comes over if she tries to butt in on my generosity i specifically exclude her. I tell her to buy me a drink first. If she won't i tell her to fuck off. I hate being used. I could be a sugar daddy to a few hot girls if i wanted but i find that disgusting. I hate gold diggers and i hate sluts and whores etc.
Just not my type, I don't hate them though but the mindset gold diggers can inspire is not what I'm looking for. I want a dominant woman, the type who's like : If I want it I get it by myself cause I know I can
I have nothing to say on this but take a look at this gold digging video stuff...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/HJXOcIgA0rAOh when old age hits her she will be the one at the front door of Walmart asking me how my day is going.
When the video started she made sure the cleavage was showing. We got our priorities right :)
They are mad they don’t have the money in my opinion. Probably a little salty that they aren’t good enough for the girl to like them for themselves too
LOL when the suddenly realize that millions of men have gone MGTOW monk and millions more on the way. Isaiah 4:1 comes to mind.
Men hate women who are dishonest about their motives for wanting a relationship/marriage. Don't tell me you love ME if what you really love is the lifestyle I can provide.
Had a few. I'm absolutely horrified women still do that. my last girlfriend was in it for what she could get out of it.. She's very religious too. I was shocked when I realised what she was doing... Afterwards I found out she has a reputation for using people to get ahead. Especially where she works. Pure Hypocrisy.
Just because someone prays multiple times a day does not make them a good person.