Why was my crush so unfair to me?

[Anonymous]

He asked me to have casual sex with him but he was usually very rude. He also treated other girls better.

[Nik1hil]

Because he knows you have a Crush on him..
And he knows you have the upper hand..
Mistreat him and he will come. Begging to you..

[Asker]

If he thinks I'm better then why did he treat me badly. He also has mood swings whenever I change my style like when I get a new haircut or hair colour.

[Nik1hil]

No.. Read again

I said he know..
You have crush on him..
He thinks he is better

[Anonymous]

Anybody who asks anybody to have casual sex with someone, is a fucking retard

[Anonymous]

My crush is also an a**hole, and it sucks. He only wants me for casual sex sometimes.

[Opinion Owner]

I also don’t understand what makes me not good enough for him. Part of me is so enamored by him, and the other part can see him for who he truly is, which is not a very nice person.

[Asker]

I can totally relate.

[Opinion Owner]

Here if you want to talk about it.

[Asker]

My crush also tries to make me feel as if I'm not good enough. He gets angry quickly even when I just say hi. He loves another girl's pics on social media while likes mine. If he doesn't want me then I don't understand why je asks me for sex. Why not ask her instead?

[Opinion Owner]

Did you try asking him? I’d love to ask my crush but don’t have the nerve.

[Opinion Owner]

Plus my crush acts like it’s a huge deal to talk to me.

[Asker]

I asked him and he denied that he is rude. Later on he blocked me and then unblocked me after 2 months.

[Asker]

He never gives clear answers.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s kind of how mine is. Like before he said he doesn’t want a relationship. Then I got a boyfriend and he apologized to me asking for another chance. Then my boyfriend dumped me so I did give him another chance... lol. But he’s just back to his same ways.

[Asker]

Did he block you?

[Opinion Owner]

He might as well. He won’t talk to me over text, only over Facebook. He doesn’t have the messenger app, so he only talks to me ~sometimes~ when he’s at home on his laptop. He shuts off chat, so that he has to go in and manually open it before my message can be ‘Delivered.’ Then, he has to actually “read” it and respond. When he does talk to me he takes hours or days to respond. Some days if I’m lucky I will get 1-2 messages from him. Other times, he’ll just ignore me. And he knows I won’t send him a second message if I see he hasn’t even opened the first. He told me Thursday he was going to tell me when he got back from dinner so I could come over, and I haven’t heard from him since.

[Asker]

My crush also does the same or probably worse. He actually leaves me on read.

[Asker]

Then replies after several hours.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s exactly what mine does sometimes, and then I’m sitting there just wondering if I said something stupid when he’s read it and hasn’t replied.

[Opinion Owner]

Last weekend he left me on read for 3 days.

[Asker]

I asked him why he does that and he said it's because he is busy. I don't understand why he reads it in the first place if he is not interested.

[Asker]

He also told me that my messages bug him.

[Opinion Owner]

I feel the same exact way! And mine has even made comments like “I bet you thought I wasn’t going to reach out again (after not hearing from him for days)” or “I know you were wondering the whole time you were gone if you’d ever see me again.” And I asked him if he enjoyed making me feel like that?

[Opinion Owner]

Why’d he say your messages bug him?

[Asker]

He tries to make me feel jealous of other girls. He is single and sleeps around with different girls.

[Opinion Owner]

That is really immature to try and make you jealous.

[Asker]

He said that I message him repeatedly. He seemed interested in the beginning but when I refused to have sex with him he started ignoring me more and more.

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t worry. I don’t think it matters if you wait to have sex or have it right away. Some guys are just jerks no matter what.

[Opinion Owner]

How often do you message him without a response?

[Asker]

Almost every day. He got busy all of a sudden when I refused to have sex.

[Asker]

He also has terrible mood swings. He quicky goes from being cheerful to angry.

[Opinion Owner]

Weird... my crush has mood swings too. Does yours seem to get worked up about little things that you wouldn’t think twice about? Like even with his family?

[Asker]

He doesn't talk to me about his family. Does your crush do that?

[Sadused1]

Hahahaha! This made me laugh!

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker Yeah he has shared quite a bit about his family with me.

[Opinion Owner]

@Sadused1 What’s so funny?

[Asker]

Mine didn't even talk about anything other than sex.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry 😞 I hope we can both find someone nice who will love us forever.

[Asker]

Yes we don't deserve it :(

[Opinion Owner]

The older I get the less believing I am in all of it.

[Asker]

Same here 🥺

[Sadused1]

Just the back and forth... why would you want someone who’s throwing you away? Who you bug? Who makes you feel bad? Who makes things your fault? Who uses you only for sex? Who treats you shittier then other girls? maybe I just don’t get it lol.. duh

[Opinion Owner]

@Sadused1 I really wish I could just get over him, but I’ve had a crush on him for like 6 years now. Obviously he has some really good qualities along with the bad, and I just can’t seem to find someone similar. 😞

[Sadused1]

6 years?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah... 😞

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn’t care about me though so.

[Opinion Owner]

At this point for me it’s really more of being in love than a crush but I could never tell him that Bc he’d just think I’m crazier than he already thinks

[Sadused1]

That’s your stuff

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah lol

[Prime_Sol]

If you're not as good as those other girls, what do you expect?
He's still giving you some attention and you're online sounding ungrateful af.

[Asker]

I'm better actually. He uses them for sex and I, being a high quality woman, don't have casual sex.