Guy tries to be around me but ignores me once near?

[Anonymous]

Like what are their intentions of doing that?

[thunderbolt5]

I have a fantasy that I want to give the girl I will sleep with her all the pleasure in the world. I well let her ride my dick and control her orgasm and i will lick her nipple and during her cum i will hug her and let her feel safe and secure during her cum and there is many thing that i want to pleasure the woman with. I love women and i love sex and i can have sex in any time according to her desire. I'm full of passion and love and nothing better in the world than feeling that there is a partner who care for your sexual desires and love you. Tell me what do you like in bed ok

[Balcetus]

The fuck

[MackToday]

When you're kind of hung up on a girl she's a lot scarier close up than at a distance.

[Asker]

But why scary though? She's human with insecurities too...

[MackToday]

Men are afraid of women at the point they first get involved. In human's females make the choice in taking a mate. When a man gets rejected its basically his entire being getting rejected. The woman is deciding if his DNA is worth keeping around or not. It's a primal fear.

[rockrewls]

Maybe he is shy, but likes you and is afraid of rejection?

[scratchtile]

He's probably shy and doesn't know what to say when you're around

[Asker]

What should the girl do then in this situation?

[scratchtile]

I know it sounds weird but if he has a social media account you could ask him if he wants to do something together

[Balcetus]

Either socially anxious, or a douchebag.

[Asker]

Why socially anxious?

[Balcetus]

Like maybe he's not ignoring you, and he's unable to start conversations. Have you guys ever talked alone?

[Asker]

I'm always the one who initiate convos with him first to talk about class stuff

[Balcetus]

And is he able to hold the convo and keep it going?

[Asker]

He just reply them

[Balcetus]

Ok If you're really interested in him I would suggest you start talking about other stuff to try to get him to open up. And later on you can ask him why does he ignore you.