Why does this guy ignore me? Then talk to me alone?

Question

In front of people we both know he acts likes I don't exist, then when we're alone he's so chatty and talkative its unbelievable like its two diff ppl! I don't get it!

It's like he acts v shy around me in front of people we both know and he doesn't wanna talk to me in front of them? Like he doesn't want ppl, to know we get on so well? But why does he care? I know obv people can gossip or talk crap bout us but I don't get the big deal?

Any understanding on this?

rafadayan2 · Accepted Answer

Sorry to say it but he is not strong-minded nor confident with his decisions. If it is clear that he likes you and then ignores you in public he's an a**hole and a sissy.

A real man won't send you mixed signals because a real man knows what he wants...regardless of what others may think.

If you really like him though, maybe you should get to know him better. Maybe he has some sort of fear and sense of bashfulness in public habitually, maybe he would like to talk and can't. I don't know because I don't know either of u, but what I do know is, it is easy to hate and it is difficult to love. This is how the whole scheme of things works. All good things are difficult to achieve; and bad things are very easy to get.

adeeperlove9 · Accepted Answer

I get the impression he is ashamed of expressing how much he likes you in front of other people for some reason. I could be because you are not apart of his social circle and he feels like you are not on the "level" of him and his friends or he might not think you are pretty enough to claim in front of other people. Either way, the bi-polar responses will do nothing but continue to confuse you. You deserve a man that is not ashamed to express how he feels about you, no matter who is around.

darlanoy0510 · Accepted Answer

My understanding he is not that into you. I don't care how well he get along with you when you guy are alone but if he likes you he wouldn't be afraid to talk to in front of every body.