Why do women assume sex alone equivilates happiness.
Im guy whom has never had sex with anyone.
I do find attraction to many women.
But the fact is, I sense and observe something wrong with the paradaigm of man and women.
I don't enjoy the fact that we are blamed for everything.
I ve never been in love, relationship, because I ve never met women that thinks beyond her programming of environmental conditioning , set behind standards that expect a man give up everything on the chance that a women chooses love, over his resources primarily
Ms independent is myth, even when a women has job.
She expects the man to spend, iniate the basics, with little effort from herside, other than her company , conversation.
Todays portion women may make their money, live their own lifestyle, and be guided by standards of itellectual and emotionally.
But at the core I've always known the driving force within some may harness nothing but crossroads of similarity or futility.
A man does not need sex alone as driving force to love, be happy, content with life.
I'm going to say this once, their is no power in sexual allure, once a man has control of his emotional and physical self.
Attraction without deep emotional substance, is nothing more than random attempt to erode the senses to not feel anything other than surface trivial pleasure.
It leads to lower productivity of self drive and efficency.
Leads to stupid decisions and consequences.
If love truly exists for me, ill open my arms accept it genuinely and build with it.
Otherwise ill keep to myself and still love and do great things for this world community..
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I read that the number 1 factor in male happiness is if they feel like they're making a difference at their job. Like they matter and they're working on something bigger than themselves and even better if they're actually contributing something that others maybe can't. In short purpose. A reason why we go through all the bullshit we have to go through. But there's a lot of other things that makes guys happy too :).
I'm guessing what make men happy are:
1. Food
2. Water
3. Sleep
5. A stable financial situation in their preferred career with a supportive caring partner who shares their interests and fulfills their natural sexual needs
Or something like that I don't know
Depends some really like to talk some like to cuddle some don’t really want anything but sex.. most men are complex human beings and like slot of different things at different times. Just like women.
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Okay, i'm seeing most of these posts are about having sex etc. For me personally it's not at all about having sex but mainly just a girl who would care for me as I do for her, and having a properly GOOD relationship. That is what makes me happy, to have a person to be with. Not just sex.. Besides that I would not mind having a fun job, that would do a lot for my happiness honestly,
I can't speak for most but what makes me happy is music. If I had to lose all my senses except for it'd be hearing.
That is a big, big question. We love brains. We act dumb, but that is only a ruse. We want you to fill the void. The better you do this, the more we love you.
To be king of their lives and do whatever the shit they like like men can go miles together just to drink a cup of tea which would be nostalgic or something special
Being able to do whatever you want when you want. That's the peak.
Things that give them validation and make them feel proud of them being them.
Anything from watching a Mr Rogers episode to a blowjob. Both make you happy for you just being you.Easy one; works every time!
Money
Sex
Love
Beautiful, kind women
Favorite food (pizza)
Sleeping longThe right woman who loves me and is my true equal, a stable and respectable career, some close friends and some adventure to break up monotony.
When our woman and children show appreciation and support for our hard work and decision making.
Not asking a lot of questions
No Nagging
Giving space
Scotch
Long walks
Books
Music
Good Food
Good time with friendsBeing pampered and spoiled by my woman as if I was her kid. That takes full control of me and I instinctively reward her tenfold.
A lot of things make men happy. Tough to generalize.
Nothing. Nothing at all. They just want to be left alone. :)
I like food, going out with friends and video games.
Just like women, every man is different. Trick question.
Not sure about the others but just being around the people I love makes me happy
Peace and comfort. Whatever gives this man these said feelings is what will make him happy.
Playing with friends and enjoying and being with girlfriend and flirting each other for u what makes happy
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