What exactly does a guy want to see when he asks for nudes?

[Anonymous]

I keep showing guys my nudes and they ghost me immediately after. Like I'm confused, wtf do y'all want to see? 🤷‍♀️

[MrOracle]

"I keep showing guys my nudes and they ghost me immediately after."

The problem has nothing to do with what guys want to see or what you are showing them. The problem is that you don't know these guys and they have no emotional connection to you, so ALL they want from you is nudes - and once you give them those nudes, they have what they want and you are of no further use to them.

I have nothing against nudes, and if you are a free spirit who enjoys sharing them, that's fine. If you are in a relationship with a guy and want to share them, that's also fine. But if you're sending out nudes because you are hoping to establish some kind of a relationship with guys that way, you're always going to be disappointed, because you're doing it wrong. It would be like filling your car's gas tank with water and hoping to drive on it - it won't work, and worse, it will fail EVERY SINGLE TIME you try it - with expensive repairs to follow.

Start with being honest with yourself: what is it that you are looking for? Figure that out and be crystal clear about it, and then only do things that will further that goal - and eliminate everything that might distract from or confuse that goal.

[Ceasar97]

The guys that ask for nudes somewhat early on is not a guy that you want to date. If a guy asks for nudes fairly early then he wants porn and will stay until he is finished, if you get what I mean. If he asks for nudes, send him a pic of nude make-up or ask if he wants to see a breast and send a picture of chicken breast. The idea is to address his request for nudes with a joke to test his reaction.
Now if you don't want to date and are just interested in getting nude and dirty with a guy, then just request a meet up and "do it like they do it on the discovery channel."

[DizzyDesii]

They wants tits and to see you rubbing your pussy or shaking your ass. If they want to see me nude then they gonna have to meet me in person cause i ain't sendin shit

[Aakash_Hangargi]

So you are giving invitation for people to see you live naked😍😆

[DizzyDesii]

@Aakash_Hangargi not at all. Longterm relationship only

[Aakash_Hangargi]

For just a nude it feels lot of commitment as per the context😆

[Suhailadil89]

Then lets meet in person 😂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Suhailadil89 bro are you ready to be a father that too a good one only then you are qualified 😂

[Suhailadil89]

Why not.. I've been ready to be a father since a long time

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I forgot to mention the age limit sorry 🙏😅

[Suhailadil89]

R u the father of @DizzyDesii by any chance? 😂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Nope but know her preference I guess😂

[DizzyDesii]

@Aakash_Hangargi lmao omg i wanna hire you as my speaker of the board 😂 anytime someone hits on me, hit em with those two questions 🤣 hilarious!! #GotEm

[Suhailadil89]

No i dont think anyone got me.. as if it was anything other than fun.. some people just take things too seriously

[DizzyDesii]

@Suhailadil89 hey i wasn't referring to you dork. I was speaking in general. You and i already know where we stand. But i need him for random GAG strangers

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Anything for you Desii👍😁

[Suhailadil89]

Ah ok then... miss publisher . U need bodygaurds now 😜

[DizzyDesii]

@Suhailadil89 not a bodyguard per say. But a speaker of the board who can grill em with the important questions 😂 kinda like a big brother grilling his little sisters suitor

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Desiii the things I discussed with you or the comments I have passed its fine if you friend zoned but not the bro zone I resign from the post respectfully @Suhailadil89 pls take in charge 🤣😂

[DizzyDesii]

@Aakash_Hangargi 😂😂😂😂 it was an example! K didn't brozone you 🤣

[Suhailadil89]

Naa im good.. she can take care of herself.. plus she like to get public with everything 😂

[Suhailadil89]

How can she brozone sm1 that was acting in the dad zone lol sorry

[DizzyDesii]

@Suhailadil89 hey sometimes you need an audience 🤷‍♀️ And lmao
You zaddyzoned him 🤣

[Suhailadil89]

Haha.. yup.. audience can be fun.. i know very wellll ;)

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I don't know dad zone or bro zone but it's in my nature to care to an extent qualities of such that is why maybe I have been brozoned always 😂😭

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Whose you daddy (Pun Intended) 😍😉😘😂

[mattl338]

Guys stop. Stop being weird.

[DizzyDesii]

@mattl338 we all just jokin round. Its all good.

[mattl338]

Alright cool It's hard to know who's joking and who's not cause if they weren't that shit cringy, ya know? lol

[DizzyDesii]

@mattl338 lmao yea 🤣

[Aakash_Hangargi]

@suhailadil89 now you not sayin anything😂😂

[Suhailadil89]

When people start acting like they above rest and not understand a sense of humour.. i get bored.. so im out.

[mattl338]

@Suhailadil89 Wait wha? Im confused what happened

[askmewhy66]

Yes don't send your pics send your ex s pics

[brittany23]

Nice nudes girl!

[Asker]

Thanks! Tbh I'm more into reds and pinks👄👄

[brittany23]

I'm really into the pink too lol

[jack_meoff]

Who doesn't love the pink 😍

[mattl338]

What nudes? huh? 🤣

[JackSmy]

I DON'T want nudes, at all!! If we are that close, and somehow separated, like maybe with this virus thing, I want to see her playfully, teasing, NOT NUDE, but making me want her more and more, for not showing everything, but hinting, and almost showing, and teasing!! It's foreplay and one of the most wonderful things that women just don't really know how to do, anymore!!
Find out what he loves, and then tease him, wear that, and make him NEED you, and can't wait to be with you? How did this delicious, subtle art get so lost and forgotten?
Women have such an amazing control over most men, but they seem to have lost the art of the flirtation, the enticement, the erotic teasing!

[Bananaman177]

Mostly they want to see if you're stupid enough to do it.

At which point, they ghost you because no guy wants the mother of his children to be a stupid slut. Even if he's a stupid slut as well, which most guys are. But they still have standards.

Just like women are always shit-testing guys, guys are always slut-testing women.

You could get angry about all this, but there's no point, it's simply a taste of your own medicine. Don't like it? Neither do we, Dollbaby. Neither do we.

[Ntwo0]

@potatoiswhoiam
I think he is right. Is it wrong to send nudes to the woman whom he wanted to marry?

[Ntwo0]

Do we have to shame the girl just because she showed herself to the person whom she loved? I am not saying it is right because I have done it too. I am saying I felt it was right to do. I wanted to connect as deeper as possible.

[potatoiswhoiam]

He's saying that any self respectful woman wouldn't send nudes, which I agree with

[Ntwo0]

@potatoiswhoiam And you are saying I lost my selfrespect by sending her nudes too?

[potatoiswhoiam]

I don't judge what you or anyone else does. All I'm saying is I am against sending nudes in general.

[dantheman1118]

Ok. I'll be the guy to tell you the truth, but you got to send me one first. You know, for research. Im in the dark without it.

But really though, I've seen your picture once. This will seem like a very "guy" thing to say but I have zero idea why they would ghost you. Sounds like the wrong guys are getting them. Just saying.

[Asker]

The wrong guys are probably getting them

[dantheman1118]

Well I will volunteer any time you need me for that. If you need a opinion on something or just need a compliment. Just send one my way. I promise I won't ghost you.

[dantheman1118]

But really, where my nudes? Haaaaaa. Only half way joking.

[Trooper205]

My Girl is VERY SWEET to give me nudes upon request! (Sorry, I only take Hers) Now, I LOVE Her body, but it's not the most beautiful part about Her! She shows me Her beauty every time we chat. Her Heart. Her Face. Her Hair. Now, when She sends me Nudes, I like to admire Her Breasts, Hips, Tummy, Etc... Especially all at once, preferably with Her face included! (Very hard to do) In short, I like to see and admire Her body. ❤️

[Asker]

Awhhh so sweet how much you love your girl

[J2ohhhhh]

Wanna see naked

[Asker]

Oooo soo sexy

[mattmanyah2]

They want to see a nekad picture of a real person... After they masterbate there senses come back and they decided if they want you or not... I don't think women should sleep with men before marriage but if that can't be done at least 2 months it gives you time to see who he is and makes him put in a lot of effort.

[horsenrhinounicorn]

A guy who ask for nudes and is not in a long term relationship with you does not care about you as a person, this typically means an addiction to pornography and having social interaction with that person to masturbate and achieve his sexual fantasies.

[ThomasTKay]

I'd say those are pretty stupid guys. At least they could have the courtsey of talking to you and give you the respect you deserve after sharing something so intimate, beautiful, and private with them.

[Asker]

Haha yeah really I was joking here

[cheapshotbob]

the guy is asking for something he knows he can never have so he can brag at least one pretty girl would give it to him. and guys your age never really care about anything but the naked girl pictures guys my age its an empty pipe dream that some girls fall for lol

[Stoner710]

Hair down coving tits with legs crossed with no hair. It’s very sexy yet let’s us guy wanting to see wants under neither. If the guy say I want to see more say come get me it’s “for your eyes only darling” (yes James Bond reference) Trust me if you want to Sadducee a man it works

[Lliam]

LOL That was good. I love it. You're funny!
You know they want to see your bod, babe. They're drooling at the thought of boobies, butt, legs, curves, that cute little cleft.

[Asker]

I doubt anyone drools over me but that is a nice thought if they did

[MannMitAntworten]

Frankly, I never ask. That’s not to say I haven’t received any whether by complete surprise or with permission or whatever to share them with me. Personally... if I already like your face, the rest has been icing. Frankly, I have zero idea why you are having the experiences that you are.

[nawtee_me]

lol It is my opinion that people who ask for nudes don't really know themselves what they want to see. Their expectations far exceed anything you might send them. Even if you sent them true to life pics of your nude body, they would be disappointed, not in you, but because of their own idea of you.

[johnieohm]

i would say to some it is superficial, more or less to get off too or to remember. but once it gets past this stage people do it as appreciation of a womans body to show that he still wants her. guys won't admit this because they typically dont think this deep about their actions

[Bax854]

I wouldn't ghost you if you sent me nudes. I would love it and continue chatting with you. The guy should have appreciated what you did. Just my thoughts. A girl has only sent me a pic of her in her bra and panties though, not full nude pics.

[Asker]

On a for real level, I think a lot of guys ghost after nudes cuz they get what they want from that girl and are done with her

[Bax854]

Douche ones do as they think it makes them look good. But I personally wouldn't ghost a girl for sending me nudes, I would be really excited and Thankful!!! Im sorry that you get ghosted over the nudes as I would definitely not ghost you.

[Walt832]

Nice 😂😂😂😂. Clever.

I actually never asked for nude pictures. My ex use to send her own twat picture. Then her own knockers. Teasing me during working hours. When I arrive home she was like I already had my own Manuela babe. I was like 🥺.

[Nikki1989]

It often just starts with tits but it never ends there with most guys, before you know it they are begging for pussy pics. Been through that on this site many times.

[maddy4pg0t]

Did you send boba vegina😂😂😂

[Edwardalba]

I can feel that you look hot how does your body look?😘💗

[Apope16]

Boobs and pussy. Thats it. Done in a tasteful or sexy way. We want to be able to imagine what it is like to fuck you. To thrust deep inside you. We want the goods

[Apope16]

We treat picture girls as booty calls. Not relationship material. Fuck Buddies i share pics with. Relationship girls none at all.

[Anonymous]

Apparently not you, lol. Guys ask for nudes for 2 reasons. 1. It's a power move if you send him nudes it shows him how much control he has over you. Because classy girls don't send nudes. 2. It gives him something to brag to his friends about.

[Shamalien]

woah you're one of em weird sociopathic types eh? When I ask for nudes it's for one reason, MY COCK DEMANDED THEM!

[Opinion Owner]

@Shamalien You know nothing about me. And i didn't say rhey're never used as fap material. But online porn is much easier to obtain

[Shamalien]

Lool nice response buddy XD the juxtaposition between my hilarious original response and your military level serious reply is something to behold

[Opinion Owner]

@Shamalien shamwow when i want your opinion i'll ask for it. Just go back to playing with yourself.

[Shamalien]

Hey bucko you can just go ahead and swallow a bale of cocks now ookee?

Savor em shitlord

[Opinion Owner]

@Shamalien oh rabbit ears am i gwtting to you?

[Shamalien]

Getting to me? I thought I was the one trolling you XD

[Opinion Owner]

@Shamalien well that's your first mistake, thinking. You'll only do yourself a disservice.

[Shamalien]

what do you do for a living, might I ask?

[Opinion Owner]

@Shamalien yeah.

[Edwardalba]

I want to see your boobs and it will be perfect if you're topless wearing shiny leggings or in a short skirt plus a smile would make it awsome😘. Oof oomy just by typing im getting random boners😉. Yeah but every guy is different i guess.

[Batman713]

Not lipstick! LOL!
I am not sure that I can answer this, I don't believe that I have ever asked a woman to send me any nude pics. I have received several though, so for me, I think it would come down to if she wanted to send any nude pics, and then whatever she was most comfortable with sending.

[mattl338]

I don't know I don't have full context, like what did you send? (You don't have to show me I'm not asking for that, but just like did you tease them or send them boob pics or pussy pics or what?)

[miMichael]

Not the lipstick from Nudes that's for sure, that's really funny.

[Asker]

😆😆😆😆

[LOUKOUKOU]

Beats me, those seem perfectly fine. Maybe other tones?

[loveslongnails]

sorry, gotta say it. You're a tool, and you have no self respect.

[Asker]

Is it because I posted these sexy nudes?

[Edwardalba]

Can i a take a peek 😘💗🍆💦💦💦💦 because im an 😇🙏☺ you sound soooooo hot.

[loveslongnails]

LOL ... No, those nudes are fine. But I figured you sent actual naked pics too? Or not?

[Asker]

I have sent real nudes in the past but only to people that I trust

[Edwardalba]

O ok its fine can you at least describe me how your body looks like😘😉

[loveslongnails]

Trust in what way?

[Tmoney0305]

I don't think even us guys know what we want to see
But most guys mainly want to see as an example your boobs your special area etc not every guy is like this me and at least 3 of my friends think that asking a girl for nudes Is rude an immoral

[MissDawn7961]

Tmoney0305 - your 3 male friends are very mature for their thinking that asking a girl for nudes is rude and immoral ! they sound very mature for being around a 16 year old like you ! thanks

[Tmoney0305]

@MissDawn7961 eh we aren't really mature especially me I just think it's wrong to ask a girl to show her private areas

[Browneye57]

Yer pussy. Duh.
Just know that anything you send gets shared around with his buddies for a laugh, and one or more of them will post them up on the internet when it all blows up, which it surely will.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

May be i am missing the reference here are lipsticks called nudes?

[Asker]

Yess those are nude shades of lipsticks

[Aakash_Hangargi]

🤐😍🤭

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

Those are some nice nudes 🤤 Do you have any concealer? I'm getting close... 🥴💦

[angecandy]

🤣🤣lol

[walt0462]

It depends on the guy some guys are boobs guys while others like myself are ass &legs men but totally nudes pics aren't as sexy as pics in playful provocative poses or in nice lingerie

[MissDawn7961]

maybe when you send guys your nudes , they see what you have and decide they want a modest Christian woman instead ! thanks

[dantheman1118]

You obviously haven't seen her. I would cut a deal with the devil if I had to. Modest Christian girls were cool in 1956 I'm sure but we have moved past watching paint dry.

[ThatGuy133]

Don't take it personally, they are all horned up and wanting to see some skin. Once they drain their balls they realize all they said to get said nudes and then they bolt.

[mattl338]

It happens

[theronaldmcdonald]

I’ve never sent nudes, I send things that are more of a tease and I find that people respond well. Always leave them wanting more.

[sheildagent]

Maybe they just want your nudes and that's it? They don't want conversation they just got what they came for.

[drsatan]

What's wrong with the nudes you're sending? I would need to see them before I could think what are you doing wrong.

[Kezzz]

You know what the guy wants. You just don't want to say it yourself 😂😏

[Asker]

Nah I have no idea what they want

[Kezzz]

After reading the opinions you should have a pretty good idea now. If not, then let it be. Best to not know.

[gym4ever]

Sending nude to guys that ask for them? That's so wrong. At least 100 guys more gonna see them.

[Asker]

Do guys really show there friends that much?

[gym4ever]

yes we do, unless we really care about you.

[nailu]

You don’t need to show me anything. I’ll be happy with your sexy typing

[Asker]

Ah I'm bad at sexting so that's not a option for me

[nailu]

I don’t mind doing all the work

[Asker]

Awhh💕💕

[nailu]

I’ll start. I think you’ll like the feel of this

[Shamalien]

she's just a tease bruh don't waste ur energy lol

[nailu]

@Shamalien she ain’t wrote back fo a hour

[Shamalien]

yeah she has a life, and kids, once again, do not bother wasting your time lol

[nailu]

@Shamalien I think we all have plenty of time to waste these days

[Asker]

I am a big tease and I think some guys are into that

[Shamalien]

Yeah but I grew up with the internet, I've wasted enough time in sexting, trust me, there's no point in dwelling in such fantasy, your life continues to move along whether you are present in it or not. Besides, there's plenty to do from home. Whatonearthishappening. com

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[nailu]

@Shamalien you’re an ad😳❓ok

[sersss]

wrap yourself in a towel after taking a shower or sent them a bikini version. If they keep asking for more - send them a porn site link and ban these sick f... cks!

[navyP]

If a guy asked you to send nudes it's because he wants to see you naked if they ghost you immediately after it means they only wanted something to jerk off to or there is something about you they don't find attractive

[Rudon00]

Really they ghosted you apple1996?

For me I want to see her butt.

[Rudon00]

I'm very curious. I wonder what you look like naked apple1996?

[Asker]

I don't look cute

[Rudon00]

Oh come on Apple1996 one time I can recall you put up a picture and asked a question how do I look?

You looked very beautiful. you must have confident in your body. how is it a person like yourself who is so confident and liberated sexually be so shy in your body?

[Asker]

Awhhh thank you! And yeah on a real level I'm decently confident with sending nudes

[Rudon00]

There you go girl!!!

[Dolemite510]

Maybe it’s cuz your beer belly is showing in the pics? 🤔🤣

[Asker]

Stopp! You know I only gotta wine belly 😆

[Dolemite510]

I’ve only seen your muffin top 😛

[Asker]

Lol I really call that my mama kangaroo pouch but yeah sure muffin top🙄

[mineorypurs]

I've never asked for nudes, but I've gotten them as a surprise from a few girls. Besides Skyping is way better than nudes, lol.

[Laozi]

Some want nudes to masturbate. Some want it to show off how cool they are in front of their friends. Some want to use it in pornography.

[Arkkells]

It depends on the guy but personally i dont like girls with a lot of pubic hair and a lot of people agree with me its kind of a turnoff also i wouldn't keep sending guys nudes because they are probably just using you for a fap session

[Barry88]

Depends on the guy. I would prefer pics of the pussy and ass. Some other guys are more into boobs.

[jolospongebob]

Im more of a dark red lip stick Guy can i see those

[Strahd]

Super unsure about that one. I prefer conversation mostly. Nudes are a good tease for me. Then I will have to get action.

[HeyMikie]

A guy wants to see as much as you will show him. He is basically looking for porn. Be true to yourself and only send what you are comfortable sending.

[MackToday]

Mystery to me, maybe you need to start sending human road kill pics instead.

[alance99]

They just wanna see everything and then they just ghost like you said but you shouldn't do it what if they post it on internet

[Surely]

Sometimes showing everything isn't as sexy as leaving a little to the imagination.

[whitehide]

That make up thingy is exactly I mean when I say that, it's the only thing that gets me off.

[GennySanders]

Is this question a joke? , They need to suck their own dicks 🤣🤣💯🤦

[LazyMan]

It depends on the person. I like a number of specific poses for nudes that would really do it for me.

[jasco]

wow lol but uh boobs, cat, ass, videos, ig I don't know lol

[devil_8888]

Boobs, ass and pussy and a naughty expression on your face...

But why do you share nudes?

[Shamalien]

I'd never leave a girl with such ambiguity, with me, she'd get very clear instructions :P

[pizzalovershouse]

Those type of guys are asking play boy type photos to rated x photos of course of you

[askmewhy66]

1 to see what you send and most just stroke over them and finish in record 3 min lol

[askmewhy66]

There's plenty of pics online if that's all you have I guess