What exactly does a guy want to see when he asks for nudes?
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"I keep showing guys my nudes and they ghost me immediately after."
The problem has nothing to do with what guys want to see or what you are showing them. The problem is that you don't know these guys and they have no emotional connection to you, so ALL they want from you is nudes - and once you give them those nudes, they have what they want and you are of no further use to them.
I have nothing against nudes, and if you are a free spirit who enjoys sharing them, that's fine. If you are in a relationship with a guy and want to share them, that's also fine. But if you're sending out nudes because you are hoping to establish some kind of a relationship with guys that way, you're always going to be disappointed, because you're doing it wrong. It would be like filling your car's gas tank with water and hoping to drive on it - it won't work, and worse, it will fail EVERY SINGLE TIME you try it - with expensive repairs to follow.
Start with being honest with yourself: what is it that you are looking for? Figure that out and be crystal clear about it, and then only do things that will further that goal - and eliminate everything that might distract from or confuse that goal.
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The guys that ask for nudes somewhat early on is not a guy that you want to date. If a guy asks for nudes fairly early then he wants porn and will stay until he is finished, if you get what I mean. If he asks for nudes, send him a pic of nude make-up or ask if he wants to see a breast and send a picture of chicken breast. The idea is to address his request for nudes with a joke to test his reaction.
Now if you don't want to date and are just interested in getting nude and dirty with a guy, then just request a meet up and "do it like they do it on the discovery channel."
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They wants tits and to see you rubbing your pussy or shaking your ass. If they want to see me nude then they gonna have to meet me in person cause i ain't sendin shit
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Nice nudes girl!
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I DON'T want nudes, at all!! If we are that close, and somehow separated, like maybe with this virus thing, I want to see her playfully, teasing, NOT NUDE, but making me want her more and more, for not showing everything, but hinting, and almost showing, and teasing!! It's foreplay and one of the most wonderful things that women just don't really know how to do, anymore!!
Find out what he loves, and then tease him, wear that, and make him NEED you, and can't wait to be with you? How did this delicious, subtle art get so lost and forgotten?
Women have such an amazing control over most men, but they seem to have lost the art of the flirtation, the enticement, the erotic teasing! -
Mostly they want to see if you're stupid enough to do it.
At which point, they ghost you because no guy wants the mother of his children to be a stupid slut. Even if he's a stupid slut as well, which most guys are. But they still have standards.
Just like women are always shit-testing guys, guys are always slut-testing women.
You could get angry about all this, but there's no point, it's simply a taste of your own medicine. Don't like it? Neither do we, Dollbaby. Neither do we.
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Ok. I'll be the guy to tell you the truth, but you got to send me one first. You know, for research. Im in the dark without it.
But really though, I've seen your picture once. This will seem like a very "guy" thing to say but I have zero idea why they would ghost you. Sounds like the wrong guys are getting them. Just saying. -
My Girl is VERY SWEET to give me nudes upon request! (Sorry, I only take Hers) Now, I LOVE Her body, but it's not the most beautiful part about Her! She shows me Her beauty every time we chat. Her Heart. Her Face. Her Hair. Now, when She sends me Nudes, I like to admire Her Breasts, Hips, Tummy, Etc... Especially all at once, preferably with Her face included! (Very hard to do) In short, I like to see and admire Her body. ❤️
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Wanna see naked
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They want to see a nekad picture of a real person... After they masterbate there senses come back and they decided if they want you or not... I don't think women should sleep with men before marriage but if that can't be done at least 2 months it gives you time to see who he is and makes him put in a lot of effort.
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A guy who ask for nudes and is not in a long term relationship with you does not care about you as a person, this typically means an addiction to pornography and having social interaction with that person to masturbate and achieve his sexual fantasies.
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I'd say those are pretty stupid guys. At least they could have the courtsey of talking to you and give you the respect you deserve after sharing something so intimate, beautiful, and private with them.
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the guy is asking for something he knows he can never have so he can brag at least one pretty girl would give it to him. and guys your age never really care about anything but the naked girl pictures guys my age its an empty pipe dream that some girls fall for lol
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Hair down coving tits with legs crossed with no hair. It’s very sexy yet let’s us guy wanting to see wants under neither. If the guy say I want to see more say come get me it’s “for your eyes only darling” (yes James Bond reference) Trust me if you want to Sadducee a man it works
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LOL That was good. I love it. You're funny!
You know they want to see your bod, babe. They're drooling at the thought of boobies, butt, legs, curves, that cute little cleft. - 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Frankly, I never ask. That’s not to say I haven’t received any whether by complete surprise or with permission or whatever to share them with me. Personally... if I already like your face, the rest has been icing. Frankly, I have zero idea why you are having the experiences that you are.
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lol It is my opinion that people who ask for nudes don't really know themselves what they want to see. Their expectations far exceed anything you might send them. Even if you sent them true to life pics of your nude body, they would be disappointed, not in you, but because of their own idea of you.
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i would say to some it is superficial, more or less to get off too or to remember. but once it gets past this stage people do it as appreciation of a womans body to show that he still wants her. guys won't admit this because they typically dont think this deep about their actions
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I wouldn't ghost you if you sent me nudes. I would love it and continue chatting with you. The guy should have appreciated what you did. Just my thoughts. A girl has only sent me a pic of her in her bra and panties though, not full nude pics.
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Nice 😂😂😂😂. Clever.
I actually never asked for nude pictures. My ex use to send her own twat picture. Then her own knockers. Teasing me during working hours. When I arrive home she was like I already had my own Manuela babe. I was like 🥺. - 389 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Boobs and pussy. Thats it. Done in a tasteful or sexy way. We want to be able to imagine what it is like to fuck you. To thrust deep inside you. We want the goods
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Apparently not you, lol. Guys ask for nudes for 2 reasons. 1. It's a power move if you send him nudes it shows him how much control he has over you. Because classy girls don't send nudes. 2. It gives him something to brag to his friends about.
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I want to see your boobs and it will be perfect if you're topless wearing shiny leggings or in a short skirt plus a smile would make it awsome😘. Oof oomy just by typing im getting random boners😉. Yeah but every guy is different i guess.
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Not lipstick! LOL!
I am not sure that I can answer this, I don't believe that I have ever asked a woman to send me any nude pics. I have received several though, so for me, I think it would come down to if she wanted to send any nude pics, and then whatever she was most comfortable with sending.
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