He acknowledges other girls flirting with him but doesn't stop them am I in the wrong for being upset about this?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend lets other girls flirt with him and one of them does it infront of me and has now taken to giving me dirty looks and talking shit "behind" my back but my boyfriend does nothing he plays along with it am i in the wrong for being upset about this. I know i have jealousy issues but if he can acknowledge she's doing it shouldn't he call her out on it?

[RemoErdosain]

I don't think you have jealousy issues, at least not from what you say. The first boyfriend that said you had them was actually cheating on you, and the other one lets women flirt with him, even in front of you? Uh-uh. There's something seriously wrong with this guy's behavior, and you're right that he should step up and do something about this flirting. Also, if he gets upset with you for being upset, he's full of shit. Like topur said, you should always be able to talk about problems in your relationship without the other person just brushing them off or getting upset about you wanting to talk about them

[topur]

If he knows they are flirting and doesn't step back is because he is at least enjoying the attention and maybe flirting back. Is not someone should do if they are in a relationship and I think he should respect you more.

Who told you that you have jealousy issues? Your boyfriend or your friends?

[Asker]

My ex, my current boyfriend both say I'm jealous but I know I am. But i know im jealous because my ex used to cheat on me.

My boyfriend says he never woild loves me etc but everytime we try to talk about it he gets upset that i think he woilf do that and brushes over it and just makes me feel bad he blames it on the fact that I'm his first girlfriend and he's trting to override the last 20yrs of his life

[topur]

It's always good to talk about things. If you can't talk about something that means there is problem in your relationship. It doesn't have to be a big problem, can be a small problem, but there is a problem.
Just my opinion..
Has the opposite happened? You talking to a guy that was flirting with you? What was your boyfriend's reaction?

[Babilicious]

nope you are not wrong and i think you should start analysing if he is the one for you or not if someone is loyal he won't even enjoy attention of other girls..🤷🤷think it out girl if he is the one for you he won't let you be in the situation where you need to be upset

[integrale77]

Try flirting with someone else in front of him and see how he likes it and when he complains just say I thought it was OK as you do it!