Secret soft spot (friendship)?

[LoverofLove]

Okay I have this friend and he’s not necessarily rude but I don't know how to explain it. Like once he said he’d love to be a vegetable and I asked what vegetable so he told me to leave.
But he once banned someone out of our chat for calling me the b word and when another guy asked me to send him a picture of my face, my friend messaged me alone saying “I hope you’re really not about to send to send him your face.” Does that mean he has a secret soft spot or no?

Updates

+1 y

I said in our group chat that I was gonna go to sleep while he was having a whole argument with someone. But he stopped to tell me to have sweet dreams.

[1CentWorth]

The negative attention you are receiving from him seems to be the [maybe/probably] sexual frustration he feels towards you but doesn't feel reciprocated, manifested as negative-attention seeking. He's also protective of you [lol in an internet way], so he's claiming some responsibility for you hoping you would see his positive-attention seeking.

This is basically childish, if that's not obvious. A relationship with a person who acts like this in real-life could turn horribly into a bad time, as time goes on.

[meesegoMoo]

It sounds like he might be somewhat protective of you, but it doesn't sound like he has any skill in communicating. Is he ever nice or smart?

[LoverofLove]

He’s smart but he has some moments where he’s nice

[meesegoMoo]

It honestly sounds like defending you is more about him than you. It would be a terrible idea to pursue a relationship with this guy.

[BlackWidow93]

I think so. He sounds protective. Guys get that way when they like someone. If you were just a friend then he wouldn't feel the need to keep tabs on you.

[MaidenMandy30]

Sounds like he has one for females. Not liking anyone disrespecting or trying to degrade them

[Secret6620]

This seems like a VERY bizarre relationship you guys have... I don't think this is indicative of any sort of soft spot though🎀

[zagor]

LOL apparently his choice of vegetable is a closely held personal secret.

[LoverofLove]

😂 this comment made me laugh so hard

[TadCurious]

This is hilarious.
Guy friend: "Ya know I would really love to be a vegetable."
OP: "What vegetable?"
Guy friend: "I want you to leave."
LMAO

[King_Brand]

Maybe he's whiteknighting you. Could have a soft spot for you.

[NewZion]

Sounds like a friend, for now. The "sweet dreams" part was cheesy on his part. He may want more.

[theCobbler]

Hard to say mixed signals . Maybe just over protective!

[imafreak67]

He likes you he's into you.. watch. whenyr o line and he is to pretend to be interested in the guy your talking online see what his reaction will be

[taco_puppo]

Might consider you a sister maybe I don't know sounds like he cares bout you tho

[Anonymous]

I don't know, it sounds like he might, but it's hard to say for sure.

[Madhatter920]

He could just be eccentric.

[one1wild00]

I'd say yes, he does.

[abbie_wright]

Seems overly sensitive

[Nahid1707]

Yes he likes you as a friend

[boyfriend1915]

Well he cares for you so maybe he have

[reptocarl2]

He’s fond of you