Open friendship?

[Emmy22uni]

What does it mean when an ex feels comfortable talking to you, as an ex, in a open friendship?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm an open friendship with an ex can potentially mean a few different things sis:

- He sees your breakup was amicable and wants to maintain a chill, drama-free connection now that the romance is over.

- He's not fully over you yet and likes keeping you in his orbit in case he wants to try again down the line.

- He values your bond and doesn't wanna fully cut you off, but doesn't want commitment either. Just casual for now.

- He's feeling lonely/bored and using you for an ego boost until something new comes along.

- He genuinely cherishes your history and friendship, with no hidden agenda.

It can be hard to tell his true intentions. I'd say proceed with care - keep your guard up a little. See how he treats you - is he respecting your space/time? Or still acting entitled?

Enjoy catching up, but watch for any signs he's trying to slide back into your DMs once in a while. Trust your gut above all. An open friendship can work, but only if you're both really over that last chapter. Feel him out sis! You know what's best for you.

[riverrat3]

What is an open friendship, i thought we xould have as many friends as we want

[Anonymous]

He still wants to be friends I guess?