He doesn't want to talk about the status of our relationship (we made out a few times, but haven't had sex yet).
I get angry when he delays my questions. He knows exactly how to get on my nerves. Then laughs.
Yesterday joked about finally revealing the status being an "open relationship", to which I responded with a middle finger. And told him "so you are going to see others, huh?"... he replied "technically I'm meeting now with male friends only"... and cracked up. I got frustrated.
He then said "you have no other option but to accept that"
I feel numb. Why is he like that?
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It sounds like you are feeling frustrated and confused about the status of your relationship with this person. It's important to remember that relationships should be based on mutual respect, communication, and trust. From what you've described, it doesn't sound like he is respecting your feelings and needs in the relationship.
It's also concerning that he is joking about the possibility of an open relationship without discussing it with you first. Open relationships can work for some people, but it's important that both partners are on the same page and have clear boundaries and expectations.
It's up to you to decide what you are comfortable with in a relationship, but it's important to have open and honest communication with your partner. If he is unwilling to discuss the status of your relationship or respect your feelings, it may be time to reevaluate whether this is a healthy and fulfilling relationship for you.
He is playing with your emotions and treating you poorly. This is past the point where you should dump him. He's like that because he doesn't respect you. Think about if this is the kind of relationship you want to keep together.
Do you think that he is just like that or he is being that way only with me? The thing is he is 11 years my senior and has never had any serious relationship, always been the "ladies man"...
why are you like that? Make a decision, tell him how it is and move forward
What do you mean by "make a decision "?