I’m poly, That is to say I only participate in open relationships. I’m fine with my partners enjoying themselves however they like with whomever they like. The truth is, women tend to be more monogamous and generally don’t take advantage of the freedom as much as I do. Sometimes, not at all. Not that it would bother me if they did.
I don’t really worry a whole lot about who is an alpha or beta male, that kind of hand wringing and fretting is for betas, lol.
What dudes are worried about if their partner hooks up with someone else is that that other dude is gonna be a better lay than they are, may be a better person in general, and they’re going to just get left out in the cold. That’s not really a concern for me.
not to say it’s not a possibility, I’m not that arrogant to think that there’s no better men out there than I am. There’s plenty better smarter, richer, better looking, bigger dicks or whatever. But I’m me, I’m the only me, and if a girl wants to be with me, then the possibility is open. if she find somebody else she’d rather be with, and that means she wants to ditch out on me, that’s fine. I’m a free person, she’s a free person. And maybe she’ll figure out that whoever she left me for isn’t willing to give her the same freedoms, the person maybe wants to own her, make her his possession. If that’s what she wants (and some women do), great, I want her to have what she wants. But she finds she prefers freedom, she’s gonna come back around.
I’m never gonna find myself in a position where I’ve got a beautiful woman in front of me who wants to get more intimate, but I got to turn her down because I’m owned, the possession of some other woman waiting for me at home.
you tell me who’s the Beta? The dude who is desperately hanging onto one and only one girl? Who is scared to look at or interact with other women he is attracted to, or if he does, he has to hide it and lie about it to his partner?
or the guy who enjoys interacting with a variety of women on various levels of intimacy, who he is confident enough to treat with honesty and respect, and receives the same in kind?
Not to bash on monogamy too much, I used to think I was monogamous too, and I used to get so upset thinking even an ex-girlfriend of mine was getting with a new man. But I’m past all that now, and glad for it.
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I mean... aren’t the guys free to do their thing too? If only one person is getting all the side action, I see the concern, but in a mutually open deal, I don’t take issue. Wouldn’t do it myself because my girl could probably go get laid at the drop of a hat and I’d have to hustle for it, lmao, but in theory, I guess all things are equal.
Umm, no not necessarily. I also never really categorize guys in that way, (alpha or beta) in general, and kinda think of open relationships as hard to maintain, semi-problematic, but ultimately think it's cool if they think it works for them. They seem potentially mutually beneficial if it works, and isn't really a defining factor or commentary on whether or not the guy is, or is not, a beta male.
Yes you're a pussy male.
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Maybe. Nothing wrong with beta males. They’re just wired differently.
Nah. Just means the guy can have sex with more women if doing that is, classed as beta. Then well beta is a really dumb term. Since Alpha and beta are to suggest back to the wild were the alpha animal could sleep with any girls he wanted. And sure they could care if one of the girls slept with slept with someone else but eh there not bothered if there is plenty others out there.
So in fact your more in a sense Alpha if you sleep with tons of girls in open relationship. Cause your giving into instinct to have sex with many which naturally most animals do. Don't see a dog just hump one lady dog over it's life time i can tell you that. And Alpha is just descending from been the top dog as people would put it. Such a anyway dumb term we reference animals to the way we breed and act when most animals ain't very good remodels.
Also does it matter? Only a prick would judge someone and how they have there relationship if it makes them happy and they want it that way. Like making a judgement over someone not just wanting Missionary all the time, hey it's none of your goddamn business lol
They CAN be "betas". But remember, open is open. Who says ONLY the females are fucking other people? It just takes coming up with strong terms of agreement. If a woman wanted an open relationship with me, I'd simply say OK ONLY on terms of even ground. No even ground, no deal. It's not complicated. You CAN get screwed by it, if not careful, but if you set clear terms in advance you don't have to be screwed by it.
In fact, if I had a girlfriend insisted that she be able to whore around on Instagram or onlyfans, I'd allow it ONLY if I get half the profit/fame, and I'd be able to invade on it anytime to make any sort of joke or whatever. Most likely they'd then say forget it, and problem would solve itself without me sounding close minded. If they persist, I'd still win.I think a guy who is really confident in himself will never agree to having an open relationship, because he will be confident that he can get a girl that will respect him enough as to remain loyal the whole time. Most people don't find the idea of their partner having sex with others particularly appealing. Some are OK with it, but do they really enjoy it? I bet most of them don't, and the ones that do are probably about as abundant as the ones who enjoy pegging. So yes, when someone tells me they're in an open relationship, I lose respect for them
I mean an open relationship both parties are out fucking about, so no
She would have to be the only one fucking around while he ALWAYS stays at home waiting for her lmao
In GENERAL i never here people calling a man a beta who is in an OPEN relationshipI mean no not really... An open relationship doesn't mean it's only open for the women. The man also gets to go wrangle up some new puss puss which in some peoples eyes make him more of an alpha. But that's why I don't really understand open relationship in the first place, like if you're not getting what you want from your partner and there's no way around it than just leave.
Eskimo Brothers! No thanks... It is a bizarre kink I want zero to do with. Not even as the man railing the other guy’s wife/girlfriend. Especially not with him their watching and waiting anxiously for me to cum in her just so he can slurp ‘me’ out of her... Just fucking wrong on every level. I want zero to do with the women who are desirous of this nuttiness as well.
Well, if he isn't also fucking multiple girls, then yes, beta. If he IS fucking multiple girls as well, then no, not beta at all. It depends on how they're doing it in that relationship.
You're ok with me having sex with other men? I'm not going to do that. You're a beta cuck, goodbye.
No, I see it as a lifestyle choice. Not if the man does it specificially to feel inferior to other men then yes.
Yep, they are beta and weak. Its really really pathetic and I really don't understand why any one would do it let alone be open about it.
If a girl feels like she needs to get satisfaction elsewhere, while trying to benefit off of you, then you are a beta male 😂
Who am I to judge. But I admit it will be difficulty to respect such a man.
depends though, if he's getting as much action as her then no. However, I have heard of guys who agree to open relationships where only the girl gets to sleep around and in those cases yes.
It depends where you stand. If you're the lover without any further obligations, you are the winner.
If you're "proud" spouse/boyfriend who allows his girl to fuck around, you're just a provider.Only if he's sharing the woman. If she's sharing him he's an alpha.
Yes... there is no doubt these are beta males. Women will never be truly happy with them.
in most cases both partners can screw other people in open relationships but in the particular case you showed i just feel bad for the guy
If you are the "primary" guy, yes you are Beta as fuck. If you are the second guy just banging the Beta's girlfriend, you are not Beta.
Nope I view them as cucks. Even a beta male wouldn't put up with that shit
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