He put me in close friends and post sad songs. Coincidence?

Question

We are seeing each other for one year.
I was following him on instagram. When instagram made a option about close friends on instagram story He put me in close friends.
He post sad songs, to see only close friends. He does't post sad song to see everyone.
We had a fight and I stopped following but we still saw each other.
When I didn't ollowed him he posted sad songs to instagram story to see everyone. When I started to follow him he started to post sad song to see only instagram close friends.
Now he doesn't post sad song that can everyone see, only ghs close friends. Coincidence?

PrudentGuy · Accepted Answer

Since you invite me to share my opinion, I'll be straightforward and direct. If I offend you, please take my words with a pinch of salt.

1) I think you two are very immature in your thoughts and emotions.

Why? Because instead of calling each other out and talk, you post in social media.

And then you start to wonder the meaning of those posts.

May I suggest you don't care about his social media posts and enter real life dates with him.

2) no one can tell what another person thinks, much less us here reading only your details, which is definitely not the full story.

Hence, learn the technique to communicate. Talk with each other, ask the questions you asks here and be honest with each other.

There is nothing wrong to tell him your feelings for him. And it's ok too to ask him how he feels about you.

3) do you love (or like) him? Does he love uoun return?

If yes, then pursue a closer relationship. Talk to him you want to commit and set boundaries, for now.

If no, then tell him and break off. You can still be platonic friends.

Hence, please know what you want. Then talk with him and see if he shares the same about you.

Have a pleasant day.

Platypuss · Accepted Answer

The closed/everyone switches might be because of you.
But sad songs, well, highly random.
It's just that he liked this song and wanted to share.
Or it can be, it's something he can relate to. So if you will listen you migh relate what he is feeling.
It also depends on the song.

The best thing would be, just go and ask, how he feels about that song. Choose a particular one. That will give you an insight.

sheildagent · Accepted Answer

It's definitely not a coincidence. Do you still like him? Do you miss him? If so Go Talk to him and get him back. He obviously still cares about you and is trying to get your attention.

SezzySwann · Accepted Answer

I was invited to comment too and basically second everything @prudentguy has said; very in depth answer 👍

Regmorus · Answer

I hope it helps 🙏

bigbang101 · Answer

Not a coincidence... Go back to him. Crush your ego and go back to him even if its nor your fault... Keep going back to each other no matter what happens (if you want to stay with him that is). That's the key to Love and that's the key to a long lasting relationship...

Surely · Answer

You two need to figure out what you mean to each other and as to whether you are made for each other.
Then either get married to each other or find someone that you really love.
You are becoming a broken record with this questions.
Or, you can just tell everyone what you want to hear so we can tell you that!

hafman420 · Answer

i don't believe in coincidence there is a reason for him doin that and u may never find out what his reason is or he'll just be truthful when u ask but if he isn't upfront and truthful then there is no point in pursuing a relationship cus the bottom basis of a relationship is honesty without that everything will fall apart eventually

Nicki_Drake_13 · Answer

It may not be coincidence, but keep in mind he may not be sad over you. It may be personal issues that he is dealing with, check on him, but don't come under the assumption that it is directly about you.

najekim · Answer

Sounds like you two need to sit down together face-to-face, no social media BS, and determine what's going on and what type of relationship you two are going to have.

neurolove · Answer

Maybe it's about another girl? That could also be a coincidence. Do you like him still or something?

flame111 · Answer

Ask him then whats up with that song?, u talk to him u both adult not some teenager

Massageman · Answer

Don't worry about coincidence or not. Just learn how to TALK to him in person, or at least on the phone! Drop all the social media BS.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It sounds like he's not sure if you two should be together  so he's doing the things he is?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Stop making him sad and he'll stop posting sad songs. Maybe he'll post happy songs instead.

kaymacd · Answer

yeh I'm with @emperorxxxemilio , I don't fully understand what I just read

Malachi69 · Answer

Trying to stay in touch umm we can stretch this as far as u want but why all this and no explanation tell me the key to your own riddle

Theclownn · Answer

How was your relationship with him? Is it so close?

SaucyPotato · Answer

I dunno never seen something so weird before 😋😓

Redlioness · Answer

Talking with him everything

willisg · Answer

Uh oh. Sounds not good.

Emperorxxxemilio · Answer

No offense, but what?

Anonymous · Answer

Please delete Instagram...

Anonymous · Answer

Stop asking dumbass questions

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