1 guys that aren't good looking either have game, money or both. 2 dont even front women like being objectified if they didn't they wouldn't get with guys who treat them like that and if a woman isnot being pursued by men in that way its most likely cuz she is not feminine or has some work to do on herself
You could ask the same about women, most women want a guy who looks really good, but then there are those who only cares about the persons personality. Don't generalize an entire gender because you don't feel confident in your own skin.
I don't believe that even for a second, i thinks it's just somebody who feels uncomfortable in their own skin and has pent up anger by being turned down by someone more physically attractive than they are.
Everyone is looking for something. Think about it - men are visual in how they get turned on, and by today's social norms you can only have one partner from whom you can't stray. So what do men go for?
Question. Why would you date someone who is sexually unattainable, for the sake of a good personality. When you can just be friends with them instead, thus gaining said personality without having to limit yourself to unenjoyable sex?
Exactly. It's important to be with a female that is attractive. At last u nailed it. It's just how we work. That doesn't mean we are stupid and don't adore the world behind your eyes. We value that too. Women are more acoustic...
Can i ask women the same question aren't women so shallow and go only for the rich and good looking. Because from trying approach women it feels like most of them can't hold a conversation and a guy must push them to get answers.
Hypergamy works for both sides. Average girls who find some admirers in social media can't pick among handsome guys in real, while for average guys with wealth and high social is dating like cherry picking.
Some do. Probably a similar percentage compared to women who only go after rich men. Basically, there are shallow people on both sides. Ignore them, and find the good ones
Personally, I generally go after ones that are decently in shape because I'm in shape as well. Fatness can tell a lot about a girl's personality (lack of motivation, laziness)
Both sexes do this stuff. I blame hormones. But I'd rather be with an average person that I get on with rather than a supermodel that I only get off with.
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1 guys that aren't good looking either have game, money or both. 2 dont even front women like being objectified if they didn't they wouldn't get with guys who treat them like that and if a woman isnot being pursued by men in that way its most likely cuz she is not feminine or has some work to do on herself
Lol reverse the genders... Why are women so shallow they only go for looks and money?
Men are individuals.. We don't all do a thing, perhaps you shouldn't use blanket statements..
You could ask the same about women, most women want a guy who looks really good, but then there are those who only cares about the persons personality. Don't generalize an entire gender because you don't feel confident in your own skin.
The question is suppose to be sexist! 😋
I don't believe that even for a second, i thinks it's just somebody who feels uncomfortable in their own skin and has pent up anger by being turned down by someone more physically attractive than they are.
Why not both
That actually makes sense. Someone who feels like all men are shallow because of how they were treated by a few men.
Everyone is looking for something. Think about it - men are visual in how they get turned on, and by today's social norms you can only have one partner from whom you can't stray. So what do men go for?
Duh. We love BEAUTIFUL women. We are visual creatures.
We do NOT love fat women. Fat = ugly.
On the other hand women love men with their usefulness such as money (or good men as they say).
No truth shall stay hidden.
Some of the pictures you provided have actually good looking men in it with good looking women, so I don't know what you are complaining about.
those men don't know how good a women's personality can be so they settle for less just like some women do
Question. Why would you date someone who is sexually unattainable, for the sake of a good personality. When you can just be friends with them instead, thus gaining said personality without having to limit yourself to unenjoyable sex?
Sexually unattractive*
so that people can fall in love with people not bodies
Do you not love your friends?
maybe some
Men are like this because they’re more visionary and like what they see and seek out what they find physically attractive.
Exactly. It's important to be with a female that is attractive. At last u nailed it. It's just how we work. That doesn't mean we are stupid and don't adore the world behind your eyes. We value that too. Women are more acoustic...
Why are women so shallow and go for either handsom faces and wealthy pockets?
Simple
Can i ask women the same question aren't women so shallow and go only for the rich and good looking. Because from trying approach women it feels like most of them can't hold a conversation and a guy must push them to get answers.
Are you not very attractive?
Like a trophy type thing. Like "look what I got" something obnoxious to show off and make them feel like "yea im the man"
True but woman are in the same boat, you ladies as well are shallow and look for a pretty face on a men before anything else
Hypergamy works for both sides. Average girls who find some admirers in social media can't pick among handsome guys in real, while for average guys with wealth and high social is dating like cherry picking.
Some do. Probably a similar percentage compared to women who only go after rich men. Basically, there are shallow people on both sides. Ignore them, and find the good ones
Personally, I generally go after ones that are decently in shape because I'm in shape as well. Fatness can tell a lot about a girl's personality (lack of motivation, laziness)
Because men like beautiful women were very visual, why do women go for the most muscular or richest?
There has to be some level of attraction to maintain a relationship. I wouldn't focus on those who have goals dissimilar to your own.
Ok this one I think I can relate to this, lol maybe because men uses visions while women uses feelings.
I know right? If I was that guy, I’d demand a face transplant right away.
Both sexes do this stuff. I blame hormones. But I'd rather be with an average person that I get on with rather than a supermodel that I only get off with.
@db684
Good play on words... and if I read it with a British accent it's even better. Good show old... er I mean... young chap.
We brits have the best slang