a guy texts me this (message below) and then invites me to the beach a few days later saying “it’s nice out today wanna go to the beach let me get you in a bikini” (or something like that can’t remember exact wording). so i’m like wtf? does he want to get to know me to make me a girlfriend like he said or just see me naked?
1) I see no contradiction. I just see a guy embarrassingly throwing himself at a girl. 2) You really need to improve your conversation skills. Seriously. That was cringe-worthy and I feel sorry for the guy to even be trying with a girl who's quite clearly either not interested or has such an under-developed personality that she can't provide full sentences.
It's not a contradiction of both things can be true at the same time. An apple is both sweet and red, simultaneously. A guy can want to date you and see you naked simultaneously. In fact, it would be weird if those two things didn't occur at the same time. Can you imagine a guy who wanted to date you but had no interest in ever having sex with you?
i am i’m just tired of guys just having sex with me and never talking to me again i want a real boyfriend and guys will even tell me they will be my boyfriend and then we do it and they still leave
yea thats what men do nowadays, just gotta seek with caution, you are suppose to stop him, that you want to take things slow, if they get mad or dont like it, thats your sign that he ain't it, now i wished i wouldve ran into you before, probably wouldve saved you a lot of time, doesn't matter, im here now, then trying to get in your pants quick is a sign of lust, if they were wanting to start a relationship, they would respect you in the beginning and wouldn't keep insisting on sexual things with you, and if you say that you aren't ready and he seems caring and respectful towards your decisions then thats a sign of a good guy, you'll find him, just dont be so easy, with all due respect missy, you are easy and naive, gotta take care of yourself and dont let all these shitty men manipulate you into spreading your legs
you are saying that like its a bad thing, thats just showing you that they aren't looking for a relationshipn aka the men you are suppose to avoid, not spread your legs too 😂
that makes it easy for you dont it, if you want a relationship then obviously these men aren't the type you go for, just make sure to mention it before having sex with them, go on a few dates, start going out with the guy and then let things escalate from there, the reason they use you and take advantage of you is because you let them 🤷🏽♂️
yea like i said, say no, you have the rights to do so, if it makes you feel better go on small dates that require no money to complete, if you feel like cause they wasted money on the date that you owe them something then just invite them for a walk at the beach or something like that, and have several of them and see where it goes, you dont have to waste money to have a good time and bond, if y'all have a connection, go on a few more dates, make it serious and then you have a boyfriend and the sex would be different if y'all care about each other
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