Have you asked him about what your relatiinship is? Where it's going? Have you told him you dont like it when he jokes bout you having another guy? Talk to him
I don't think he just considers you a friend. May be he is trying to tell u to get a figure like that girl. Or it may be he is just trying to tease you. Don't worry so much about small habits of your partner if u want a long lasting relationship
context? what did he say about it? what kind of picture was it? how does he usually talk to you? how do you treat him? XD oooooo shyeeeeet, you don't wanna answer that question
maybe you should PROBE HIM... cuz we got answers in this comment section all over the board with much less information than i asked... see, the question here is intent
@DizzyDesii yeah, that's not a game i play... i'll show memes, cars, parts, no other womens, i shouldn't be lookin at other womens when in a relationship
Regardless that’s a red flag. You two need to clarify what you are so you don’t get hurt because a decent guy wouldn’t show a woman in a bikini to a girl that he’s romantically interested in
Hard to say with limited knowledge of the question! What are the who's, what's, when's & why's behind his showing you the pic? Too many variables to form a proper answer !
Depends on how he showed it to you. Was that like “look how great!” Or was it like “do you like the bikini?” If its the latter it means he wants you to wear bikini. If its the former.. then I don’t know.
When I was doing the same with one of the girls I was trying to make her realize that we are friends and she don't have to be jealous
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Not necessarily. My boyfriend shows me photos of his sisters friends to show me things I "could try" 😒 if he keeps doing it I'll have to tell him to stop
Yeah, that's not okay. You shouldn't be putting up with that if that's what he's doing consistently. A man should not be comparing his woman or "trying to better her". A man should only have eyes for his woman, it's natural for men to find other women attractive while they're in a relationship. But a true man will always love his own woman the way she is. A man that tells you to be "prettier" or shows you ways on "How you can Improve" is clearly a boy and not a man. He's basically openly telling you and showing you that all these other women are "better than you" and that you should be like them. You should also not change yourself for anyone. You should definetly tell him to stop and that if he doesn't you won't tolerate his behaviour, if he persists to do it over again then break up with him.
I honestly have no idea. It's too vague and not specific enough for me to pin down the intent. It could have just been a thoughtless moment for all I can tell. Happens to everybody.
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Have you asked him about what your relatiinship is? Where it's going?
Have you told him you dont like it when he jokes bout you having another guy? Talk to him
I don't think he just considers you a friend. May be he is trying to tell u to get a figure like that girl. Or it may be he is just trying to tease you. Don't worry so much about small habits of your partner if u want a long lasting relationship
context? what did he say about it? what kind of picture was it? how does he usually talk to you? how do you treat him? XD oooooo shyeeeeet, you don't wanna answer that question
He showed me a girl doing a split and said “hey look”
nothing else?
maybe he's just giving you ideas
That’s all he said
did you ask him what he meant by this?
No lol
maybe you should PROBE HIM... cuz we got answers in this comment section all over the board with much less information than i asked... see, the question here is intent
Lol please never be silly enough to do what that dude did. Not cool
@DizzyDesii yeah, that's not a game i play... i'll show memes, cars, parts, no other womens, i shouldn't be lookin at other womens when in a relationship
My best suggestion to you would be to clear things with him once and for all. Because there are only so much doubts one can have.
Yes, he must be doing some immature stuff trying to make you jealous
trust me you don't deserve his bull Honey
Regardless that’s a red flag. You two need to clarify what you are so you don’t get hurt because a decent guy wouldn’t show a woman in a bikini to a girl that he’s romantically interested in
Hard to say with limited knowledge of the question! What are the who's, what's, when's & why's behind his showing you the pic?
Too many variables to form a proper answer !
Depends on how he showed it to you. Was that like “look how great!” Or was it like “do you like the bikini?” If its the latter it means he wants you to wear bikini. If its the former.. then I don’t know.
I feel it is Disrespectful. Shows his True Colors, This Coward. xxxx
When I was doing the same with one of the girls
I was trying to make her realize that we are friends and she don't have to be jealous
Not necessarily. My boyfriend shows me photos of his sisters friends to show me things I "could try" 😒 if he keeps doing it I'll have to tell him to stop
Yeah, that's not okay. You shouldn't be putting up with that if that's what he's doing consistently. A man should not be comparing his woman or "trying to better her". A man should only have eyes for his woman, it's natural for men to find other women attractive while they're in a relationship. But a true man will always love his own woman the way she is. A man that tells you to be "prettier" or shows you ways on "How you can Improve" is clearly a boy and not a man. He's basically openly telling you and showing you that all these other women are "better than you" and that you should be like them. You should also not change yourself for anyone. You should definetly tell him to stop and that if he doesn't you won't tolerate his behaviour, if he persists to do it over again then break up with him.
Yes if he was interested in you he would have tried to impress you.
Not necessarily.
I used to swap pictures of naked people with a woman that I loved very much.
We just both liked naked people.
No he likes you he's just a moron and doesn't know how to flirt with women
So why did he show me
Because he sucks at flirting
How is that flirting
Seems like friend zone behavior, but more information is needed.
It depends on the guy. Different guy might mean different thing by doing that.
more than likely a platonic relationship but depending on what he say when showing you. perhaps a hint he wants check you out in a bikini
seems sorta like it but just cause he sees you as a friend doesn't mean you have no chance with him, just makes it a little more difficult
I honestly have no idea. It's too vague and not specific enough for me to pin down the intent. It could have just been a thoughtless moment for all I can tell. Happens to everybody.
Great question. I really don't know. A lot of it probably depends on the context. Maybe he's saying he wants to see you in that bikini?
But thats an idiot move to show us another girl when u could just keep it to yourself and tell us u wanna see us in a bikini
. Ok.