Depends who the girl was. You didn't give any context, was it a random girl or was it someone he knows? Was she a model or some pretty girl he saw randomly on his phone? He's either:
1. Trying to get you Jealous and is Interested in you, also to get you to see him in a different light. Some guys do that sometimes.
2. He actually does see you as a friend and just generally showed you that picture and thought she was pretty.
3. Is hinting at you that he also wants to see you in a bikini someday
As I said I don't know for sure but there can be a million other reasons as to why. There's not much backstory or context you've given. And there's also Intuition, you'd probably know him way better than us...
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He is suggesting that he would like to see you in a bikini - or a lot less. I think he wants to compare. In my book that means someone is into you for looks and sex. Don't give in to him. Play along and see what he's up to. If he wants you for you he won't ghost you. If he just wants your body and sex then he will dump you if you don't put out. The question is, is that the type of guy you want? Because I guarantee that sometime in the future he may find someone whom he likes the body of better and drop you like a bad debt.
Depends on why he sent you that picture? Most guys can be dumb and not have common sense when it comes to doing crap like that , even though his intentions of sending that picture to you ware probably no big deal , he was only really thinking of himself and not thinking how you would feel , he was probably sending you that picture hinting to you to buy that bikini and he wants to see you in it or he was implying that is the type of body shape and girl that turns him on which is very disrespectful , cuz how would he feel if you sent him a picture of some hot guy? So I would talk to him and tell him how that picture made you feel and see what he has to say
Can you update your question to tell us how long have you two been going together? Are you just starting the relationship?
It all depends on the relationship you have with him. Are you both honest and down-to-earth? Do you two confide in each other? If so, I would view it as him sharing a picture with you.
If you two are just dating and don't know each other too well it would be a different story.
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I need a little more info like:
When he showed you this photo what did he say? Like: “Look at her! She’s HOT!” Or “look at my sister at the beach”, or “this is my friend Janelle”...
Was it a personal photo? From an ad? Off of his phone?
How long have you known this guy? And how do you know him? Like coworker? School friend? Etc
What did you say when he showed you? And how did he respond?What I want to know is where the heck are you getting this guys? You can I have to ask if he sees you just a friend, or anything else. That's somebody you need to cut off if he's trying to imply something. I found out to be highly inappropriate. If your concern you need to seriously ask him what was the point of him sending that photo. Communicate with this person and set boundaries if your not happy. It should not be a question on how to do so.
He's just showing you his lack of respect towards you because he wants to wholeheartedly interact with you but through time, his time he feels its not happening so while there's interest let me give you a subliminal request of my current desire. You then depending on your standards will either submit, leave or continue with the same behavior. Time to get real. And real fast.
need more context really. or just straight up ask him why.
possible he liked the girl or how she looked.
possible he liked the bikini and thought something similar might look good on you.
maybe even a third option. but without asking him. won't know really.There are only two options here...
A) He sees you as just a friend and is very comfortable talking about other women with you.
B) He actually likes you and has a crush on you.. but he is a narcissist who wants to play mind games with you and make you jealous.
When I truly like a girl and want a relationship with her... I never ever mention any other women. However, if asked I pretend that I am a ladies man.DUDES BE acting dumb af 🤣 I don't know why I don't know why. This one dude i talked to last year had the nerve to send me a naked girl riding a teddy. He complimented her body then said “she looks good but i wish that were u riding em”. Do i give af about riding u? No. How dare u compliment her AND THEN ME. Lmao nahh it dont work like that
Question is, what is your relationship status with this guy you’re apparently “seeing”. If y’all haven’t figured that out yet than maybe he’s just comfortable showing you something like that.
If you don’t like him showing you things like that then don’t be afraid to voice your opinion on it. Be open and honest... that’s what friendships/relationships are likeThis question seems misleading. You explained to another user...
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It actually was a video of a woman doing a split and he said “hey look” and we both laughed
Thats very diff. from your question...
But in any case... you can ask him what he means... maybe its just for a good laugh.
and it depends how he treats you...He might be an insecure asshole who's trying to be like, "oh look, here's a pic of a girl I find attractive", which translates to, "I'm trying to undermine your confidence and senses of self-worth by showing you another woman, even though there's no way I could date her". He might want to "bring you down a notch" because he's a dick.
Fucking get over yourself. If a woman sent a man a picture of a shirtless dude, and we thought ANYTHING about it, we would be accused of having low self-esteem. No matter what you do, if we do anything besides laugh it off or be an ass-hole, we're fucking counted out of ANYTHING. I'm drunk, but that just means the advice you're getting is extra honest. And on that note, fuck you.
Who's the girl? An ex? Just a friend? A commercial model who doesn't personally know him? Maybe he's hinting he'd like to someday see you wearing a bikini.
He sees you as a friend. A guy wouldn't show you that unless he's very comfortable with you in a friendly way, basically thinking of you as one of the boys.
Nah, idt he sees u as just a friend
Have you guys been taking? Like talking talking
If so that doesn’t mean he just sees u as just a friend
My ex use to show me porn if girls tits? And he like real liked me at that point
So deAre you sleeping with him? What context was the photo brought up as? How sexual was the photo?
Sounds to me he doesn’t respect you much. Maybe it was an honest mistake but that was pretty stupid.Some men are selfish and try to incite jealousy to increase your attention or to get you to be more sexual with them or just to feel more attractive on the inside by making you feel bad around them - you need to cut him out if he is doing that
How does showing a pic of girl in bikini make someone understand what is in his mind for u.. you need to look at many other things he is doing. even they way he is communicating with you otherwise..
Lot of smaller aspects which I think a girl ur age is smart enough to know.Depends on the context, but in general, it seems like a bad sign
Does he think you might get turned on? Guys are dumb, but not that dumb
Are you saying you aren't sure if you are actually in a relationship with the guy you say you are "seeing"?
Umm, some guys may be like: i don't mind sending pervy stuff because I like you. It really depends on how much you talked this far. If you've been chatting constantly for a long time maybe
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