Guy said it would be nice to see me in a bikini. Does that mean he thinks I'm attractive overall or just my body?

[Bethany22]

And does it mean he wants to go out with me? He doesn't try pursuing me too often, but that could just be because he thinks I don't like him in that way. He seems as though he forgets that I'm there when we're at group gatherings, whereby hardly ever looking at me to see how I react to things. He likes to kiss me on both cheeks and have me do that to him when we greet each other and leave each other.

[RavVid]

He wants to see you 95% naked certainly. Given that certainty we can be sure he finds you attractive. The rest might follow but is not certain.

If you like him, you could try him with a crop top. I like seeing a girl's waist. During this cheek kissing routine you could make some body contact. Maybe he is concerned if he is misreading, he will be embarrassed within the group.

[sawno]

He'd go out with you for sure, if you like him go for him. As for the attraction, body for certain but probably overall.

[TheGuyWhoKnowsStuff]

If he has pursued you more than once and he hasn't got anywhere, then he probably isn't that interested in wasting more time and effort on you. His kissing mannerism suggests he is either European or wanting to express/copy gay flamboyance.

Suggesting a bikini is like a try before you buy (to see if you're alright under your clothes) or just him giving a hint that he wants to hookup. If he really wanted to see you in a bikini, he'd invite you to the beach in summer and he'd expect (not ask) that you'd turn up in one.

I think he's looking for an easy lay with minimum effort. Once he's had you, his interest will probably stop entirely and you'll just be ignored/ghosted.

[smne35]

Your response should have been, why, that's only way you can see me, and I hope you kept going unless your into one dimensional dudes who only is attracted to one part of you, but rude as it was he did pay you a compliment, you must have a great body, I mean if you were like 250lbs do you think those words would have been said to you and I'm in no way being negative towards 250lbs women, just being honest,

[antelope51]

Sounds like you're an object to him, or he'd take more interest in what you have to say, how you react to things and other things that would indicate compatibility for friendship/relationship. Whatever the case, he's not looking FOR "you," he's looking AT you (r packaging).

[Fireguy17]

Sounds like he is interested in seeing almost undressed.
If you are interested in him why not make a move on him.
Invite him to dinner and a modeling show to see which bikini he likes the most.
If he isn't at your house before you are he either isn't interested in you or he isn't into women.

[Red_Arrow]

He would like to see you in a bikini because he could see more skin. And he would like to see you out of a bikini because he would see even more skin.

[Gent207-2]

Quick overview

It sounds like you've made a lot posts about this situation. Why not just ask him out for coffee and see what happebs

[BCRanger10]

Don't bother with it. It sounds a lot to me like he's using you.

[exitseven]

If you could post a picturecofcyou in a bikini I could give you a better answer

[AviatorTom]

He obviously likes your body. Anything more? Not enough information to tell.

[nawtee_me]

I am sure you look really good in a bikini, I would love to see you in one too. Kissing you on one cheek is okay but both… not to sure about that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If he wants to see you in the bikini, then he is happy with what he sees.

[Crankor]

What were you talking about when he said that? In any case. Just means he wants to oogle over you. Really has nothing to do about relationships

[love_conquers_lust]

Why are you trying to dissociate your body from you?

[Nikki1989]

It means he is a typical male pervert. You deserve better.

[Loulou57]

Any man wants to see a girl in a bikini. I'm sure you he's attracted to you. But don't make that the way you attract them

[KrakenAttackin]

He is thinking of having sex with you. A man who really wants a relationship with a woman does not immediately jump to sexual innuendo.

[Alex-Snow]

He thinks u are hot and prob wants sex if you two hit it off. Do u like the guy?

[collie22]

Sounds like he likes and he's wanting to See more

[Notherndude84]

Could be both, I think you are pretty and have a nice body

[NathanDavis]

mainly the body... could be both, though