Guys, *controversy question* Would you ever hit a women? If so, for what reason? (Page 2)

[Infernion]

I would in only two situations.
1. In self defense
2. In the bedroom (though not hit as in punch, I'm sure you get the picture)

[Pulseofsulfur]

If she swung first or assaulted me first I should self defend myself and not be abused by a woman

[Slim57]

Probably not, but it depends on how much she was trying to hurt me

[chriscdi]

yes for self defense

[HartleyB]

Interesting, would just do enough to get a woman to stop doing whatever it is she is doing, or would you try to really hurt her?

I see guys in fights online and with each other it is never just to get the other to stop, they always seem to almost want to kill each other until friends step in and stop them

[chriscdi]

nah thats already abusive, its to stop her of course, if i stop her then there's no need to keep going, id try avoiding any harmful techniques if i feel like im not in too much danger, depends on the girl too, if its like a girlfriend or wife, i wouldn't feel threatened by her like that unless she has a weapon you know, if she is just hitting me or punching me then id grab her hands or something like that, as long as she isn't putting me in any life threatening situations then there's no need for any strong force

[HartleyB]

That is a really decent way to think about it :) would you treat it any differently if it were a man attacking you? Is it gendered or more to do with how strong the other person is?

I am curious whether guys fight each other to put on a show for girls to show how strong they are like in the animal kingdom but when a woman attacks them, whether they would treat the situation differently because in our society hitting women is seen as weak so whether that has anything to do with it at all :/

Really good answer though you sound very sensible and I think what you said is a fair conclusion 😊

[chriscdi]

im not even gonna lie id beat the shit out of him, but not for showing of or any of that, i just normally have more patience for women so i could stop myself but when a male pisses me off its more of a man to man thing so there's more ego behind it than anything else, but i know what you mean missy, there's people out there that fight for impressing and flexing and all that but i dont like attention, when i get into fights, i dont speak of it to anyone, its more on personal shit, actually i wish i was able to tell people that i hold on to my anger and extinguished the flame but it ain't like that at all, and about hitring women is weakness, i have mixed emotions about that cause hitting a woman is a dick move but some women do lose their head and sometimes get what they ask for, i really dont think women should be assaulting men even if its more socially acceptable, you know what im saying? but like i said personally id find a fight with another male more violent not just cause of ego but cause of their ego which if you just push em onto the floor, they are most likely willing to get back up and fight so sometimes more force is necessary and sometimes taking the chances of not being more violent can lead to more serious situations but to be fair that can be in both sides

[HartleyB]

Huh, interesting, so you think your ego is what drives you to retaliate on a man more than the "weak" stigma attached to hitting women.

With the ego thing, I have an interesting dilemma to ask you, would you feel embarrassed to lose a fight? If so, 1. would you feel more embarrassed to lose a fight to a man in front of other men, or in front of females? 2. Would you feel more embarrassed to lose a fight to a female than a male?

[chriscdi]

yes i would of course but everyone loses a fight at some point and you just have to learn to accept it, which would feel worse depends what you find more important some men find what women think of them and others care more about other things for example me if i lose a fight id rather lose infront of a girl than a bunch of dudes, my reasoning is because i know a girl wouldn't be like "you pussy you lost bla bla" or they wouldn't really care about how weak you look, they dont focus on that unless they care about it or thats what they seek for but most women dont, now on the other side men find it more of a manly thing if you know what i mean, like male friends can think one thing and then you lose a fight and changes the way they see you, same with expressing feelings, just like it almost, women dont care when you express feelings and in matter of fact they like when you do, when with other guys it can just make you look weak or like a pussy, but it depends because some people (mostly show offs) woyld probably care more what the woman thinks of the fight because they would think she would see him as a weak ass or someshit

answering the last question, losing to a girl would def hurt my ego more than losing it to a guy 😂

[HartleyB]

Hahaha that is so funny, cause yeah i think most girls would rather no fighting unless absolutely necessary but it does seem like guys go into fights because they feel like it proves something and most of us girls just think it is all just for show.

Why do you think it would be more embarrassing to lose to a woman though?

[chriscdi]

because they are feminine, when you picture a cat chasing a dog, how does that look lol

dont take it the wrong way missy, there's very feisty and women that can fight out there but it just looks worse losing to a woman if you are a dude you know ha

now a different thing is if you lose cause you didn't want to fight back cause you dont want to hit a girl, that makes you look like a real man 🤣😋

[AmeerX]

If I want to marry her I would

[InternetGuy]

In self defense.

[HartleyB]

Say a woman is right up in your face like some guys do to intimidate each other. Would you ever be the one to initiate physical contact? Would your decision be different if the intimidator were a woman or a man?

[InternetGuy]

I've had that happen to me before. I wouldn't initiate physical contact. I'll just walk away. Doesn't matter if it's a dude or a chick. I ain't going to waste my time.

[HartleyB]

That is more noble I think anyway.

So you don't believe that you would treat genders differently in a dispute at all?

[InternetGuy]

I guess not. Maybe there's a scenario where I would, but nothing comes to mind.

[Bananaguy1000]

I would only do it my life was on the line

[TinTan88]

For sex if she likes it xD

[MrOrchie]

I’ll hit on a lady. As in ask her out and flirt.

[Daniel3035]

Yes bad behaviour.