Is sass a feminine trait? Girls what do you think about a sassy man?

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Alice2398 · Accepted Answer

Lol in the old street i used to live at. There was a little boy a couple houses down who we would call Mr Sassy Pants. He was hilarious because he just said it straight and give zero f*uks when it came to idiots.

My old next neighbour was extremely over protective of his house and if anyone was with in 3 meters from it. Hed be peeking through the blinds. He was so precious about his picket fence and would go mental when he saw the kids in my street playing out near it. So Mr Sassy Pants would rub is butt on it and pretend to fart 🤣 and say smell you later to him.

He would never say anything because he was scared of the black clash of his mum and always wanted to play Mr nice guy when in reality he was a massive dick head.

He always had a little funny sassy attitude about him and i wouldn't describe him as feminine. But I've also met plenty grown men with sassy attitudes too

KeziL · Accepted Answer

Sassy men are usually seen as gay. Sarcasm is a more masculine variety of the same attitude. I don't really like sassy people anyways.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Sass is definitely a feminine character. In fact I think females tend to be more sarcastic and smart ass than men in general because they have more of a cat-ish nature. I also think it's probably why a lot of women are sexually attracted to men who disrespect others - especially if they are "roasting" other men - because they are turned on by a guy being a smart ass, until he starts being like that with her.

Thatsamazing · Accepted Answer

"Sass?" As in, being an asshole? No, being an asshole is definitely not a "feminine" trait, it's something that either sex can be, but neither should be.

princess--mcs · Answer

The concepts of femininity and masculinity need to die. It doesn't help anybody to constantly say this is how you act because you're this sex. Guys are just as capable of being sassy as girls are.

MissRomantic · Answer

He comes off as funny and confident. I had a guy friend like that before I started dating my boyfriend. He was still very masculine :P

scarlett774 · Answer

A lot of my guy friends are jokingly sassy but my gay guy friends are especially sassy. I think it’s a little feminine but I don’t really care.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

I have no problem with the "deadpan snark" type of sarcasm/sass. I use it a lot myself and it can honestly be very fun to talk to someone like that. What I can't stand is the "condescending" type of sass, that's just annoying.

OlderThanILook · Answer

I think sass has a different appearance in men. I'm probably "sassy", but its not like a sassy tone. It's more like extreme defensiveness.

ChocoBrownie · Answer

Immature. Think of where your life is headed if you make fun of people

korey182 · Answer

cat sass

1CentWorth · Answer

heh. Here I thought it was gender neutral, by definition.

lifelearner011 · Answer

I think it is a strength in men and in women, yet more often celebrated in women. Being sassy for me translates to being joyful and playful.

anon_mke · Answer

I feel like a guy can be "sassy" but in a different way than a girl and there's probably a better word for it when it's for a guy.

angiebangie · Answer

A sassy man? Why isn't anyone straight coming to mind...

zagor · Answer

I hate the word and the attitude. I was walking one day and there was an elderly couple and I instantly didn't like them because their dog's name was Sassy.

YHL6965 · Answer

What do you mean by sass? Because I have been using weaponized sarcasm and I don't know if it qualifies.

Blueberry1729 · Answer

Sass and being a smart ass are pretty much the same thing but sass if for women and smartass is for men. No real difference other than title

JoeNuts · Answer

I think they're shown differently depending on the person. This doesn't necessarily mean it's a gender thing. In the UK the equivalent to sass would be 'cheek' which everyone displays.

Anonymous · Answer

he'd get the shit beat out of him which should happen to a woman in an ungender biased society but since our society is so fucked up and as gender biased as they come women get away with way more shit then they should

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously some women do it, but it's not a component of femininity; it's a component of toxic femininity.

Machiavellio · Answer

The 1st thing comes into mind is gayyyyyy!  Sass in women just means proud to be center of attention

kaymacd · Answer

fkn Taron Egerton, he's known for being a sassy male

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, a sassy man is more than likely a homosexual (especially the "omg, no you didn't" hands on hips type).

Anonymous · Answer

Sass is a female trait, sassy men are fruitcakes (homos)

sdtabot · Answer

I wanna meet a sassy man haha

Flower7 · Answer

Yes, "sassiness" does seem feminine.

2Lips · Answer

I think he’s probably gay

Quackthulu · Answer

You mean a sassy boy.

QueenOfBaku · Answer

I don't like sassy girls

ClassyMe · Answer

Oh so then he's gay? That's cool

db684 · Answer

We do have sass. Its called sarcasm.

Iron_Man · Answer

They love sassy men lol

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

I would think that he is a male gay

Anonymous · Answer

Sass is toxic femininity.

Anonymous · Answer

Sassy when applied to a dude sounds SUPER gay.

Cryptic-Game · Answer

No. I don't like sassy women.

WowwGirl · Answer

Disgusting

John_Doesnt · Answer

Only women sass back

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

I’m sassy

SaraSmithishere · Answer

I think he's gay

Fuentes · Answer

SuS !!!

Ash525 · Answer

Yes.

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