Why some men like being called sir/Mr and others don't like it why?

[Anonymous]

Please give reason for answers

[winterfox10]

I prefer being called "sir" because it implies that we are at least equals. It also clarifies the lack of closeness in our relationship. If you and I don't know each other, then my name is "sir." Someone I don't know calling me "dude" or "bro" is an attempt at establishing a casual or familiar relationship that simply doesn't exist yet. If someone I know casually wants to call me "bro," I'm fine with that. I just don't want the implied presumption that we're casual friends until we are, in fact, casual friends.

[Asker]

Okay what if your girlfriend sometimes called you sir?

[winterfox10]

Maybe if she only did it occasionally... it wouldn't be awkward or anything. It's just more formal than I would expect from a romantic partner.

[BeMuse]

Probably because when women start calling you sir and mister they want to fuck… It’s a clear flirtation and often said in a seductive voice. So if we think she’s sexy it’s an opportunity. I don’t like anything about the words Sir or Mr, but do like having sex with hot women so I’m OK with manly pet names. Just don’t start on that Daddy shit. That’s an instant buzz kill.

[Asker]

Lool so basically you want to fuck and you don't care about the dominant part fabulous

[BeMuse]

I am a dominate individual, but I don’t feel a need to be signaled that it’s OK to feel dominate or whatever. It’s not a game I play for kicks. I’m just inherently dominate. It’s just who I am through and through and that never changes. There is no compulsion or need to be dominate or in control. It’s like being born with brown hair. It’s just there. So yeah, if I want to fuck I want to fuck. If that makes me selfish or blunt or whatever, then it’s whatever… I am who I am.

[nodnol32]

You're only called this in formal situations really. If they don't know your name so 'sir' is the only polite option. Mr is only if they are referring you by your last name. I don't see any problem with it.

[magiusX26]

there are cultural, career, upbringing aside from culture, self esteem, and idealology reasons for this.

some cultures insist any man be called sir for example.

i preffer the sir thing only in a sexual setting occasionally.

[MiamiMadness]

Some feel insecure and have the need to be called sir

[Asker]

Really? Because guys always say they don't like being called sir because they feel old seems insecure to me lol

[MiamiMadness]

You might be right since older guys are usually self conscious about their age from younger girls lolCall them sir anyways

[Browneye57]

It's a term of respect for your elders.

[coffeewithcream]

No idea why men don't like it.

[Fuentes]

Im not old dont do it

[Anonymous]

i don't like it because it makes me feel old.

[Asker]

Heard that too many times lol