How do you call such men?

[Anonymous]

His ex left him, he came back to his country because he could not bear the break up. The girl likes to do open relationship and the guy was complying unwillingly... when I met him, he did not want to go on dates with me (if he was oki\ with open relationship, he would have gone out with me) Because he was in denial for 4 years and lying to his parents that he was still in a relationship... i was thinking about long term consequence of developing any possible mental illness. I was pushing him to forget that girl but he would not so I got his parents involved. Because I did that, he played me by using my past against me.. to discard me. while doing so, he got me into trouble. How do you call such men?

[Adam1978]

Not interested in you. You have been barking up the wrong tree all the time. And making incorrect assumptions. Even a guy that is having open relationships has standards and preferences so you can't assume you meet them. That guys fucks everything that moves is a myth and really only apply to very few individuals.

[boggboss]

U are equally responsible for what happened u shouldn't have involved him

[Asker]

I know right... but it happened now.. I was only caring in a sense because I really liked him.

[boggboss]

But that caring made u hurt him by involving his parents when he didn't wish that to happen what u did was a betrayal I understand what he did was equally shit but when u play with fire u get burned

[Asker]

It may have hurt him but I was standing with the truth... he stays in his parents house and lie to them. I handled the situation better than he did. which is why I got burnt. I sided him when I spoke to his parents... He looks immature to me.. when he grows older he will realise he was doing wrong

[boggboss]

No he will see what u did as a betrayle by going behind his back u can say u stand with truth but it was not your truth to speak friends dont do that too eachotger

[Asker]

He was not even my friend... Never has been

[boggboss]

Don't mean u should have done what u did u claimed to have liked him yet still did somthing to betray him lol why do u think that would have gone down well the issue is u don't see where u made a mistake lile I said he equally dealt with the situation wrong but u didn't do any better

[Asker]

Haha... probably but he ended up publicly insulting my entire family. This is the worst outcome

[boggboss]

Yet its a outcome that was brought on by what u did u can't act self righteous about it unless u did nothing wrong which again u did if u have never involved his parents he wouldn't have responded like he did