I'm sure blushing doesn't just happen all the time so why do boys blush or no reason
Does guys blushing mean they aren't into the person around them?
I'm sure blushing doesn't just happen all the time so why do boys blush or no reason
How is this? No... That is not what that means.
Then what does it mean
What would it mean if a girl did that same stuff?
Probably she hates him
& the boy is stupid to blush around a girl smiling at her
NO. Literally no one would smile and blush if they were talking to someone they hated.
Then why doesn't he just kiss her instead of stupid blushing ,
Some boy talks to my friend & he keeps blushing talking to her why doesn't he kiss her infront of me
Because he's being smart. You don't try to kiss someone if you don't get the very specific vibe they want you to touch and kiss them. That's just common sense.
She smirks at him too & she kinda wants him to kiss her seems like he's wasting her time why do boys do that
She isn't getting close to him or showing him that she wants him to kiss her. Why on earth would he take the chance at kissing her if she doesn't act like she wants to be close with him?
She talks to him & says hi to him but he looks down & smiles who should first kiss?
Does she reach out to touch him? Maybe slide in close to him? Giggle a lot and play with her hair? She needs to initiate by showing him that she wants him to come closer
I told her she shouldn't because he's playing with her on purpose , I see what he does & he might tell her to get away so I don't know why he keeps smiling to her
He's not going to tell her to get away unless she did it at an inappropriate time. Tell her to be bold
She is bold , he should do it not stupid blushing. I know he's full of crap he don't want to kiss
I know he just smiles on purpose not anything else I tell her dat
Don't sabotage your friend's relationship. Tell her that if she wants him to get close, she needs to get close. Worth while guys don't just assume that girls want to kiss them
It's true it's his fault he's playing with her on purpose he touches the back of his head smiling on himself
He isn't playing with her on purpose.
You don't even know that when he would see her & say hello or hi once he waved at her. Why is he playing her? & why does he touch his head around her
He's touching his face because he's nervous and isn't sure what to do. He has a crush on her, but isn't sure if she is just being friendly of if she is flirting.
Not touching his face but the back of his head , he's doing it on purpose I bet. & he doesn't get closer to her I don't know why he acts like dat
Please stop making assumptions. Let the guy decide for himself
I'll be the one to step in & tell him to stop playing & be for real , & to stop telling my friend hi if he's not into her it's the best thing right?
If you tell him anything, tell him that your girlfriend likes him and that he should make a move. Don't mention anything about playing around, because that's totally not what's happening. He just doesn't know that he is supposed to make a move.
He knows he should by now cus she smiles at him when they see eachother & he thinks I don't see through himm
No he doesn't know. And you don't see through anything, because what you think is happening isn't actually happening. Trust me, I was a 14-15 year old boy once too. Stop assuming shit and just tell him to kiss her. Guys are dense, and you need to stop projecting your own interpretations of things into the situation. Say something to help, or let the situation be, but don't antagonize him.
I see through his bullshit he is putting her through lies she doesn't need that. So now I see that guys will fake blush just to make a girl think they like her I see now
Why do you insist on having this perspective? If I'm a guy, and I've been a 14-15 year old guy; I can speak from personal experience about what his blushing means. But it seems like you are ignoring what I'm telling you, and choosing to believe that he's trying to abuse or hurt your friend... why?
Doesn't matter that's what he is doing cus it's true ur not there to see what I see. Just say boys fake blush at girls
Respectfully, I think it matters a great deal... because none of what you described sounds anything like him being uncomfortable. It kind of sounds like you just want to shut their relationship down before it even has the chance to get started...
Nothing is gunna happen & I'm not gunna let someone lead my friend on for no reason she's always been nice to him & now he just wants to play like she's nothing
I read the comments you made under someone else's answer, but my opinion isn't any different. It just doesn't sound like he's playing her... You seem like you're trying to protect your friend, and I can appreciate that; but forcing yourself into their thing isn't how you protect her.
Yes it is & what makes u think he isn't tell me cus any guy could blush she asked his name he told her. But then when she asked him to guess her name he said * Ashley * that was an insult
Why is calling her "Ashley" an insult? The reason I don't think he's playing her is because he's smiling and obviously nervous when he's talking to her. He keeps interacting with her, which means that he doesn't want to avoid her.
Actually he does play her one time she came out of the elevator & randomly almost bumped into him she smiled saying * my bad * he didn't say hi or nothing. When he did see her coming out he was kinda surprised
He's not blushing cus he like her it's cus he wanna be cruel to her
He doesn't want to be cruel to her, he's just nervous. Please just try to give him the benefit of your doubt for now.
There's no point in being nervous unless he just doesn't like her so why does he keep blushing
He's nervous because he doesn't want to say anything that will turn her off. He doesn't want to make any mistakes. He's blushing because he doesn't know how to respond to the fact she's giving him attention.
If he's dat shy why does he sometimes say hi to her? , Does dat mean he doesn't know how to kiss a girl?
It's teenage anxiety. He's probably just not sure how to express his feelings. It's easy to say hi and talk to someone, but confessing your feelings is a much higher stress thing.
I wonder how he'd react if my friend took him sum where more private & kiss him should I tell her?
Just tell her to get in close first. You have to work your way up to kissing. It's not a quick thing
Yea she first gotta take him in privately then get close what if he says no & all dat smiling was for nothing
He might... but she won’t know until she tries. Just have her get close first, and then see where things go
So if a guy constant smiles around her he wouldn't like kissing her?
That’s not what I said. What I said was that he might chicken out, so she needs to take her time and not rush anything
Why would he do that if he's not playing her? So if he does chicken out is dat bad
He wouldn’t plan to chicken out, he would just chicken out. He wouldn’t be playing with her; just a wuss
So boys dat tilt their head down smiling to themselves have no desire to kiss a girl? Frm what u say basically he would never make the first move on her?
His desire to kiss her has nothing to do with it. The reason he wouldn’t make the first move is because the of risk of misreading the situation. He doesn’t want to put himself out there unless he sees that she wants him to come close; the consequences of trying to kiss a girl can really mess up a guy’s reputation.
Well why doesn't he ask to go somewhere private so he could try , appearently she smirks & he likes it so he smiles too I don't see what he afraid
It’s a self confidence thing. Best not to overthink these things
I don't see what he has to loose anyways. He juss don't know how to appreciate gud things infront him
He does appreciate the good things in front of him; that's why he's smiling and blushing. He just doesn't have the self confidence to be assertive yet.
Do u think there's a way my friend could I don't know change him not in a bad way
She should try getting up close to him, like I've been saying. She needs to physically show him that she wants him to be close with her. He will get bolder eventually
I'm sure she's gunna make a mistake , how do u figure he's gunna like her next to him?
If he tells her why are u next to me how she should respond then?
Because I know guys; I am one. If he asks what she's doing, just tell her to giggle and ask something like "what? I have to get closer so I know I hear your jokes right."
Yea & u forgot to mention guys like him are just using her nothin more. That's why he doesn't give her the attention she deserves. Guys should be str8 out forward & say they don't like the girl
I didn't forget. I just didn't say it because I don't believe that that it what is happening here.
You believe he's into her but doesn't make the move
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Actually, it's opposite of what u think
Then what does it mean
Some guy blushed & smiled around my friend if he likes her why doesn't he kiss her? , I think it's stupid to blush infront of a girl for no reason
So I was sneaking on my friend talking to sum boy & I saw him blushing as she was walking away talking to him. & I told her that he's playing with her on purpose he always smiling to her
Then she says she wants him to kiss her but he doesn't get closer to her I don't get it
But she doesn't flirt with him she acts flavorful around him & casual seems like he doesn't like her at all , & I told her that too because I'm a gud friend. I told her that he smiles because he doesn't wanna blow her off
They never really hung out , they only talk if they see eachother randomly ' & anytime she talks to him he's blushing
My friend told me she wants to get him sumwhere private to kiss she thinks he's gonna say no
True players are trash no gud , I told her that if he doesn't try to kiss her then he prob doesn't like her at all. He is much taller maybe it's cus she's shorter
what u mean , shouldn't he already take her sumwhere to kiss her?
If I were him I'd look at my friend mean & serious not blushing
Why would he kiss me anyway all he does is blush
Like as if he's gonna say the truth me & my front could both ask him & he's gonna prob stay quiet or mad lol
He won't do it to my friend he's scared to kiss her lol
Well I don't know if it's blushing or smiling I don't got a clue , I noticed he was smiling with his head down while she was walking away too he is leading her on for no reason. She wants him to kiss her he don't show it
If he is that much dumb then he is not worth it... his loss lol
It's like you can't actually control the other person to do a thing he doesn't want to. If ur friend really wants to kiss him and she has the guts then i m afraid that she will have to make the first move to lean in for a kiss.
Exactly & I'd tell him to stop wasting my friends time cus I wanna say it by now I know my friend will get mad about it. I'm sure he wouldn't let her even if he blushed or w. e he's a dick
Yup so tell me do all guys smile or blush talking to girls? ' do you do it? & Would u smile at a girl you don't like?
So when a guy keeps smiling to himself while touchin his head does he like the girl? If he does why doesn't he just go for the kiss
He's not shy because I've seen him wave at my friend & say hi to her. So since he's shy he wouldn't kiss her if she asked him to?
Actually he's more older prob 16 or 17 & he is taller beside her. Why wouldn't he feel comfortable my friend is nice to him he should feel thankful for that
It's actually pretty simple he's taller then her & he rather look down & smile instead of getting closer to her or something I wanna see some action from my friend & this boy
Maybe it's their life u should let em be like they are. Interfering in such thing may help em for now but it might affect their relationship if they have any future. He is 16 or 17 that means he is big enough to react the way he feels is right. Maybe he don't want to kiss her now as if it's too early. Catalysing such things is not good u needa understand. I can sense that u r trying to protect ur friend it's appreciable but sometimes, it's good to let a person take decision on their own so thar they could learn something from that if u want any help u can simply dm cuz replying here sucks.
Yeah but I don't get it , why does he blush infront of her & not even compliment her at least. Looks to me like he fake blushes I'm gonna get involved & tell him to stop talking to my friend for good
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