Maybe just reiterate that he did say it but that you know he said it on a biochemical rush. That it isn't a big deal just that you were trying to find out what was behind his utterance. Kind of keep a watchful eye and see if there are any other red flags that come up in the future. Unless he really forgot in the heat of the moment, I'd say he was being a bit of a little boy to deny it. That part is a red flag.
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It was said in the heat of the moment. He got carried away. You didn't want him to say it, he didn't want to admit to having said it. So it's really all fine.
Ugh. All that mushy vulnerability love you shit.
Yes it's a bad sign b/c his ass got a dopamine rush and confused it with luuuuv. Disgusting.
Slap some sense into him. You make a man out of him woman! Then again, it's not your job to make a man out of someone who's not. Got dammit!
Yeah I went off a tangent and I'm sober! Cause I can and I want to. Not sorry.
Anything said like that during sex definitely doesn’t count. Because he’s absolutely loving the moment and awesome feeling of it all, but he’s not thinking about you as a partner at the moment, he’s busy gettin busy
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I'd guess after you didn't reciprocate, and then your speech, that he felt embarrassed and wanted to have never said anything.
Maybe he meant it, maybe he was just in a moment of passion.
Let it go, don't speak of it again.You don't just forget you said "I love you" for the first time. My guess is it was a heat of the moment thing, which is fine. The fact that he denies it is not fine tho, definitely a bad sign.
no. spur of the moment and after orgasm mello causes people to do that. the deniel is often either embarassment or really dont remember even saying it
Decisions made in extreme emotions leads to disaster and he made one in that situation so i guess you shouldn't think of it as anything
Bad sign as far as what? I would be most concerned how he had no problem just lying to your face.
Well, it isn't a good sign.
Call him out on it.Yes, forget what is said during sex, I have been called alsorts of things as the heat go on...
I once uttered “I Love You” during first anal sex with my friends with benefits, but never meant it after.
Never believe what a man says during sex.
Also never bring it up afterward.He loved his nut not you
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