Should I meet up with a stranger tonight?

[Anonymous]

I just started talking to him last night. I wanna stay a virgin but we can still do some stuff. I'll bring two knifes with me but I'm just worried if he'll abduct me cause we're gonna be in his car. I'm also scared he'll think I'm ugly and drive off or insult me or hurt me. Do you think he will?

Updates

+1 y

Well I forgot to tell him I didn't wanna do it anymore so he showed up and I went to see him. We just sat in his car and touched a little while we drank vodka. He wasn't scary and was quite nerdy. He thought I was hot. Maybe I'll boost myself to a 7.

[dublin_sexyeyes0]

Are you meeting specifically to have sexual activity? What age is he and where are ye going? Im asking cos 99% of guys are genuine and you'll be quite safe. If he sees the knives he may get nervous that you're going to hurt him. I've met up with lots of girls even the same night. Just meet in a public place where you and him have to walk to his car so you have a few mins to decide further. Im sure you'll be fine just take sensible precautions.

[Asker]

I wanna talk too. He's 29.

[dublin_sexyeyes0]

You can pm me if u want for more.

The least id do before meeting is talk on the phone so you have his number and you can hear his voice too. Like i said I've met with lots of girls within 48hrs of online meet and even some the same night and never any trouble.

[spartan55]

Unless you have a high level of training, taking two knives is not going to make you any safer. In fact, they would likely be used against you. Don't meet this guy after just meeting him. Use some common sense.

[anonymau55]

No, if you have sex or fool around at all that means a pedophile too and that's legally statutory rape. I'm not saying you're too young for anything but stay with a partner your age or close until you turn 18 at the very least or you'll regret it.

[Asker]

I won't regret it because I don't regret being with my ex's. I'm 17 and it's legal here.

[anonymau55]

You're 17; you don't regret it YET.

[Asker]

Why would I regret it? I know one of my ex's who I was with for 4 years wasn't that good of a guy but I mean... I chose to date him. He didn't rape me.

[anonymau55]

You'll see when you get older.

[anonymau55]

How old was your ex? Because I'm not talking about that. I'm saying if you have sex with a guy who's almost 30 when you're not even 20... You will regret that.

[Asker]

If there's actually something to regret what do you think it'll be? It's not like I had sex with them. 😂

[anonymau55]

All of it. When you realize how truly sick it is, you'll be disgusted.

[Asker]

Yea I decided not to see the 29 year old tonight. Everyone convinced me. BUT my two longterm ex's are 26 and 22 now.

[Asker]

Lol I'm not disgusted though. Even when kids are young they say “i knew it was wrong but...” I don't think it's wrong. I've never been hurt by an older man but I've been molested by a 14 year old. I'm not traumatized though and I barely “cared” at the time.

[anonymau55]

I'm speaking from personal experience; I didn't think it was disgusting at the time either.

[Asker]

Well what changes?

[ellkell]

That does not sound like a good idea. It doesn't sound like you're ready for something like this at all. And this is coming from someone who has on multiple occasions , hooked up with strangers

[Asker]

But why not?

[ellkell]

Because you're a young woman with a knife with I'm assuming no superior defense training, meeting a guy in his environment that you also have no control over

[Asker]

Yea you're right.

[sheikalana]

Girl if you're having so many doubts about meeting him then I think you shouldn't go. Follow and trust your instincts.

[Agape93]

This is incredibly, incredibly stupid and dangerous. Sorry hon but knives don’t mean shit if you don’t know how to use them against a bigger and likely more well armed enemy.

[MarkyMark77]

did u enjoy it? do u think u will do it again? also how old was the guy?

[Asker]

I probably will do it again. He was 29. I'll be 18 in 6 days. I don't know if I'll do it with him though, not that I don't like him. I'll just meet the guy in public when I'm 18.

[MarkyMark77]

nice glad it went well! what all did you do with him regarding touching? can we chat about his? i have had similar experiences myself. just follow me on here

[Anonymous]

I think you're not ready for such kind of relationship. Maybe you had better give yourself time.

[Asker]

Why not? Do you think he'll rape me or I'll be too nervous?

[KingdomForAKiss]

Are you seriously considering meeting a strange man while also feeling the need to bring knives?

Seems like you know what the smart thing to do is...

[Asker]

Why would I not bring a knife even if we have been talking for months?

[jett16]

Just wait till your more confident

[Jmmmfi4]

No in general & he's 29? Heeeeeeell no!!!

[SirBearon]

Nope, don't do it.

[asshole_]

Nope

[ÖzCanTR]

No, of course