I’m so fed up with guys flirting with me and then leaving me for another girls... what’s wrong with me or why are you guys such jerks?

[Anonymous]

I’m skinny, beautiful (I was told that), smart. I’m working in IB and I am fine being alone but whenever some guys show up in my life, they start all that talking, getting trust, sharing personal things and when I already think that this is it, I’m going to date him, I see through social media that he’s adding some new other girls... I mean why are you such jerks? Are you all the same?

[_SOARER]

Young guys like to keep options open and keep a rotation of girls.
You need to keep your guard up girl!
Most attractive young college guys who know how to flirt, are probably gonna have a girlfriend already or have a rotation.
I know because I just graduated from a party-school and all my bros, had rotations of girls, to keep alternating, throwing old ones away and adding new ones.

My suggestion is to meet a guy in a Church, or organization that deals with traditional life, culture, or values.
I never had a rotation of girls, because I had enough morality and values. Also I always preferred having a girlfriend.

[David92506]

When I was in college there were a lot of nice-looking men that enjoyed flirting with women. They loved the attention the opposite sex gave them. And most of these young and pretty women were open to their flirtations. They loved the attention they were getting.

Us average looking men didn't have a chance with these young and pretty women because they just wanted to associate with these handsome men who flirted with them. Why are you women so shallow and ignorant that you can't see through these men? Are you all the same?

[David92506]

Thank you for selecting me as one of the Helpful Guys. :)

[MannMitAntworten]

GaG is the closest I get to social media... that being said I hazard to guess that his adding other women does not necessarily mean he is sharing his time with those other women as he does with you. I assume you ask them why they add them and they share their reasoning. I mean, short of being the ‘option’, my guess is that these women are likely strangers, attractive, and there to artificially boost their online egos amongst their guy friends... and maybe even meant to make the women wonder about them or get jealous. Frankly I see a lot of bullshit egos floating around the world wide web who belong to individuals who get terrified by their own shadows.

[Derekk]

It could be a few things. It could either be that these guys are adding these other girls as just friends, or it could be that you're taking too long to decide what you want to do and they're moving on. When there are so many people in the world so easily accessible by technology, it doesn't make sense to wait for one person if you're not emotionally invested.

[DCooper]

At what point do you expect the guy to consider the two of you mutually exclusive? Because it sounds like you're getting offended that he's still dating around when the two of you have just been casually dating a couple times...

[blutwolfe]

I don't know I get used too, are you women all the same?

No not everyone is the same, just stop going after players lol

[NoOneEver]

Well you weren't dating yet...

I think that's really only a thing to complain about if you were in a relationship..

[Prof_Don]

Until the guy is official with you, he is free to be a single man and flirt around and date as many women simultaneously as he wants.

[EyesOfGod]

For one thing men dont care where you work. Two your getting offened my social media, which is stupid. Finally from this post we can see your a drama queen and no one likes a drama queen.

[Anonymous]

No we are not, you are you just dealing with young selfish guys, wait awhile or find an older guy

[shortster]

Not all of us are jerks; but there are certainly a lot of the jerks out there.

[Anonymous]

Some girls aren't girlfriend material, rather they're put in the "fun category". Just like most men aren't "fun material" and will only get access to women if they commit.

[limitedstuff]

It's possible they went for the easier girl

[Thatsamazing]

Yawn post is yawn

[Smirnoff23]

No not all the same