I'm frustrated with dating guys like these?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so every time I date a guy he tells me I'm beautiful, pretty, cute, sexy and hot ALL THE TIME and that they like my hair, looks, style etc. They ALSO tell me I'm smart, kind, funny and have a nice personality. So far so good. AND YET when comes to actually making a real commitment to me, they always back out. I don't understand. It's not like I'm hot, but a bitch, or that I'm nice but ugly. Apparently I've got both beauty and personality (according to them) and yet they don't want me? Why?

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And also: I’m not having sex with these guys

[Anonymous]

Sadly because a lot of those compliments were said to you in order to get you to have sex w them. So you either gave in, they got what they wanted then left. Or you said I’m not that type of girl so they still left. Most men aren’t going after women who are in your age range, not for real relationships at least. For sex sure a lot of men would fuck a cute 35 year old chick. But if it’s for longevity as far as marriage, kids, etc, your chances have slimmed down at your age. It’s not impossible, just harder to achieve. There may be something about you that you don’t realize but it attracts scumbags as well.

[Asker]

I mentioned in the update I’m not having sex with them, and because of our culture they knew sex was off the table. And I wrote my age wrong, I’m 26

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you’re coming off as not approachable? It’s hard to say w out actually knowing you myself. That may just be the thing as far as not having sex which means most of them really aren’t even interested in a real relationship. Exactly how long would this person have to wait? Does that mean you’re a virgin?

[Asker]

Im waiting for marriage, so yes a virgin. Heheh, and I think you’re right, I think these men aren’t really looking for anything serious to begin with.. but there must be something wrong with me as I keep giving the wrong ones a chance time after time

[Opinion Owner]

It’s possible. Not to blame you but as some would say what is the key factor in all of this that is constant? You. But the key factor in all of this in general is men, so they could be the issue. I don’t know. It could be men if I think about it w out k owing you. I say that because nowadays men aren’t willing to work for a girl’s hand in marriage. But at the same time I can say that is due to women as well for not holding those standards, giving it up like it’s going out of style. So men don’t even have to try hard these days. If she’s not willing to give it up there’s always others who are so they move on.

[Guy13]

Professional organization in your field gatherings. Museums etc formally planned exhibits etc. tons of stuff to do and meet at

[Asker]

what?

[Guy13]

Get out more.

[Asker]

I am though? That’s how I’ve met all these men?

[LazerBean]

Because either you do something to specifically attracts losers, or you just don't do a good enough job vetting out to the losers who approach you.

[Anonymous]

I think that 95% of people on dating sites are just looking for sex.

[Samhanks]

It's good u r not having sex with such type of guys, these guys are just flattering you to pass their time. To make a commitment is not easy for anyone, it takes deep thinking, being in Real Love and fully understanding each other. You too have to consider these facts before YOU make a commitment to any guy.

[Asker]

But would they be talking to me if they’re not at all physically attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

You realize all guys compliment women right. So that really isn't worth... well anything.😆😆😆

But why don't they want you. Because they don't want any woman really. Not for anything lasting anyhow. Want this to change choose better men.

[Asker]

You’re saying men like this don’t really want a relationship?

[Shamalien]

Men in general are hesitant to commit these days. Gotta find a man at the right stage in life. You’d be surprised though…the women who do have men willing to commit to them are the first to find something else to complain about and reject them!

[RavVid]

What type of commitment are you looking for and how soon are you expecting it? You might be rushing it.

[Hellraiser1984]

They may think you are out of their league. Or they might find you intimidating in the sense they may not find you easy. Your intelligence intimidates them.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think it's you. They probably don't want to commit to anyone. You have to first pick a man who's actually interested in a relationship.

[Luckycharms12]

Because you fucked them they got what they wanted and left

[Asker]

I didn’t fuck any one of these we just talked

[Luckycharms12]

If fuck to soon or don't fuck guy will lose interest

[PatriceONeal]

They lied to get sex becuase they knew you'd let them

[frankdavido]

Hello babe